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  1. mieshagirl
    Sounds like she doesn't care for you like you care for her. From what you are saying. Let her go sweetie. It will save you alot of heartache and worrying. Find something to get your mind off of her. I think you should suck it up and go out and meet new friends, girls. Have fun. You really should. I'm sure other girls would like you, and would treat you alot better. Definitly work on yourself a little bit. Sounds like your negative about yourself. Work on that, I'm sure you're a nice guy.
  2. mieshagirl
    I think you need to change who you hang out with. I would not suggest either guy. You are going to be in alot of trouble if you continue this kind of behavior. You need to find other things to do with your time. How about going to movies, the mall, fun stuff like that? Those are things you should be doing at your age. What you did, was NOT cool.
  3. mieshagirl
    I agree with others responses. It's definintly all about what means the most to you. What a difficult decision. Best of luck to you.
  4. mieshagirl
    Yes, that is definitly true...a person who lies all the time does not really love you, or have any respect for you. Believe me, I have gone through this and actually am as of right now. It hurts, but time will heal the pain. There is another girl out there for you. You will be fine. Good luck to you.
  5. mieshagirl
    I know, stinks to be the short one. Like the others have said..you probably will get taller. I am only 4'11. I am itty bitty and have dated giants....but it all works out. lol don't sweat the small stuff.
  6. mieshagirl
    Well, first of all, it's not JUST women that lie..guys do too. There's many different reasons why people lie. I guess the reasons for her lies really shouldn't matter anymore to you. Sounds like you do not trust her, which is understandable. Let her go and maybe work on yourself a little bit. Do some things that make you happy and just forget about her. First loves are hard to get over. But you will be fine in time. Good luck. (Referring to your quote ).people change all the time...doesn't mean your fake. Life is about growing and learning new things. Change takes place in everyone. Sorry, I had to give you my opinion on that one. Anyways, take care and good luck.
  7. mieshagirl
    Just hang back a little bit, but I would not wait around on her forever. Life is too short to wait around, you know what I mean? You have told her you are interested in her; she's aware and gave you an honest answer. If you want to remain friends accept her decision and let it be a "just friends" relationship. Good luck. I wish I could give you better advice. I hope I helped a little bit.
  8. mieshagirl
    I have problems with this as well. BUT, I told my b/f that I am down with him watching porn..I really honestly am. I like porn too (once in awhile). But my b/f still lies to me about it. He says he never does that...but I know that he does. I don't understand why he has to lie about looking at porn, when I told him it was alright. Everyone's advice here is really good. I hope things get better for you.
  9. mieshagirl
    I agree with annie. Give it some time maybe. Maybe she'll come around, just don't push...that's the worst thing to do. Good luck. I'm sure if she doesn't come around, that another girl is out there waiting for you!
  10. mieshagirl
    Hmmm well I hope your therapist can help you out. Sounds like you need to think more positivly about things. Be more social, go out more. Loosen up. Maybe you need to try and join crowds of people, sounds like you need more friends. Don't be so hard on yourself. Hope things get better.
  11. mieshagirl
    Aww, great poem. Very sweet. I hope she reads this!
  12. mieshagirl
    He definitly sounds like a loser. Someone that I would not be wasting my time over wondering about. I am sorry this happened to you. I don't know what his problem is, but it sounds like you can find someone alot better who will be more respectful of you. I would not write him another email and if you see him out I would maybe say hi, just because he's a jerk doesn't mean you have to be to him. I just would not go out of my way to try and talk. You definitly are NOT a loser, you just found a guy who has issues(it sounds like). Better days are just ahead, you will be okay. Good luck.
  13. mieshagirl
    Sorry about the pain that you feel. I can definitly relate to this. There's nothing more that you can do, then to just give her the space that she wants. Maybe she'll come back around, but I would not wait forever on that. It's good that you are seeking help. It will take time to heal, but you will be okay. Best of luck to you.
  14. mieshagirl
    I agree with the others. I would save those sleevless shirts for working out, or if you do an outdoor activity maybe. I'm not totally against sleevless shirts. Some guys look hot in them.
  15. mieshagirl
    I can feel alot of emotion in these poems. I like them.
  16. mieshagirl
    Ouch, such a hard decision for someone young like you. Sounds like your coach is kind of harsh. Geez. I really don't know what kind of advice to give you other then deciding which one is more important. Going to see your family or having a starting spot on your team. Sorry I don't have much advice, kind of a tough one. I hope things will work out one way or the other.
  17. mieshagirl
    Yep, you have to decide which one you like more. One of them will get hurt, but it'll be okay. Good luck.
  18. mieshagirl
    Tell her straight up what's up. Don't lead her on, by going to her dorm room. Sounds like she's head over heels for ya. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings but let her know now that you only want to be friends. So she doesn't continue having romantic feelings towards you. Good luck.
  19. mieshagirl
    It's good to go by your gut instinct, I do that all the time. But sometimes it's just hard to figure out somethings by relying on that method. The only way to find out is by asking him. Ask him how he feels about you and hopefully he'll answer all your questions. I hope things work out.
  20. mieshagirl
    Your welcome for the advice. I hope things get better for you. Maybe work on yourself first;only you can make yourself happy. And then other things will fall into place. Good luck.
  21. mieshagirl
    Great poem, loved it.
  22. mieshagirl
    You say you work with a youth group, so does this church have a "singles" group? There are activities maybe you can join for singles in your area. I would not look for relationships all on the net. Get out more maybe. Try doing things that boost your self confidence. Like, a new clothes, maybe a new haircut or something to that nature. Females are attracted to confident guys. Are you shy in public? I don't know if I'm much help. But I do hope things get better for you. Someone will come along that you will fall in love with.
  23. mieshagirl
    Sounds like this girl may be afraid of commitment. I wouldn't necessarily narrow it down to you not being her type. She probably really respects your feelings and doesn't want to hurt you. If it doesn't bother you to hang out with her as a friend, then that would be cool. But if it bothers you, let it go. I would not wait around on her to change her mind. I hope this is somewhat useful. Good luck.
  24. mieshagirl
    Pressuring you into doing sexual things? That is not good, he is definitly not being respectful. Sounds like he might be using you. Don't let him use you. If you're not happy let him go. I know there are better guys out there who will treat you with much more respect.
  25. mieshagirl

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    mieshagirl replied to Jetta's topic in Dating Advice

    Sounds like this guy thought you were really pretty/hot. He was really digging you, but couldn't come talk to you because his girlfriend or whoever, was there with him.
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