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when friends need to keep to themselves
EmptySoul replied to Almostfamous19's topic in Friendship and Friends
personally, i hate people getting into my business like that unless i ask them to. you have a right to be mad at this person and i think this girl is wise in the choice she made. i would tell your friend that you are NOT joking, that you dont want to hear what him and this girl did, and that he needs to stay the hell out of your business cuz hes screwing everything up. 0X -
people are just judgemental. no you didnt deserve to be treated how you did. just be yourself and if they dont like it, well screw em'. i know from experience how hard it is to put up with peoples $hit but just be yourself, have fun be strong and be real. someone has to. 8)
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in my opinion, the idea of that much commitment seems to scare you a little bit, even though you really love this guy. i dont think there's anything wrong with that. what's important is that you love each other. i think since you 2 get along well you shouldnt let something like that worry you. focus a little more on now, and not so much on the future.
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as a girl "i'll think about it" can mean one of 2 things. it prolly either means she didn't really want to or she just really had to think about it. since her friend or whoever said that she likes you, i would consider that a point toward "she actually had to think about it"
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my x, whom i love,& my bff started talking on the phone @ my house. my x had been asking me out all summer & i was planning on saying yes finally. my x asked my bff if she would ever have sex with him & he told her that he liked her. since i care about these 2 people more than any1, i put aside my feelings about this & gave my best friend the blessing 2 ask this guy out. he ended up saying no 2 her cuz he said he didnt know her good enough. after that i was even more confused, but not mad. i called this guy tonight. i didnt mention the sex part but i did ask about liking my friend. he said he didnt know what he was thinking when he talked to her, that im the only one for him, that he loves me, that he made a promise not to hurt me like all the other guys & he really wants to keep it & that he was really sorry. he also said that he totally trusts me now (i think because of what i was willing to do) & he has everything worked out now. i could tell from his voice that he wasn't lying. i know every1 who answers this will prolly tell me to get the hell away from this guy, but, to quote a song "if u could only see the way he loves me, maybe you would understand, why i feel this way about our love & i what i must do..." opinions /thoughts?
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The music fills my very soul "A thousand lies have made me colder. "("here without u" 3doorsdown) And I don't think I can look at this the same" i am suspicious of everyone trusting of almost no one and every day i stare at the mirror and try to decide between hating those who have made me this way or hating myself for choosing them every day as i do my makeup and my hair and slip on that invisible mask that protects me from the world my patched up heart wonders where the lies stop and the truth begins *sorry, i know the writing in this poem SUCKS. its 2:30 am and im tired, but i needed to get the message out lol.*
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the love you have for this guy is amazing and its great that you found god. also, ur writing is good. i know exactly how you feel, something like that happened to me, except i had to see the guy with his new beautiful, perfectly nice-but-not-too-nice-skinny-but-not-anorexic-skinny girlfriend. lol. believe me, it cut down on my self esteem and feelings of self worth majorly. see, the problem is, no matter how much you love someone, you CANT lose yourself in them. you still have to have your own friends (*if you fall in love and abandon your friends, then if/when your love hits a bump then where are you going to find a shoulder to cry on or a ear to listen?*) and your own personality. you have to learn to have confidence in yourself and your apperance whether you hear something good from a guy or not. guess what? that guy i mentioned...i was nice to his new gf, didnt mope around, didnt try to screw up his new relationship, and now hes spent the whole summer trying to get me back. just goes to show...love can find a way... 8) just be who u r, guy or not...hope i helped
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since you have known this girl for a while, i think the best thing to do would just to do little things for her that hint that u really like her and see how she responds. if she responds in a way that makes u absolutely sure she likes you back, then say something to her about it, go out somewhere, etc. have fun!
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sleeping wih this girl wasnt right considering that her bf was ur friend, but also, you really seem to love/ care about the girl, so i can see why you did it. and also, you feel bad too so that helps... this is a bad situation so the best thing that i can think of is look at it like this: what is more important to you? her happiness, your friends happiness, or your own happiness? theres probably something you loose with each one of those choices; the girl, your friend, or your own happiness, but you have to make a choice sooner or later. it just depends where ur loyalty lies. *tru love is not caring what happens to you as long as the other person is happy* *if you fall in love and ditch all your friends, then when/if something goes wrong with that love, where r u going to find a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen?*
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ur right- if shes with someone else and happy then she really shouldnt be calling you, especially when its not helping u feel any better. i would ask her what is her reason for calling you. if it was out of spite, i think she would have stopped already, but the way she is doing it seems to be to try to make you jealous or something, and to want to do that, it would be likely that she still has some type of feelings for you...that is just what i think... 8) also, when a girl has to brag about a relationship it usually means the relationship isnt as good as shes making it out to be...
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wow you sound so much like me its not even funny... lol. i loved a guy he loved me we both screwed up tried to move on...but guess what, it didnt work. we still love each other. and everything with other guys is fun but always missing something....so yes it majorly screws stuff up with other guys, and if that guy ur recently with really likes you, is it right to be with him when you care so much about/love that other guy? prolly not lol. this situation would be so easy to solve is this guy liked you back, but from what you said, he doesnt... if you are determined to keep liking this guy, you should break it off or just take a breather with this recent guy and try to get the other one. just make sure you're not seeming desperate-that might be part of the problem. maybe play hard to get or try to make him jealous or something. if none of this works, the only thing left to do is move on...it would be hard considering how much u seem to like him, but being in love ALONE isnt a love thats meant to be...
