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renaissancewoman101

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  1. ^ Luke, if you are going to take a girl on a date and make her pay for herself, then she might see you as NOT a dateable guy. If you want to date someone, you have to put your best foot forward. Not saying go all out, but go out for coffee or something, YOU buy
  2. Luke, you're 30 and I don't know how you can deal with living in that house under your mom's iron rule. My mother can be interfering like that and she still tries to interfere in my life whenever she is around, but then I DONT live at home and I limit how much I see of my mom. I have seen her more this year than in the last FIFTEEN years combined, but now I live only a two hour drive from my parents. I dont think I could EVER live at home again. If my mom had her way, I would be living at home again.
  3. I would say that if you had a bad experience in the past with roommates, then opt for the wait list for the single room. I had roommates my freshman year of college and really didnt enjoy it. I actually had a better time when I lived in a single since I had a place to call home when I wanted to get away from things and from people.
  4. I don't think an hour is long distance, my ex and I had a strong relationship for two years and we lived about 2 hours away from each other. It did help did I had a flexible work schedule. Like Annie said, in big cities like LA and SF, it CAN take an hour or more to get from one end to another. My ex best friend lives about 30 miles from work. On a good day, he can get there in 45 minutes. On really BAD traffic days it can take him 2-3 hours. But I understand where your guy is coming from too. Sometimes, guys want it where they can drop by to hang out after work or have YOU drop by and hang out after work and if you live like 1-2 hours away, it is hard. As you date longer with one person, they dont like it if everything has to be planned out in advance.
  5. After reading all this, I'm glad I'm not married. The semantics of it. Geez!!!!
  6. having sex in water, aka a tub, is not fun at all. There is no lubrication and it is harder to do it. I tried having sex with my ex in a large tub once and it didnt work out real well.
  7. In regards to health insurance, do you have any types of pre-exisiting conditions like asthma, blood pressure, diabetes, etc.? If you do and you have been treated for those things in the past few years, you WONT qualify for personal health insurance plans, or else you are going to be paying through the roof for health insurance and you wont get the pre-existing conditions covered. Trust me, I know that. When I first moved out here, I was looking into getting my own health insurance but I have chronic asthma. All the companies I looked at wont even cover me, let alone my asthma problems. Be careful about going without health insurance, one big illness or hospitalization can WIPE you out financially.
  8. Are you afraid of sex because you see what happens to your friends, like they fall in love, have sex with a guy and then the guy dumps your friend and they are hurt badly? Are you afraid to be emotionally and physically vulnerable to someone?
  9. What makes you not want to have sex? In a committed relationship, it is one of the most personal forms of showing that you love and care for someone.
  10. yes, having a liberal arts degree doesn't mean much. Also, the key to getting good jobs is through who you know. The last job I had, technical writer, I got that job through a good friend and it wasnt a job that was advertised.
  11. Does she see you as a friend, or is she looking for more? I know she mentioned "date", but does her actions and reactions show that she might think of you in other ways like a friend or a date? Maybe she is looking around for a "replacement" before she dumps her bf? There are people who dont want to leave one guy/girl without having someone else waiting in the wings.
  12. I ended up calling Walgreens and speaking to a pharmacist and they told me it was ok. I took the Vicodin and I am feeling pretty good. Pain is gone.
  13. Is it dangerous to mix anxiety medication with a pain killer. I take about 15 mg of Celexa in the evening. My back's been acting up really bad tonight (probably from all the driving I did this weekend) so I am thinking of taking a 500 mg tablet of Vicodin to kill the pain. Is it going to cause me some dangerous side effects since I just took the Celexa about an hour ago? I want to kill the pain in my neck and back so I can sleep ok tonight.
  14. yeah, that was a long time ago. yeah, I can be naughty. Most times I am an angel.
  15. I am going to admit one thing on here, and dont you guys say I am some weirdo or anything like that. One time I had sex with someone in a back room right next to the operator's office. It was funny to be going at it while, in the next room, the building's operator was answering phone calls and routing calls around. This was a LONG time ago.
  16. a kipper is a fish. I think. I would love to have sex in my Ren Faire outfit in my bed, or in a backyard
  17. depending on where you live, factory work is always something that pays decent.
  18. my life sucks because I have so few friends
  19. how old are you? I'm 33 and I still would have a problem telling my mom if I was having sex. She never questions me about it and still assumes I am a "virgin". I stay away from discussing stuff like that with my mother.
  20. Do you like to help people, just in general? Like to listen to people and take the time to give them advice? If you are interested in studying to be a psychologist, you know most of them do have a masters degree, dont you? So it will require graduate studies. Have you looked into what courses you would need to get a masters in psychology?
  21. That may be a good place to start. I have been to school counseling centers and they dont seem to do an adequate job. They are more for the undergrads.
  22. You can be supportive of her by helping her keep to her diet, aka, dont eat junk food in front of her, exercise with her, give her positive feedback, etc. A lot times when people diet, their SO sometimes feel threatened by it and dont know how to handle it.
  23. Puff, don't you have any friends? You can still enroll in class as a late enrollee, I think, if you REALLY want to go to school. Although, I think you have to pay an extra fee for that. Not sure.
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