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EmptySoul

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  1. did she tell you not to kiss her? if she didnt tell you id keep trying cuz it just sounds like shes nervous or scared. EmptySoul
  2. hey! if i were your girl i wouldnt make a big deal about it. it just shows shes doing a good job of making you happy lol. don't worry about it. EmptySoul
  3. my first kiss my little bro and sis were around so i was a nervous wreck lol. EmptySoul
  4. it seems a lot of the time when a girl tries to explain her emotions to a guy they are too complicated for him to understand. like if she really cares about someone, but doesn't want to be with them. or if she loves someone, but doesn't like them anymore... things like that. EmptySoul
  5. hey slider you're right, he is a bad boy...and yeah everyone, that's what makes me like him. oh god he's confident, he draws the line between confident and cocky. he makes up for it though; before we went out last year, on valentines day the school sold carnations, and if someone bought one they could have someone bring it to you during class. he bought one and had it brought to me, then checked the next day to make sure i got it. 8) EmptySoul
  6. hey Hero_99 just thought i'd say no i don't live near that place. i've never even heard of it! but the majority of our town seems to be always smoking something. EmptySoul
  7. hey everyone... the other day i talked to a guy i went out with last year. (i don't even consider him an x because i've changed so much in my relationships with guys between then and now.) he's 17, has a reputation for smoking weed etc. he's had sex with more than one girl. he goes to church/youth group every so often, and has made a habit of not saying god's name in vain. i almost never hear him swear. i really don't know how to think of him. he's hilarious and fun to be around. i still can't figure him out. he doesn't seem to be one of those guys who hide behind a religion and sex doesn't seem to be a must when he gets a girlfriend. any ideas people? i never know if i should keep my guard up because he's a player, watch my language around him, or if i should be wild or what. EmptySoul
  8. hello. you may not want to go for this idea, but it is something i would do. you seem to really care about this guy, but your past is keeping you from letting your guard down. i'd write him a letter, telling him exactly how you feel, all the good things and why you argue and everything. (you don't have to tell him everything, just give him an idea) that way when you start to worry about getting hurt he can look back on that letter and know how you really feel, even if you don't show it. EmptySoul
  9. hello. if you think this guy is just shy, i'd try saying things to him over time that would make him more confident and comfortable around you. (compliments, show interest in him.) EmptySoul
  10. Hey boy. Sounds like you should be happy! From what all the guys at my school say, 6 inches is average, and you're only 14, so... EmptySoul
  11. hey. from what ive heard from most peole 6 inches is average so dont worry about it. im 14 and have considered having sex but she's 12! well, if you're sure you're ready then, okay. just be careful. EmptySoul
  12. I know it would be hard, but i've heard of this happening to someone. she kept her first baby and put the 2nd one up for adoption, because she knew it would be way too hard to care for it. EmptySoul p.s. i'm 14 too pm if u want
  13. i know this sounds stupid, but confidence helps so much. there are guys that their personality is a big part of what makes them look good.! EmptySoul
  14. One of the best things i've heard about that type of thing is "If you're not sure, then don't do it" wait until you are 105% sure of what you want to do before you do anything. EmptySoul
  15. there's really not a whole lot you can do. when i switched from sports bra, to regular, to push up etc., people started thinking i stuffed my bra. but once you're the same size for a while people should shut up... EmptySoul
  16. my new boyfriends step sis (my x best friend) got pissed at him for going out with me(she doesnt like me) so now she's going to think we broke up, but we're really going out behind her back. i hate that she put him in this position and that we have to do this! (they are really close, and she wouldnt talk to him because of going out with me) i think it's wrong to use their closeness to control his relationship with me! plus shes putting stress on him that he doesn't deserve! comments please! EmptySoul
  17. the good thing about you both having braces is that you're both probably equally worried. don't be just let it happen. worrying messes stuff up more than anything. EmptySoul
  18. i agree. i think she was probably wanting to tell you that she just likes you as a friend, or maybe as more than a friend, but not enough to go out with. i think she was trying to do it in a way that wouldnt hurt you. EmptySoul
  19. wow, you've just described how i've felt for a long time! i dont feel like that anymore though, now im in i dont care! mode im glad theres someone else out there who felt the same. EmptySoul
  20. i don't know any success stories about getting back together, (it didn't work for me and boy did i try) but here's some advice: in getting back together, TRUST is really important, even if/when it's hard to come by. also, try to make sure you're not doing anything you will regret in the near future, because the more mistakes two people have had to put behind them, the harder it is. (elephants and people are alike- they dont ever really forget, forgive, but not forget) EmptySoul
  21. hello. you said you felt bad for the ways you treated her and you want to tell her you love her. write a letter, get it all out, eveything that you want to say. read it see how it sounds. maybe give it to her? try to understand how she feels. "time heals all wounds" (really it does) but you have to try to help yourself too. EmptySoul
  22. first, try to think of how this girl is feeling? but i understand how you're feeling too. if you just can't handle her, it would be better to just tell her. But if you care enough about her to try to make things work still, then i'd just try to be there for her as much as possible, and eventually she'll probably open up more, especially to you. i can understand why she isn't trusting of men, considering the circumstances. don't judge her by her past, just go by what you're learned from being around her, what attracted you to her, and what you feel like you should do. EmptySoul
  23. hey! don't beat yourself up about it! i don't think you did that bad! depending on this girls personality, she may have liked how things went. you don't need to be in such a big rush. 8) Plus, if she wants to go faster, I'm sure she'll let you know lol. EmptySoul
  24. sometimes love in itself isn't enough to make things work between two people. don't be depressed though, even though what you're going through is hard on you. maybe explain to her how you feel, ask her how she feels about you, and about the new guy she is with. then give her some more time, see what happens. EmptySoul
  25. I'm a girl, and I'm not sure what it could be. (Maybe you got hit really hard in the stomach or something?) But, I would recommend going to a doctor, soon! EmptySoul
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