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Not according to her coworkers. She has no record of this type of behavior before. But of course, they don't know everything, so it is possible. However, it is not likely.

It is the complacentcy that bothers me. Allow me to offer a crude, but effective comparison. At the hospital I work in, we have something called a "code pink". This means infant abduction. Even though there has never been a baby abducted in this hospital's 100 year history, code Pinks get called literally about 3 times an hour. I'll elaborate. The hospital fits a baby with an electronic braclet soon after it is born. On the 3rd floor of this hospital (which is peds and the family center) there are sensors in the walls at every hallway intersection, and every patient room. If a baby is carried past one of these sensors without proper authorization, it trips the system. This causes all kinds of hell, lol. It locks down the entire 3rd floor using magnetic seals on all exits, prevents the elevators from opening on the third floor, and sounds a code pink. This is usually caused by someone not doing their job. Like taking a baby to x-ray without following the proper procedures (entering the code, swiping the employee's badge, ect.) causing the system to trip. The point is that everytime this happens, everybody does their assigned duties. My department watches the 2 exits at the south end of the loading dock. Even though it never happens, complacentcy could result in it happening.

you misunderstand, no hostility intended. i promise

I would say that is one step past flirting. Sounds like he was actually coming onto you. Good luck, lol.

an issue of safety???? this is truly the least educated statement I have read on this forum to date. Just because women commit far less violent crimes then men, does not mean they are not able to do so. Last time I checked, women have 2 hands and 5 fingers just like men do. Now, I am not a doctor, but this indicates to me that they are just as able to operate guns, knives, ect. as us men are.

the restraining order remark was only a metaphore, lol.

I agree that the sexist angle is complete garbage. That is making the problem more general than it needs to be.

So it is a matter of vengeance? So exactly what did E do to this lady to deserve this act of revenge??

wo wo wo, lol. there wasn't any violence involved.

I think im going to give myself another year before I get back out there.

Ok, I will make this short and to the point. Me and my buddy "E" were at a bar last week. Not trying to pick up anybody, just sitting at the bar, drinking beer, eating hot wings, playing that trivia game that alot of bars have, and talking with the regulars. Well, this lady starts hitting on E. He makes it quiet clear that he is not intrested (he is going through a divorce much messier then mine). It is painfully obvious that this lady was NOT intoxicated, but over the next 4 hours, she will not leave him alone. E being the kind of guy he is, is too kind to be rude to this person. But I got to thinking, if this were reversed and he was annoying her for 4 hours, he would be sitting in a jail cell with a restraining order against him, lol. Why the double standard?

Personally, I find insecure / dependant women extremely annoying. That's all I'm going to say, lol.

Personaly, I refuse to do any online dating. Nothing really wrong with it, it just creeps me out. A 25 year old girl might actually be a 60 year old man with a sick fetish. Having said that, my advice is EXTREME CAUTION.

when you say "a girl he doesn't like", do you simply mean a girl that he doesnt want to date, or someone that he hates all together?

Good Point, lol.

I probably shouldn't have said that. I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

Sounds like a simple joke, nothing more. Men and women simply see things differently in most matters, including humor. You should read a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". As soon as I got past the first chapter and realized I wasn't reading a science fiction novel (lol), It helped me understand those differences. Now, I dont ask myself "what did she mean" nearly as often.

I can see both sides of this issue. On one hand, he sounds like a total * * *. On the other hand, he was straight up with you. As far as what he meant by that, I have no idea. I've never said anything like that before. Of course, you must go with your gut.

Because they can.

I would have to say, no I would not. But the question itself sounds like a plot for a really bad episode of star trek, lmao.

personally, I think it is simply a matter of control. A shy person is seen as passive and susceptible to the will of others.

I agree with this statement. Work is not the best place to try this.