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I think you do more dammage by sticking around in a worthless mariage solely for the sake of the kids, as opposed to getting separated or divorced and providing a healthier environment for your kids. BTW, kids arent stupid you know, a lot of times they know a lot more about what you're doing on the D.L. than you may think.

I KNOW your not coming on here, telling everyone how your cheating on your husband of ten years with the man who's married to your cousin, and expecting to get sympathetic responses to your situation?!! Well you wont get it from me. I have no sympathy for you, not to mention that from your post I gather that you are a very shallow and selfish person. It's a shame that you and your cousins husband are such sad individuals. Just remember the saying that what goes around comes around.

Do girls like you? Listen to what you just said... (I did notice something she did sometimes, she would come over while I was flirting with this girl that liked me Why you didnt hook up with that girl is beyond me, but there's the answer to your question. Just dont complain about how you dont have any opportunities.

Get a prescription for Accutane. All other products and medications are crap.

Gilgamesh Ahh, words of wisdom. I was laughing while I read this thread because I knew what the end was gonna be before it happened.

Slight curves to the left, right, up, or down are normal. As long as the curve is not over 20-25º or so you should be fine. It's a good thing I have a medical backround isnt it.

Yeah, it sounds like this guy is probably just really shy. Which means you may have to make a move if you want to go out with him because he probably wont be able to do it.

Lol!!! Yeah, I guess they werent too bright at desguising their age.

Fate... as in whatever happens was destined to happen and there's nothing you can do about it?? The problem is that not everyone believes in fate. So I guess only the believers will respond to you.

You dont really know that for sure because he never followed up with her, for reasons I cant understand. The only way to be sure is to find out if she blows him off again.

1. Yes 2. You called her to ask her out before, so why couldnt you do it again.

Ok, so he didnt use you. If you're fine with it then so am I.

You dont have to pull her away from the crowd. Just GET HER # BEFORE YOU LEAVE!! That's all there is to it. If you dont get her#, then you have no way to keep in contact with her. Which means nothing will ever happen between you two.

Exactly Gilgamesh.

What... you cant gain weight??? As in physically? If that's her problem with you then sorry to say, but I think she's being really shallow. I've never heard of a girl dumping a guy because he couldnt gain weight.

How old is this girl? And how is it you have her address, but cant call her? Im not a fan of the letter thing. Most of the time when a guy pours his heart out to a girl in a letter it ends up in disaster. If you're going to send the card, then I'd go ahead and do the letter, but I wouldnt go in depth with it. Anything deeper than an "I miss having you around or write me sometime" and you're just setting yourself up.

This is interesting... normally it's the guy going through these motions. Now you now how nervracking it can be for some people . But, Im glad to see girls not afraid to step up to the plate and go after what they want. BTW, I'd forget about that mall idea. No guy wants to go shopping with a girl. We hate that.

Now he's using the "it's not you, its me line"?? I think you need to wake up and face reality. This guy is doing exactly what I would be doing if I slept with a girl I didnt want a relationship with. Sorry, but I just dont buy that he hooked up with you by accident. Ask yourself this... did you sleep with him more than once? And when did he decide he wanted to put a stop to it, was it after you had that little talk about where you and he stand?? I think once you realize that when you answer yes to these questions, you will see that he used you. It sucks, but sometimes thats the way it goes. Take this as a learning experience.

It all depends on your calories. If you eat more than you expend you wont loose anything. Cardio is cardiovascular exercise i.e. walking the treadmill, or stationary bike. You dont burn protein first. What your body uses for fuel depends on you level of intensity. If your intensity is high enough where there is an oxygen deficite, your body will prefer to burn carbohydrates. Once your carbohydrate stores run out, then your body will start going to protein.

I really need more information. I hate to use the word mindgames, but a lot of girls at that age love to play them. And this right here from your previous post has me confused "and she asked my best friend if i was mad at her. and he sent me the conversation. and it said she hadnt been so honest with me. and mike asked her why dont you talk to him. and she said i dont want to tell him online." She wasnt honest about what??

My thoughts exactly

WRONG!! You cannnot do spot reduction to get rid of bodyfat. Thats to say, doing situps will not burn bodyfat in your abdominal area. The human body doesnt work like that. As a matter of fact, I rarely work out abs. I could not do a single situp and diet for 8-12wks and my abs would look amazing. Maybe not as sharp, but you wouldnt be able to notice the difference. What is your bodyfat% at right now. To get to where you can see abs, most guys normally have to get to around 10% or lower. Diet is very important. Whats most important is your caloric intake. There's a lot of complicated stuff that goes into it that I dont want to get into right now. 1st off, the body is very able to adapt to what you do to it. You have to change up your diet from time to time to keep your body guessing so it cant adapt to what you're doing to it if you really want to reach low level bodyfat%. Cardio, well I dont think you should have to do cardio more than twice a day. BTW if your intensity level is too high when your doing your cardio, you will be burning mostly carbs and then protein... NOT FAT. There are a lot of tricks you can do with your diet to get you where you want to be... as I said I cant cover it all here. PM me if you want more info. Trust me, I know what Im talking about. I do a little bodybuilding and I studied a lot of this stuff for years too for my career field.

What was the fight about? A lot of times when people have feelings for each other, they can get frustrated when things arent happening the way they want them to. This is especially the case when the two people havent hooked up yet. As a result they start to get upset with the person over little frivalous things.

I wouldnt say anything. You want her to call you because she wants to, not because you're forcing her to. If you tell her you're not going to call, your almost forcing her to call you. Then you get your phonecall, but its not genuine. Just find something to do for the week, or sit at home, play videogames, and pretend you're too busy to call her. Im betting she calls in about 3days.

The reality is that only a small percentage of the male population can embody this type of "balance" as you put it. thereforeeee, these guys get all the girls and the rest of the people come to forums like this to b*tch and complain about why women arent attracted to them.