DizzyDoris

If its something really important that you need to know, she'll call YOU. Good on you for being so strong

Just do what feels good for you, practise until you find what feels good. If you feel a little shy try doing that position but facing his feet ;-)

I didnt have a clue with my first child, it was only when i totally went off alcohol that i did a test and then i found out i was 7 weeks prsegnant lol Then with my second child my period was ONE day late and my friend was three weeks late, so she said lets do a test together. I was convinced SHE was pregnant and i wasn't. The results were negative for her and positive for me! I was happy, but felt really bad cos she was actually trying to concieve and my pregnancy was a "happy accident!" Three months later though, she did concieve so all worked out well in the end and now our kids play together

I'd keep out of it, just be a good listener and let your boyfriend know you are there for him. Your boyfriend and you can do nothing to change things, people split up all the time unfortunately. Its his mum and stepdads business and they are going to have to sort this out themselves.

From what i gather over the years heavy clotting is not a good sign, i read if this happens you should see your doctor. Best to get yourself checked out, just in case. Oh the joys of being a woman....

8...twas gr8!

Ive said this before, but you wont try them in case of weight gain (which i really dont think would happen...) I really think you should go to your doctors and try anti-depressants. Depression is an illness that will not just go away by itself. You have nothing to lose by trying them only everything to gain. As for your weight, you are NOT fat and ive seen your avator pic....you are very pretty!

Sorry for butting in but whats a dental dam!?!!

Hey sandy, hows things? Hope your having a good week and things are better for you now. Did you make that appointment at the doctors?

Here Here annie24!!!

Each to their own mate, but i disagree with you. How can it be cheating if you havent even met them yet?!!! Its 2007 for crying out loud! Most people my age have a past when it comes to relationships and i would be very surprised to meet a virgin the same age as me. In fact it would put me off to be honest, as most people saving their virginity for the one (whatever) would probably do that for religious reasons, and i am not the slightest bit interested in any kind of religion. But hey ho, each to their own, good luck finding your snow white!

Haha im sorry but i think this is really funny!! So long as you're both happy, who cares what anyone else thinks! Have fun while it lasts. Does that mean as his "employer" you will be able to give him a reference in the future lol

Erm i cant really answer that as ive never gone down on a girl on her period lol Could have been the end of her period that tasted yukky or it could have been something she'd eaten? Well diet affects you guys and how you taste anyway Does she normally taste okay? (pardon me asking)

Thanks Honey Pumpkin, im really glad too! Honesty is always the best policy and i've been honest with him right from the start and intend on always being honest with him......besides which i cant lie for toffee! If i attempt even a little white lie, anyone who knows me can tell a mile off (i must have a nose like pinnochio!) Sometimes im too honest for my own good, but the truth always seems to find a way of coming out,so i prefer to have a clear conscience and just get everything out in the open. And I prefer the people i know to be honest with me too, id rather know the truth no matter how bad it is. Before this happened on friday i knew i loved him, but when i came so close to losing him its made me realise just how much. Its taken us 10 years to get together and this is the kind of relationship i've always dreamed about, he treats me like a princess and i wouldnt do anything to hurt him or risk losing him. Right, ive rambled on quite enough so night all, im off to bed a very happy bunny!

I used to believe the big feet myth myself lol then a couple of years ago i met a man who was a size 12 and he was tiny, so that threw that myth out the window! Also i have been with a man with size 8 feet and he was huge! Theres no way of telling his size before hand, and it would be pretty rude to ask, but if you really like the guy it shouldnt matter to you. If your not getting the pleasure you need, maybe introduce some toys to the bedroom?

Yay it feels really good! I love it when my boyfriend does that.

Hey guys, i saw my boyfriend last night and we had a really good heart to heart. He looked at the site again on friday night and realised that i havent done anything and that the one post i made whilst dating him was just a meaningless,harmless comment. When i joined this site it was before we were even together, and he believes me now that i have never met the guy i share the account with (which i will no longer be using!) He apologised for finding it hard to trust me and said after reading that comment i made, it made all his insecurities resurface from the past. But he knows he shouldn't think of me the same way as his exes. After re-reading everything, he sees now he had added 2 & 2 and came up with 5! I told him i totally understand how he must have felt and if ever anything ever troubles him again,to talk to me. I'm not going to let him down, I love him. He's everything ive ever wanted in a man and time will prove that to him. Im SOOO glad we're okay, i was so scared i would lose him over this. Thankyou everyone for your replies and opinions

I think she is going into these chatrooms to keep her options open,in case someone maybe closer to home comes along. She doesn't sound very trustworthy to me, i would be very wary about what she gets up to when your not around. Each break up causes you more pain than the previous one yes? You were doing so well, and now your back to square one again. That e-mail she sent you was so cold and she thinks she can just click her fingers and you will always go running back to her. If i was you, hard as it may be, I would end this relationship, before she gets chance to do it again. But if you do decide to stay with her (good luck!) be very careful about uprooting and going to live with her, you dont want to be stuck in a city of strangers if things go wrong again.

