baby_gurl08

crush--about 3rd grade, 8/9 years old? date--no actual date, unless you wanna count the late night trips to town...at 14 kiss--14...it was horrible! virgin--glad to say, still am one!

Thanks...I've told my friend that I don't like him like that and keep reminding him of his gf, but I need to tell him to quit period and he was mad what my ex-bf did to me, he's kind of doing the same thing, Thanks for replying

I Don't Know How to start this so I'll just jump right in- One of my (guy) friends, started to like me, and told me this, and later asked me out, I said yes, as I liked him too... for the first couple of days he acted like we were going out, but after that, he hardly paid attention to me... last wednesday, after a month we broke up, well he never told me this, but told one of my friends when she asked that we weren't going out...which, it wasn't the end of the world, I figured I'd be ok...and I was for the most part, I didn't mind being around him at all, but he couldn't stand to be around me...which, I got over pretty fast...until... The day after we broke up, he asked out my best friend...she asked me to make sure I didn't mind, and I told her the truth that it hurt me a lot, but I wanted them to be happy so go for it and better luck to her... this really bothered me, I cried and felt so upset over it, even though before, I hadn't felt anything for him, I feel better now, but it still hurts me... To top it all off, my best (guy) friend, told me he loved me today, and really wants to be with me, even tho he is going out with another one of my bff's... I'm not sure what I was asking of you people, maybe just to listen to me...thanks

I definitly say go for it! There's 4 years between my bf and I, I don't think 3 (or 4) is much of an age gap at all! Just be careful!

Thanks, that helped me a bunch... you're both right!

The Guy I like {Ryan} is 2 years and 9 months older than me, and has said, that if it wasn't for his dad, he would most likely go out with me. His dad says he is too old for me and won't let him go out with me... I kno there isn't much you can do, but is there anything? He didn't exactly say he liked me, but... he can't really go against his dad...i don't think that is much of an age gap, but I guess i have no say in it... anyone have any ideas on what i should do?

I'm 14 and in 8th grade, the guy I like is 17 and in 11th grade, I think, as long as you do take it slow that it is ok, just make sure you don't push her to do anything and respect that she is still 3 years younger than you. Don't take advantage of her...... I really believe that it can work out for you, just as long as you go slow and treat your relationship carefully.