cpc28655
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Considering the state of my relationship, you don't want to know. Trust me.
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That makes sense to me.
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Well of course they do. The things we do behind their backs is 10 times worse.
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oops! made a bit of a spelling bo-bo.
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Just a little joke, lol.
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Kevin, my mind is so twisted I don't think it can be disiplined, lol. And that's the way uh huh uh huh I like it, lol.
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Well, first of all relax. Remember that she is expecting your call, so it isn't as "out of the blue" as you think. She wants you to call, as far as the subject matter just go with the flow. Another thing to remember is to listen as well. If you talk about yourself too much, you will come accross as a telemarketer, and I've never met anyone that loves telemarketers. In a nut shell, talk about the same stuff you would if you were in person.
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Why do (some) people take things so personally?
cpc28655 replied to cpc28655's topic in Dating Advice
That's assuming that this divorce doesn't kill me before the right one comes along, lol. -
Why do (some) people take things so personally?
cpc28655 replied to cpc28655's topic in Dating Advice
Ironicly enough, I actually like a lady that will tell me to go "F" myself WHEN I'M WRONG (and I will be, I'm only human). It would be nice if they wore lables that said "CAN handle the truth", or "CANNOT handle the truth". That way I would know to lie to them if needed. -
As anyone who has read my post knows, I am going through a divorce that has taken over a year and resembles a very bitter game of chess (except I enjoy chess). I have noticed a disturbing patter of behavior, and it puzzles me. As with any other average guy, the chance to date, or be fixed up has presented itself. In these few cases, my response has been to the effect of, "No thank you. I'm just not ready to get back out there yet." This usually gets a negative response, once being told to go "F" myself, all women aren't like the ex. I never said they were like the ex, only that I wasn't ready yet. Why on earth do people take things so personally? Am I missing something here?
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Please don't start licking yourself, lmao!
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exactly, you can call it slight nervousness, apprehension, or butterflies in the stomach. all of these basically fall into the same category as shyness.
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What cologone do you guys use that women like?
cpc28655 replied to iwishiknew's topic in Dating Advice
Well, I normally don't use cologne. Since I work with food, it would be a waste of time. But I did purchase some Pherlure Pheromone Cologne about 5 months ago. I guess I was just curious. By no means does it even come close to doing what they claim it will do, it does smell like a mild cologne. Rather plesant too. -
Don't forget to wipe, lol. All jokes aside, you've done well to overcome your problem. Although I am not really all that shy around women, my own problem is just as bad. I have bitterness and anger towards the opposite sex, Probably because of what that exwife of mine put me through (you wouldn't believe me if I told you). I am in the process of working through my problem as we speak. So, I understand.
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only if it is to extreme.
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Do alot of guys here get approached by girls?
cpc28655 replied to iwishiknew's topic in Dating Advice
It has only happened to me twice. Both times were very unplesant experiences. Last time I had to actually file a sexual harassment complaint to get it to stop. I don't like paperwork, lol! -
Try telling her you just saved a bunch of money on your car insurance by switching to geiko. lmao It's not very common, but you will have her attention, I promise.
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Only one way to find out.
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See Kevin, I was right. And don't forget to wipe, lol.
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I never do it, never will. The very thought creeps me out.
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Oh boy. This basically comes down to what is more important to you; the buddy or the girl. Only you can answer that. Personally, I don't think any girl is worth destroying a friendship. However that is only my opinion. As far as how to turn her down without hurting her, this is immpossible. Any rejection hurts, no matter how it is sugar-coated. My advise; The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Otherwise, the rejection will be compounded with dishonesty. And that would REALLY hurt.
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I don't think the style of dress is as important as the grooming. As long as you are taking showers, brushing your teeth, wiping your butt, ect. then you have nothing to worry about. Style of dress is just a matter of personal taste. If you like it, then there are girls out there that like it too.
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Considering the subject is dating, the use of the word "breed" amuses me, lmao. All jokes aside, you're right Zombiain hit the bull's eye.
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Despite whatever his reasons may be, you should not quit going to that restaurant because of it. Even though there is nothing wrong with it (and you should be proud of yourself for taking that bold step), I do not like being asked out by women, it makes me extremely uncomfortable (don't ask me why, I don't know, it just does). In a situation like the one you just described, I would be even more uncomfortable. Work is work, business is business; I never make it personal. Perhaps he has a similar view on this. Let me repeat that you did a VERY good thing, and you should pat yourself on the back. My views are only the opinion of one man.
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Believe me, I understand. There were times in culinary school I thought I would pull my hair out.