He dumped you by e-mail? OMG what a wimp! definitely dont worry about his opinion then, he's soooo not worth worrying over. As for the fireworks with your other ex....there you go... see, you are not a bad kisser

Okay first off did YOU feel any sparks or tingles when he kissed YOU?! If the answers no then that makes HIM the crap kisser! I'm no expert and everyone likes different things. I wouldnt tell your future boyfriend what the ex said, in fact i would forget about it altogether, dont beat yourself up over it. Dont be put off by it, next time dont be afraid to experiment and try different techniques, there are LOADS of different ways to kiss somebody, slow and gentle, fast and hard, tongues, nibbling etc. So long as your not dribbling all over the place you'll be just fine (but saying that there are probably some people who like their kisses wet! who knows? we're all different!)

The jack diet?? lol i love jack daniels too thats my favourite drink!! Take it thats what you meant! Good for you about going to see your doctor, he'll get you right as rain before you know it. Keep me posted on how you get on. Juliana's right about the weather, the doom and gloom sure doesn't help, roll on summer! And the gym will really help, exercise releases endorphins which make you feel happy. And as for your friends? Of course they want to know, if they are true friends they are there for you for the good times AND the bad. Thats just your depression talking, making you not want to "burden" anybody with how you feel. I was exactly the same,kept everything bottled up as i didn't want to bother anybody. Then when i started my tablets they all told me off for not talking to them sooner! At least you know you have people on here who care, and have been through similar experiences. Gotta do some chores now but will check later to see if your okay, chin up kiddo, you're gonna be just fine!

It takes time to get over relationships, but you'll get there and one day you'll wonder what you ever saw in him. He obviously wasnt your Mr. right, but on the bright side you're free now for when you do meet him! I had post natal depression after my second child was born, i never felt so low in all my life and i never even considered medication. I just struggled on day by day,hating my life and thinking i would always feel that way. I too put on a brave face and always wore a smile, no one else knew how bad i was feeling. One day i broke down in front of my mum and once the tears came i couldnt stop them. She booked me an appointment at my doctors, who diagnosed the depression and prescribed some anti-depressants for me. Within a month or 2 of taking them i was back to normal and felt happy and could see how much i had to live for and look forward to. All together i probably took the tablets for about 12 months, but had no problems coming off them and have never needed to go back on them since (this was 4 years ago) It might be worth you going to your doctors and trying them, after all depression is an illness, its when your brain doesn't produce enough of a chemical called serotin, the tablets replace this. If you had a headache or flu for example, you would take medication for that right? Its worth a try sandy because having been there myself, i really dont think it would have just gone away by itself. Who knows if i hadnt broken down that day, i could still be feeling that way now, 4 years later! As for the alcohol, we all like a drink or 6, but if you drink when you are feeling down, the alcohol magnifies all your bad feelings and makes them feel 10x worse. But i understand how easy it is to drink to forget your troubles,as i have tried that route myself. Only the next day your troubles are still there and you have the big hangover to deal with too lol I know it might seem tough right now, but you WILL get through this and feel better, maybe in a month, maybe even a year but one day you will be happy again.

OMG mark, this has happened to me once before! I couldnt see my ex-partner, but what he was doing felt really good, when i asked him how many fingers he was using he just said "eeeerrrm......" so i looked down and had the shock of my life!! I guess then i must have panicked because i wasnt expecting to see that and i had never done it before. I tensed up and tried to wriggle off and it really hurt when he removed his hand. I've not tried it since, but would prefer to be told than for my partner just to go ahead and do it lol

What is it thats troubling you sandy? If you always wear a smiley face and act happy, those closest to you probably dont even realise how down you are feeling. You should confide in someone, they say a problem shared is a problem halved. Are you on any medication for your depression?

Good advice above i was just gonna say the same sort of thing about the shorts! You can buy a swiming costume called a "tanktini" Its a vest top and shorts which covers you up more than a normal costume would. You really shouldnt worry about what other people think and just remember, there will always be people much bigger than you in the pool. At the end of the day you are all there for the same thing....to keep fit.