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mieshagirl

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  1. I'm sure you do not feel the best right now. It hurts getting "dumped". But girl, this is not the end of the world. Especially at your age. Enjoy being single, explore. Don't waste your time on one guy. I know this from experience. Really I do. Atleast he was honest with you. You will get better with time, hang in there.
  2. I thought I believed in true love. But am not sure anymore. Even if you found your true love, it's still alot of work to keep it going strong. Just like most of the others said.
  3. I personally, like a shoulder to cry on, someone to confide in. It's nice knowing people will listen. But on the other hand, there's some things I keep inside. Becuause I try to deal with it on my own or I just don't feel like spilling out my problems all the time. If you prefer staying on here venting, that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that, alot of good people who will help you are here. But maybe you should try confiding in someone that your close to one day, it might make you feel alot better. It's nice to get hugs and all that too. Good luck.
  4. wow, I can not believe your story is pretty much identical to how my life WAS. I was with my guy since the age of 15. We were together through highschool. We got engaged when I was 18. We wanted to get married last February. (I'm 21). To make a long story short, we are no longer together. A couple months before the wedding, we figured out we had actually grew apart and that there were things we wanted to experiment with. So, we did. That's the point in life that I'm at now. I still to this day love him so much, but yet I am actually glad things did not work out, because down the road one of us might of cheated on each other or something crazy like that. Only because we are young and had not experimented like young people should do. The break up was rough. But I am learning about who I am more and what I llike and what I REALLY want out of life, not just settling for whatever. You know what I mean? Believe me I have learned alot and I have changed alot. Just like everyone else who posted, I'm not saying call off the marriage, but I sure would think twice. So you are not unhappy down the road. If you two separate, maybe down the road you will get back together. You never know. But please be honest with her, it's only fair to her. Good luck
  5. Everyone is different. Do what your heart is telling you to do. If you want to just be at home for now, not dating ; that is fine. But I would not stay like that for a very long time. When you're ready to get back out into the "scene" you will know. Take your time. That is great you're going to the gym and doing the things that you want and love to do. I have been in a similar situation, was with a guy for 6 years. It took me a long time to get my feet back on the ground and feel like looking for someone to care for again. Take your time.
  6. Hang in there, it will be okay. Losing someone you care and love can be very hard, but time DOES heal the pain, maybe not totally but most of it. Try and look onto better days. If you need someone to talk to I am here.And so is everyone else.
  7. Well I have one to top it all off, i know this guy who is 28 and just for the very first time had his first sweetheart, first kiss. Just try and enjoy life, kick back and relax. Don't stress out, you will find someone to fall in love with!
  8. yep, best thing to do is just talk with him, try and find out what happened,it could of been anything. Good luck.
  9. I don't have much to add after what okahama_mama said. Definitly, teenage years are very tough for alot of others. You are in fact very lucky. Maybe you should try and spread some of your cheer to your peers that need it the most.
  10. All girls are different. Some girls might not mind you ignoring them; depends on how you treated them. But if you broke it off for no good reason and left them wondering what they did wrong, that probably hurts them alot. If you feel guilty, maybe you should talk with them, apologize for your actions and say that you really want to be their friend. They might accept that and be your friend or they might not. Doesn't hurt to try. Good luck. Sometimes you have to go with what your heart tells you to do instead of your mind. Well, good luck.
  11. Sounds like the he doesn't take the relationship as seriously as you do. Or maybe he's just scared of the whole commitment thing. Marriage scares people. Take your time. But make sure you're happy. If he continues talking this way maybe it's time to get out of the relationship and find someone else who will make you happy. That's what I would do anyway. Hope this advice is somewhat useful.
  12. Yeah I agree, this guy sounds like someone who doesn't have much respect/decency. I am sorry you are hurting over him. It will get better in time. I hope you find new happiness soon!
  13. Glad things are working out with you and the new girl. Things happen for a reason. You never know what the next day will bring. Good luck, take care.
  14. I like your poem. I am also glad to hear you have moved on.
  15. I think watching porn together is a great thing! It definitly spices things up. It's fun to go into a porn store together and pick something out that you know BOTH of you will enjoy. I think it most definitly can help a relationship out that needs a little boost of excitement.
  16. I am very sorry to hear about how your relationship ended so suddenly. I was in the same situation, I had a highschool sweetheart was with him for 6 years and one day he LEFT ME A NOTE telling me that he no longer felt happy and that he did not want to continue on with our relationship. It was a shock, and still today (9 months later) it still hurts. But I have learned to move on and find new happiness, which I hope you have done as well. I wish you the best. Let me know how things are going.
  17. good poem. I'm glad you got out of that relationship. Noone deserves to be unhappy.
  18. Interesting poem... Hope things work out. Your young, there's more people to date, dont' waste your time on just one.
  19. lol..theres alot you can talk about. Try...what do you like to do for fun? What have you been doing over the summer? =) good luck.
  20. I hope things work out for you. Breaking up is a hard thing. But it'll get better.
  21. Wow what a poem!! Some of your thoughts are thoughts I have had in the past. good job
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