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I believe that at my age (14) it is very possible to love someone, and i also believe that I am in love. i'm mature about this kind of thing and don't believe in love at first sight, since i think you need to get to know someone... Do you believe it is possible to truly love someone at my age? Also, I seem to be constantly changing my views on sex. Some days I think, (though im not planning on having sex right now) you should wait till you're like at least 18 or married. But others I think what if I died soon and never got the chance to do that and other fun things? I can't seem to decide how to look at life. Look at situations carefully and make a decision regarding your future, or try to be as safe as possible while still having a ton of fun and doing what you want? ? ?
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i Rushed into things like a bull goin at a red blanket
EmptySoul replied to a topic in Breaking Up Advice
i would just explain to this girl what you feel: that shes just not your type. there's no point in being with someone that you dont want to be with... -
does love hurt? Am i second guessing myself?
EmptySoul replied to AngelicStar5's topic in Relationship Advice
man, people like him bug me. ok girl, love/ a relationship should make you feel good, happy. obviously he's NOT. you are doing everything in this relationship and hes being an a**. it would be very hard, considering you love him, but DUMP HIM. just do it and spend time with your friends. you need to be happy just being yourself and being with your friends. you dont want to be someone who is miserable unless around a guy they like. maybe you want to stay in this relationship. its ur choice. but it sounds like its only going to get worse... -
it seems there are a lot of people who have cyber sex. what are your opinons about this? do you enjoy it? think it is wrong? disgusting? what is your opinon...
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So depressed by rejection that even solicits suicide
EmptySoul replied to alder st's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
in my opinon what this girl did was rude. i think you should get ahold of her and ask her straight out why she never called you and what she honestly really feels about you. please dont commit suicide because of something like this. dont make a permanent choice to go with a problem that isnt going to last forever. if you do, you'll never know what could have been... -
wow. you sound like you really love/loved this woman. what she has done to you is not right at all. if she is leaving you for some other guy...well if you love someone and they dont love you back its not meant to be, no matter what you feel for that person. no matter what happens you can get though it, just take it one step at a time, one day at a time. i wish you luck...
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i try my best to be confident in my appearance, personality, everything because i believe things go much better when you're confident, and also usually people like a confident person better than someone whos not. im not really as confident as i act tho. i just found out today tho that people think that im cocky and think that any guy who even says "hi" to me, i think hes in love with me. i dont believe anything even close to this, and it really hurts me that people think that im like this. what should i do?
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personally, i dont think anyone needs a friend like this. yeah sometimes it is hard to keep a secret, but if she has done anything like this before, id say its time to dump her. whatever you feel is right...
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the guy im in love with knew that one of my good friends bf's (who is his good friend) had lied to her, saying that he hadnt called her a bi*** when he had. my guy even saved his friends butt by telling my friend that her bf hadnt really said anything and that he had just made it up. so this ended in my friend hating my guy and trying to beat him up. (imagine it 4'11" girl with 5'6" guy LOL) anyway, it was bugging me really bad that her bf had got away with this, so despite what my guy told me to do, i told my friend what had really happened. she got mad at her bf for a minute (without saying anything to him about it) then started feeling bad that she had slapped and hit an innocent guy and then told me that if anything like that happens i should tell her immedietly. so i thought the situation was over, but then i talked to my guy and he asked me straight out if i told my friend. i lied and said no. he told me not to tell her, and i know if he finds out i told her he wont trust me anymore. i felt like it was the right thing to do, but now i feel bad cuz i lied to my guy and we have sweared that we wont lie to each other....(sorry this was so long)
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how much do guys actually enjoy fingering a girl?? or is it just something to do in the hopes that the girl will do something good for them afterward?
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I have Crush on someone! Don't I love my girlfriend?
EmptySoul replied to Sway's topic in Relationship Advice
as a girl, and going through some issues with males, if you have a crush on someone else, no it doesnt mean you dont love the person you're with. its really hard to just focus on one person all the time; every once in a while, someone else might catch your eye. if you have a serious crush on someone else, you shouldnt stay with your girlfriend tho....or you should talk to her or something... -
wow. im not sure about the legal stuff, but it sounds like lindas husband has serious issues. i see no way that she can be happy living with someone like that. if the children's mother is so unhappy, how are lindas children ever going to be happy. linda's husband has lied way too much for anything to work, even if he did fess up. no matter what linda feels for this man, it would be better for her and her children to get out of this twisted man's life. he pretty much has another wife, he has kids, and hes taking control over linda's life too. even when you get married you still have to have your friends and family and your own identity and who you are. it seems this man is taking all this away. i really think it would be the best thing for her and her children to LEAVE. i hope she makes a wise decision soon...
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i dont know exactly what answer you're looking for, so im just saying what i think. everyone has bad days where you feel like everything just sucks. yes our world today is bad and so is the way a lot of people get treated. in my opinon just go through life, be happy and try to help thoughs who arent. have a good attitude and things will seem a lot better.
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whats the best way to be smoothe and not get razor burn (ow) or bumps or anything? i read that if you shave downward, so you're not going against the grain, it will keep you from getting razor burn or anything, but it was impossible to be completely smoothe and there was still razor burn. i even use shaving cream...any ideas?