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cpc28655

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  1. Well, I will tell you what my dad said when I was 16 and going on my first date. Keep in mind that my dad is a good man, but has a very odd sense of humor. he said: Chris, there are 3 types of women in this world. 1, the ones that keep us men from burning down the planet. 2, the ones that could care less if we burn it down or not. and 3, the ones that are holding the match for us while we are pouring the gasoline. I like the last one. I like the last one too, lol. In other words, I look for a lady that can match wits with me. Not one who is uptight all the time.
  2. If there is a larger city nearby, then they might have some kind of comedy club. That is a personal favorite of mine. It may sound silly, but I have found that a setting like that really makes everything more relaxed and positive, especially if you are nervous. Keep in mind, I think that sense of humor is one of the most important things to look for. What a great way to find out, lol.
  3. oh, ok. now I understand what you mean.
  4. I have one question. How do you determine if someone is "more crippled then they really are?"
  5. Prejudice. To date someone before finding out they have some prejudice against race, religion,.....you get the idea. I have never encountered this problem on a date, but just the thought makes me mad. I can put up with alot of things. Toliet paper for example, it takes longer to complain about it then it does to simply change it. Bodily functions, we all do it. I guess it depends on the time and place. That would not be an INSTANT turn off, but if talking about that problem didn't help, then it would eventually lead to a turn off. Bad jokes or laughing hard at their own jokes. I can live with this. If they are able to amuse themselves that well, more power to them.
  6. That's odd. College removed any inhibitions that remained, lol. Isn't that the point of college, other then the education?
  7. A week to live? When I was 19, it only took me about an hour to attach a banner under the local "Captian D's" sign that said "2 nuts"! In other words, if it was that important to me, I think I could find a way to have a few "experiences" before the clock stopped ticking. If all you want is to get close to a female, it can be done.
  8. That is what is known as a "conflict of intrest." My advice, avoid it like the plauge. However, this is ONLY my opinion.
  9. There are going to be people (men and women) that go for looks while ignoring personality, and vice versa. However, I think that these are rare, extreme cases. I believe for the most part, people look for a balance between physical attractiveness and compatible personality. The good news is that everybody is a "perfect 10" to somebody, somewhere.
  10. What I normally do is situations like that is say something so outragous, that people don't wanna go there again. I used to have a supervisor that was bad for saying "This is how we did it in Florida." He said it constantly, to everyone. I could have said "this isn't Florida" like everyone else, but no. I said, "So what, Florida is shaped like a &%^&%!!!!" That was the last time I heard him say anything about Florida. Perhaps a remark like "I see some thunder in your future" will get the point accross.
  11. Not all guys. Personally, I do NOT care much for it. There is NOTHING wrong with it, its just a personal preference. just like preferring coke over pepsi. Don't ask me why, I don't know. For some reason it just makes me very uncomfortable. That being said, I agree with the others on this. Ask him. Even given my feelings on this matter, I would not let it get in the way of getting to know a nice lady.
  12. I would have to say that it depends on exactly WHY I'm trying to get her attention. Could you elaborate please?
  13. Couldn't have said it better myself. I have been guilty of that.
  14. Believe me, I understand. I have forgotten what it is like too. And the sad part is, I don't care.
  15. I tend to use my humor to get myself through life's "bumps in the road". If we look at the big picture, and see some of the things people have done to one another through the divorce process, what I did was very minor. I can move on now.
  16. well, you'd have to read the sentiment printed on the card. the rules prevent me from typing it in this thread.
  17. link removed I sent her 80 rolls. it was worth every penny. I know she received them, because I checked the tracking number. But I know my ex, she probably got really mad, but she isnt going to say anything to me to avoiding feeding my sense of humor. However, she is compulsive, she will be unable to throw them away, she will use them.
  18. Even though my divorce has been uneventful, the last couple of years of my marriage were not happy ones. If I were to describe to you what she put me through, you would all flee from your computers in horror, lol. Anyway, I decided that I needed to express my feelings in a way that would leave a lasting impression. I found a website that does custom printed toliet paper. I still have my copy of the wedding photos. I'll let you deduce the rest of the story on your own. I'm glad she is 1000 miles away.
  19. I've read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. One I realized that I wasn't reading a science fiction novel, it is a very good book.
  20. Don't like it at all. I've used plentyoffish ONLY to talk to people. Have never met anyone from the net, and never will. Nothing wrong with it, just a personal prefrence.
  21. Don't take this the wrong way, but I would suggest professional help. If it is that serious, then that is the best way to go.
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