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  1. xxatti
    It's mostly about her being comfortable with you. Start slow, build the comfort level and work your way up.
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    17 with a 24 year old chick. Damn, I envy you man.
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    I didnt finish reading this whole post, but who cares what these people want to believe. You know what the truth is and the only person you need to be concerned with is this shy guy. (not the sister, or the mother, or your ex.) You prove yourself through your actions, not what other people say about you, so let them talk. If your shy guy wants to believe ridiculous rumors and not what you're telling him and demonstrating to him through your actions then that's his loss. Damn, you might even want to use that last sentance if the right opportunity arises for it.
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    Sometimes when a girl likes you she will try not to let it show (or mask her attraction)... which obviously doesnt help the guy who is trying to read the signals. It also could be that she is getting discouraged with the fact that she's shown interest in you and you still have not even talked to her. But you wont know which one it is unless you talk to her.
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    Your problem is even more complicated because you have to consider your kids. So I wouldnt feel right giving you any advice. But I dont think I would stick around and subject myself to what you're going through. I mean, Its been a over a year and 1/2 and you still havent got past it.
  6. xxatti
    I totally agree. This girl is no good. She's just trying to controll you. I say get rid of her.
  7. xxatti
    I think she likes you. I say go talk to her.
  8. xxatti
    I feel for you, but honestly I really believe she's telling you the truth about the relationship. I think it's time to accept it and push her away. If she really is having psychological problems causing her to feel as she does towards you, then she will realize the mistake she made when you are no longer there.
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    Sure a girl would prefer a good looking guy. Obviously. But thats not to say that average or below average looking guys are out of luck. How many times have you seen the gorgeous model with some guy that makes you say "what is HE doing with her?!" It happens all the time. A lot has to do with factors other than looks. I've known guys that could be models who had NO women because they lacked these other important qualities.
  11. xxatti
    Well its ultimately up to you. But if there's no trust anymore, then the relationship is pretty much doomed. I would tell him you need some time to sort things out. That should slow down the incessant calls. You could try and take things slowly and see if you can build your trust back. But after a certain point, if you cant, you just have to accept that and try to move on.
  12. xxatti
    Short answer... yes, I believe you're setting yourself up. Do you guys live together? What would disturb me most is if she has both you and this other guy in the picture at the same time, without any disregard for your son.
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    Well, if you're already doing all the things gf and bf do, then just keep doing what you're doing. If in her mind, she wants to believe that you two are just "friends" then so be it. The way I see it is you're in the perfect situation, "friends with benefits." Every guy will envy you.
  14. xxatti
    Need more information. How did the relationship end? What has he been telling you as far as his feelings for you lately?
  15. xxatti
    Neither of those exercises work out the back. The 1st options you gave is for shoulders. If you want to work upper back using free weights, then you have to do bent over rows. You can use either a dumbell or barbell. For lower back you can either do deadlifts or do lowback extensions.
  16. xxatti
    Yes. You already know she wants to talk to you, so in a sense you cant loose. My best advice would be just to go up to her and say "Hi."
  17. xxatti
    Well, Im not a girl, but yes. Happens all the time.
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    I believe she honestly forgot your Bday. She even said it, and apolagized for it. I dont think she's sending you any signals. Seems like you're trying to make things out to be signals in your own mind. I think you're over analysing things. BTW did she sleep in the bed with you that night? And if so was she cuddled up next to you?
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    The only person you should believe is Alex. But does it really matter? I mean, if you say dont really like him anyways?
  20. xxatti
    Hmm... straight, to the point. That might work when you're 14, but as you get older your gonna have to come up with some more creative stuff.
  21. xxatti
    Seems like you already forgot what I told you in your previous post.
  22. xxatti
    This is why friends shouldnt get involved with friends ex's.
  23. xxatti
    I think you just need to relax. You're stressing WAY too much over this sit. When you go back to camp just try to hang out with her and try to build a good rappor. Dont come on too strong, you'll probably just scare her off. Just relax and let things happen naturally. You'll come out looking much better in her eyes that way, and given the situation Im willing to bet that it will probably work out like you want it to.
  24. xxatti
    Well, some people, especially girls love to place the line of when you cross virginity all over the place. A girl can claim she's a virgin, yet have given oral to every guy in town. So I have a formula that I go by. If you've had either vaginal or anal intercourse, you are no longer a virgin as far as Im concerned. 2nd, if you've given or received oral from more than 2 people then you are no longer a virgin in my book.
  25. xxatti
    I dont know. I get the feeling that if he wanted to get back with you, he would at least be making an attempt. Did you ever think that maybe despite your feelings for each other, that he doesnt want to get involved with you again (at least not right now). I mean, you said yourself you broke his heart. If it were me, I might use you for the emotional support, like he's doing, but I'd be hesitant to get involved with you again. Would leaving the picture make him realize that you're what he really wants?? Maybe, but if he's thinking like this picture I painted, then maybe not. But if he's what you really want, then it doesnt hurt to try.
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