some_unknown

scarew - thanks for the thread. It makes things to make more sense. shikashika - no we haven't used toys, although we have talked about it sometimes and the idea of something new like that does interest both of us. But it's not that I'm bored with our "natural talents" if you know what I mean.

it's been about a year since I first had sex. exploring myself has been even longer. my girlfriend and I are completely open to talking about trying new things and how certain things feel and what works best for us. But this is the one thing that I'm uncomfortable with personally that I feel may offend her in a sense. she keeps saying how long her orgasms are and I can see how long and intense it is for her...that's also another reason why I question if I've had one...or maybe mine are a lot shorter than hers.

I've had the toes clenching before or I'll feel this...tingling? sensation all over my body mixed with ultimate relaxation I don't know how else to describe it

yes I've had them or the same feelings on my own. I'm just wondering if there's more to it or if I'm missing something maybe. that would be great thank you

so I've herd people say that it's not a surprise if a woman hasn't achieved an orgasm or doesn't very often. I'm only 18 and still have LOTS to learn in this area. So I'm hoping you can all educate me. So hearing people keep saying that women don't achieve an orgasm all the time has been making me think "have I ever?" Yes I have had sex...the foreplay, the build up, and then this explosion and a rush...every single time. I mean I'm just questioning wether or not I've had an orgasm or if there's more to it??

i apreciate the responses... I know that if we arn't ment to be together in a serious relationship, that we are atleast ment to be in a loving friendship at best. I know I do love her, i'm just not sure it's to the extent that it should be. we decided to take a break and see if that's it and then at the same time not have to worry about the being so commited to eachother. We also are going to try and work on finding out what's wrong between us...and then after awhile decide wether or not we want this relationship.. thank you all again

my girlfriend and I have been together for a good 6 months. But lately things have just seemed different between us. I don't know but like when we're on the phone there's not all that much talking, as much as awkward silence or just random things to fill up that silence. We hardly see eachother, since I work 6 days a week and she is juggling three jobs. We both started talking tonight and we both awknowledged to eachother that something isn't like it was, and that something isn't right between us. We both do love eachother very much, it's just somethings not clicking. Like the chemistry and haulted or something. So we both decided that we didn't want to loose eachother but that maybe a break or an open relationship would be a good idea. I was wondering what some of your thoughts are on open relationships and the whole "taking a break" thing. I want to know if we're making a good decision or taking the safe way about this...or if this is a waste of time for sure and this is pretty much the beginning of the end... your responces are greatly apreciated. ~Some_unknown

I love using ice, it's really great when they don't realize you have it and then it's an even bigger shock. blind fold are also nice...like when you're lifting their shirt you pull it up just far enough to cover their eyes but uncover their mouth.

I've always thought of doing that one, but haven't gotten to it yet

I've tried things like chocolate syrup, sweet things. Someone told me that pop-rocks are fun during oral sex. Having to be quiet at the parents house is a rush. We've also used handcuffs anyonther ideas?

I was curious if some of you would be interested in sharing some of your creative stories. Like if you've ever used food, whips/chains, or themes during sex. Or had sex in a certain place that made it a little creative. Or if any of you have some ideas that you've never actually acted on but have always wanted to.

I was recently told that fasting is a very good way of clensing your mind body and soul of food, so in other words a sense of want from the world. It supposed to help you think clearer, and get a better understanding of things. I'm curious if anyone has tried fasting. And if they have if they would share whether they liked it, if it helped, and some rips for doing so. thanks, some_unknown

No, I'm not faking it and I don't tihnk that's what she means. Maybe it is more along the lines of multiple orgasms

thanks That's what I've said...although she told me that I'm actually one of the more "wilder" girls she's been with. I don't know...I feel like I climax and orgasm every time, but she seems to think other wise. thank you both

okay, so my girlfriend and I have been having sexd for almost 3 months now. We are both reallyl open with eachother about talking about it, telling eachother what feels good, and what we like. We have a very strong and open relationship. But something was brought to my attention. She is my first girlfriend that I've been sexual active with, so I'm still kind fo new to certain things, I mean all of us have a thing or two to learn. So my girlfriend brought to my attention that she has never completely "finished me"...I always thought that she was. I mean I climax and I litterally in the end buckle you could say...but she says that it's too intense for me and I just "think" that I'm done, when I'm not. =S So I'm wondering if that's the case that it's "too intense" for me...or what? I'm just an inquiering mind and would like to hear some other points of views. Feel free to ask questions if it'll help with responses. Thanks ~ some_unknown

