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  1. There are lots of single people out there, and many of them go for years without a relationship. Take the time to rediscover yourself, and what you would like in a relationship.
  2. Compliment girls on thier intelligence, rather than on thier looks...
  3. I understand teenage girls who fall in love with older guys...all they want is someone mature, someone who takes thier feelins and aspirations seriously, someone who does not view love as just a game. For me, I am 22, but very mature for my age. I, like many teenage girls, am fed up with my immature friends. They are so annoying because they have no direction in thier life, and they don't value it. So I understand how many teenage girls feel, because I feel the same way.
  4. Why were you scared by the age difference? What matters is that you love each other and care for each other, and share common passions. What matters if his life experience, and not his age. I am only 22, but many girls I know already say I am a grown man, because I do so many mature thing - mentor boys through big brothers, work on a crisis hotline, do volunteer bike patrol with the police, orientate new students are my university, recruit sponsors for World Vision, visit the elderly in nursing homes - the point being is that life experience, not age, is what matters. Even at Christmas time, remember that Mary was probably 14 to 16, while Joseph was atleast 30 (Jewish law banned men from marrying before age 30). Age gap relationships can work.
  5. Who cares what other people do. I usually keep problems to myself, because I am better at dealing with them myself. If you can deal better with your problems by yourself, then don't worry about talking to other people about them.
  6. I believe that most people have some self doubts ringing through thier heads as they go out on a date. You are not alone. Maybe the reason your previous dates dumped you had nothing to do with you personally. Many people have this idea that "the grass is greener on the other side" and they may leave someone great because they imagine they will be better of elsewhere.
  7. Tell him to quit his job and to find a new job. That is the only way he can show that he is really over her.
  8. I have the flu, and whenever I get really sick I go the ocean where the sewer pipe is and I breathe in all the saltwater breeze and it seems to really help my lungs. It clears the clogginess and reduces coughing. Has anyone else ever tried this?
  9. No one is perfect. Take time to get to know her, and to find out if she is right for you, and if you are right for her. Spend lots of time talking to each other, so you can get to know each other and whether you are right for each other.
  10. Why are you upset about him using the word "honey" ? Aren't you being a little bit too demanding? No spouse will ever be perfect in everything they say.
  11. This guy sounds like Scott Peterson. A travelling successful man, a handsome wealthy man, a storybook romance based on a few brief encounters, who "saves" a poor woman hurt by a previous relationship. The point is that this guy may have a wife and kids and only sees women while travelling...I wouldn't worry about you, as much as I worry about him...travelling men are often cheaters. Find out as much as you can about this guy before you go further in your relationship.
  12. Don't take the rejection personally. Most people have a lot of social functions to go to over Christmas break, so it is unlikely that they will sign up for extra ones. When I am lonely and have no one to go out with, I just go to the pool and go into the sauna or hot tub and talk with people there...we can have some really good conversations. Its an interesting way to finish the evening.
  13. Maybe they love to flirt because it is fun and easy, but they are scared of a relationship. Flirting is easy and fun, but taking the time to develop a real relationship is difficult and sometimes scary...don't take it personally.
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