some_unknown

scarew - thanks for the thread. It makes things to make more sense. shikashika - no we haven't used toys, although we have talked about it sometimes and the idea of something new like that does interest both of us. But it's not that I'm bored with our "natural talents" if you know what I mean.

it's been about a year since I first had sex. exploring myself has been even longer. my girlfriend and I are completely open to talking about trying new things and how certain things feel and what works best for us. But this is the one thing that I'm uncomfortable with personally that I feel may offend her in a sense. she keeps saying how long her orgasms are and I can see how long and intense it is for her...that's also another reason why I question if I've had one...or maybe mine are a lot shorter than hers.

I've had the toes clenching before or I'll feel this...tingling? sensation all over my body mixed with ultimate relaxation I don't know how else to describe it

yes I've had them or the same feelings on my own. I'm just wondering if there's more to it or if I'm missing something maybe. that would be great thank you

so I've herd people say that it's not a surprise if a woman hasn't achieved an orgasm or doesn't very often. I'm only 18 and still have LOTS to learn in this area. So I'm hoping you can all educate me. So hearing people keep saying that women don't achieve an orgasm all the time has been making me think "have I ever?" Yes I have had sex...the foreplay, the build up, and then this explosion and a rush...every single time. I mean I'm just questioning wether or not I've had an orgasm or if there's more to it??

i apreciate the responses... I know that if we arn't ment to be together in a serious relationship, that we are atleast ment to be in a loving friendship at best. I know I do love her, i'm just not sure it's to the extent that it should be. we decided to take a break and see if that's it and then at the same time not have to worry about the being so commited to eachother. We also are going to try and work on finding out what's wrong between us...and then after awhile decide wether or not we want this relationship.. thank you all again

my girlfriend and I have been together for a good 6 months. But lately things have just seemed different between us. I don't know but like when we're on the phone there's not all that much talking, as much as awkward silence or just random things to fill up that silence. We hardly see eachother, since I work 6 days a week and she is juggling three jobs. We both started talking tonight and we both awknowledged to eachother that something isn't like it was, and that something isn't right between us. We both do love eachother very much, it's just somethings not clicking. Like the chemistry and haulted or something. So we both decided that we didn't want to loose eachother but that maybe a break or an open relationship would be a good idea. I was wondering what some of your thoughts are on open relationships and the whole "taking a break" thing. I want to know if we're making a good decision or taking the safe way about this...or if this is a waste of time for sure and this is pretty much the beginning of the end... your responces are greatly apreciated. ~Some_unknown

I love using ice, it's really great when they don't realize you have it and then it's an even bigger shock. blind fold are also nice...like when you're lifting their shirt you pull it up just far enough to cover their eyes but uncover their mouth.

I've always thought of doing that one, but haven't gotten to it yet

I've tried things like chocolate syrup, sweet things. Someone told me that pop-rocks are fun during oral sex. Having to be quiet at the parents house is a rush. We've also used handcuffs anyonther ideas?

I was curious if some of you would be interested in sharing some of your creative stories. Like if you've ever used food, whips/chains, or themes during sex. Or had sex in a certain place that made it a little creative. Or if any of you have some ideas that you've never actually acted on but have always wanted to.

I was recently told that fasting is a very good way of clensing your mind body and soul of food, so in other words a sense of want from the world. It supposed to help you think clearer, and get a better understanding of things. I'm curious if anyone has tried fasting. And if they have if they would share whether they liked it, if it helped, and some rips for doing so. thanks, some_unknown

No, I'm not faking it and I don't tihnk that's what she means. Maybe it is more along the lines of multiple orgasms

thanks That's what I've said...although she told me that I'm actually one of the more "wilder" girls she's been with. I don't know...I feel like I climax and orgasm every time, but she seems to think other wise. thank you both

okay, so my girlfriend and I have been having sexd for almost 3 months now. We are both reallyl open with eachother about talking about it, telling eachother what feels good, and what we like. We have a very strong and open relationship. But something was brought to my attention. She is my first girlfriend that I've been sexual active with, so I'm still kind fo new to certain things, I mean all of us have a thing or two to learn. So my girlfriend brought to my attention that she has never completely "finished me"...I always thought that she was. I mean I climax and I litterally in the end buckle you could say...but she says that it's too intense for me and I just "think" that I'm done, when I'm not. =S So I'm wondering if that's the case that it's "too intense" for me...or what? I'm just an inquiering mind and would like to hear some other points of views. Feel free to ask questions if it'll help with responses. Thanks ~ some_unknown