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    There are lots of single people out there, and many of them go for years without a relationship. Take the time to rediscover yourself, and what you would like in a relationship.
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    Compliment girls on thier intelligence, rather than on thier looks...
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    I understand teenage girls who fall in love with older guys...all they want is someone mature, someone who takes thier feelins and aspirations seriously, someone who does not view love as just a game. For me, I am 22, but very mature for my age. I, like many teenage girls, am fed up with my immature friends. They are so annoying because they have no direction in thier life, and they don't value it. So I understand how many teenage girls feel, because I feel the same way.
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    Why were you scared by the age difference? What matters is that you love each other and care for each other, and share common passions. What matters if his life experience, and not his age. I am only 22, but many girls I know already say I am a grown man, because I do so many mature thing - mentor boys through big brothers, work on a crisis hotline, do volunteer bike patrol with the police, orientate new students are my university, recruit sponsors for World Vision, visit the elderly in nursing homes - the point being is that life experience, not age, is what matters. Even at Christmas time, remember that Mary was probably 14 to 16, while Joseph was atleast 30 (Jewish law banned men from marrying before age 30). Age gap relationships can work.
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    Who cares what other people do. I usually keep problems to myself, because I am better at dealing with them myself. If you can deal better with your problems by yourself, then don't worry about talking to other people about them.
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    I believe that most people have some self doubts ringing through thier heads as they go out on a date. You are not alone. Maybe the reason your previous dates dumped you had nothing to do with you personally. Many people have this idea that "the grass is greener on the other side" and they may leave someone great because they imagine they will be better of elsewhere.
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    Tell him to quit his job and to find a new job. That is the only way he can show that he is really over her.
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    I have the flu, and whenever I get really sick I go the ocean where the sewer pipe is and I breathe in all the saltwater breeze and it seems to really help my lungs. It clears the clogginess and reduces coughing. Has anyone else ever tried this?
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    No one is perfect. Take time to get to know her, and to find out if she is right for you, and if you are right for her. Spend lots of time talking to each other, so you can get to know each other and whether you are right for each other.
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    Why are you upset about him using the word "honey" ? Aren't you being a little bit too demanding? No spouse will ever be perfect in everything they say.
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    This guy sounds like Scott Peterson. A travelling successful man, a handsome wealthy man, a storybook romance based on a few brief encounters, who "saves" a poor woman hurt by a previous relationship. The point is that this guy may have a wife and kids and only sees women while travelling...I wouldn't worry about you, as much as I worry about him...travelling men are often cheaters. Find out as much as you can about this guy before you go further in your relationship.
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    Don't take the rejection personally. Most people have a lot of social functions to go to over Christmas break, so it is unlikely that they will sign up for extra ones. When I am lonely and have no one to go out with, I just go to the pool and go into the sauna or hot tub and talk with people there...we can have some really good conversations. Its an interesting way to finish the evening.
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    Amen to that !!!
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    Maybe they love to flirt because it is fun and easy, but they are scared of a relationship. Flirting is easy and fun, but taking the time to develop a real relationship is difficult and sometimes scary...don't take it personally.
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    Flirting with girls is like learning any difficult task. It takes time and attention, but with lots of practice it requires less attention and becomes second nature. At one time when I was a baby, walking was difficult, as it is for any baby...but with practice and practice it has become automatized. What you should do is prepare a script of what you will say to a girl. Take time to think about your own life and script. Here is an example of mine: 1. Ask the girl about her field of study or career. What are her career dreams? What did she want to do when she was a little girl? 2. Ask her about her family...ask about her brothers and sisters, what they are doing, where they live..... 3. Ask her where she has travelled? 4. Ask her about whether she finds her job / field of study enjoyable or stressful...sympathize with whatever she says.... 5. Ask her what school she graduated from... Okay, so say you want to kiss her...... This is something you could try: Take out your hand and tell her to close her eyes...tell her to imagine your hand is an enchanting forest with magical parrots and is by an ocean. Tell her to open her eyes and trace your finger along your hand, telling her you are following a path that avoids pirates and crazy monkeys. Now tell her to close her eyes and to follow the same path. Now tell her she has been successful, but now you are going to try it on her hand (with her eyes closed of course)...and tell her that if she runs into crazy monkeys, you have to tickle her, but if she runs into pirates and gets kidnapped by them, then you have to kiss that part of the hand to rescue her from the pirates...most girls will do it, and you will get to kiss her hand....even the girls who won't let them kiss your hand will atleast admire you for your confdience and creativity...once you have kissed one hand, tell her that her other hand is feeling jealous, and that it needs a kiss too...most girls will just laugh and let you kiss thier 2nd hand....