Just wanted to say that I went and met her just this passing weekend. She's amazing... I have a date with her on friday night ^_^

I guess there are a lot of people in the same boat situation. Thanks for the comments. I just find it really frusterating...it gets really lonely. I've also decided to go and meet up and hangout with this girl with in the next week. The other friend hasn't talked to me in a couple days and when I tried talking to her about it she blew me off and said it was okay...but then I hear from someone else that she couldn't stop talking about how pissed she was about the situation. She's also blowing it out of proportion, cause this girl and I haven't even met. Nothing's even happened...who knows if anything even will happen.. I just find it interesting how everytime I like someone there's always something that seems to be in the way or hinder it from happening in some way...and I'm just sick of it.

So I've been single now for atleast 6 months and I'm sick of it. I've been keeping my eyes open and looking for opportunities and what not. I am getting compliments from girls and being told that I'm hot or that I'm an amzing person and what not... So why am I still single??!! It seems that all these girls are all straight and just like to flirt to mess with my head. So I recently started talking to this girl (A) who is a friend of a friend of mine. She's looking for a serious relationship and so am I. We've talked, but haven't met yet. We have a lot in common. We were talking about hanging out together and meeting the other night but it didn't happen... I have this other friend (B) (who has a girl) that likes this girl (A) that I really want to get to know on a more personal level. She (B) found out that I've been talking and getting close with this girl (A) and freaked out. I don't understand, mainly cause she (B) has a girlfriend. And nothing's going on between her (B) and this girl (A) that I like. So the reason why I didn't go hangout and meet this girl (A) was cause I didn't want the other friend (B) getting mad at me. But when I told her (A) this she said that (B) "needs to get over it and not freak out, feelings are inevitable" So do I still continue talking to this great girl and soon meet her. Or blow it off and not even bother... I'm just so sick of being single and ever time I find someone...someone else likes them or for some reason they are "off limits"... I just want to take this opportunity to possibly get to know this amazing someone

So she wasn't there yesterday and now we've got a few weeks off. So i'll try all of your advice when break is over. Thanks again

no There isn't...that's a really good diea though. We do have a concept piece due this friday...I could go over to her and talk to her about her or something I guess

I want to be able to striek up a conversation with her...but again the most our conversations have been just, "oh I like how you did this on your piece..." stuff like that. Not to mention I'm super shy...which makes it easier said than done, unfortunately. I guess I'll just look for a good opportunity to come along and try and make conversation. Thanks

So there's this girl in my art class. I don't know her at all really...I know her name and talked to her about eachothers art work on occasion, but that's it. I've had a bit of a crush on her since the beginning of the semester. So the reason why I'm bringing this up, is cause a few days ago I happened to notice that she was looking at me. When I looked up and made eye contact with her she quickly put her head down and acted like she was really busy. But then I'd look up ten minutes later and she'd be looking at me again. I'd be well accross the room talking to someone and she'd be looking at me again, but this time I looked up and made eye contact with her and smiled and she put her head down to hide the smile on her face. This has happened for the past three days now. I want to know if that means she's interested? or just friendly or what? I really want to talk to her or something, but I don't know how to approach the situation. Like what do I say, without making myself look more so like an idiot, lol. Thanks, Some_unknown 1:

it doesn't matter, where it is. I just wanted some advice on the situation, and that's what I'm getting. that's all I was looking for, lol Thanks

He's on of my closest friends. And I know why it makes me so incredibly weird, cause I'm gay. The thought of being with a guy is not at all appealing, to me personally. He knows this, he was one of the first I came out to. So I was really uncomfortable when he said what he said, not to mention the actual context of it.

No, I'm a girl