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    Everyone has some good traits. Sometimes it just takes time to discover them. Have you looked at the tips on getting a girlfriend? Are you going to apply them?
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    That is good advice. Remember that when your parents restrict your behaviour, they are almost always acting because they love you. Remember that they really do care about you.
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    I would recommend delaying your relationship for 2 years. Before you have a relationship with someone, you need to take time to find yourself in life. It takes a long time to discover what you want and need in a partner, and one really does need a lot of life experience to figure it out. There is no harm in delaying your relationship...in fact, it may make it better in the long run, and you will be much happier.
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    Be careful when you use the words "all" because not everyone plays games. I don't, and most of my friends don't. We are just open and honest when we deal with members of the opposite sex.
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    Here are some more tips for the original poster: 1. Girls often will only open up to you once they see you talking with another girl. They need to feel that you are safe and friendly, and when they see you talking with other girls, this can really open the door...for example, one time I really liked this girl, but she was very shy, and even seemd distressed I was talking to her. So I stopped talking to her, and became really friendly with her sister...when she saw me chatting with her sister, she assumed I was a great guy, and she opened up and really wanted to talk to me...girls are like that. To attract a girl, befriend her friends (or sister) first. 2. Change your physical appearance. I went from having short and weird hair to long and curly hair, and I have been going around wearing a bright and colorful yellow hawaiian shirt. Man, I tell you that shirt gets girls!!! 3. Be confident. Like yourself, and girls will like you.
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    For the original poster, you are fully capable of changing and becoming attractive to women if you really want to. Change is never easy, but it sure is rewarding. When I was in high school, I was at the every bottom of the social hierarchy. There were "geeky" groups, but I was so far down that even the "geeky" groups wouldn't take me in. I was the most disliked person in the school. After leaving high school, I decided that my life was not going to be repeat of high school, and that I was going to figure out how to attract girls. Now, 5 years after graduating as the most hated geek in high school, I now talk to hot girls on a regular basis. There have been some really hot girls who have really liked me. I believe the same can happen to you. Here is some advise: 1. Don't be desparate, and don't depend on a woman to make you happy. Only you can make yourself happy. If you're not happy by yourself, you won't be happy with a woman. 2. Have a passion...a hobby, a cause, something you love doing. 3. Smile and make eye contact with every woman you see. 4. Learn to take some salsa dance lessons. I know, its embarrassing at first (or for a while)...but if you can master salsa, you will have girls dropping to your feet. 5. Get involved with something that helps children, esp. boys. I am a Big Brother, and whenever I tell girls that they are really impressed, because it demonstrates that children are important to me (most girls do notice that), but it does so in a "manly" way, which isn't too touchy feely.... 6. When talking to a girl, ask her about her family, her career, her interests, where she has vacationed, her schooling, her hopes, her dreams, her worries, her opinions, her thoughs...but don't forget to ask her about her family... 7. Know what you want in life...what career you are aiming for, what you want to do. Maybe you need to take time to make a list of what you want and how you intend to accomplishment. Girls want someone ambitious and who knows what he wants. I can give you some more tips later. Feel free to PM me.... Good Luck!!
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    I remember a time when I liked this girl for 3 or 4 years when I was in high school, and she suddenly started to date this really popular guy and I really felt hurt. I really understand how you feel because I went through the exact same thing as you, when I was 17 also. Just remember there are lots and lots of other guys out there. When I left high school, I met so many wonderful girls who are 100 times better than the girl I liked in high school, in both thier personality and thier body...and many of them actually really liked me... I am sure you will find lots of better guys...and someone who really loves you...its better to be loved than to love....
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    What do you too have in common? I can't imagine that a 20 year old and a 15 year old have much in common...Whats the connections?
  25. pineapple_juice
    Men want a woman who will respect them and who won't rant at them everytime they do something wrong.
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