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  1. You can not be completely sure if the person you are going ask out for date would say yes. I know this happens to most people of both gender. So please do give your advice. I have know this girl from work for a while. We have hanging out more than a little of late and I could see, through her actions, that she is interestes in me. She approachs me and starts conversations, she slightly punches my shoulder sometimes whenever I make her laugh. Even more interesting is that we went to eat a restaurant today, talking about our personal experience with being rejected and dating. During our talk she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. Alriteeee.....-I could not restrain myself from being overwhelmingly happy. I know nothing is for certain but I do have sense that if I ask her out on a real date, she would say yes. The answer might be infront of me but I just need some reassurance.
  2. Hi every one. I have a quick question but before i ask let me tell you guys of what had happened. I have recently received a phone number from one of my classmate. I tried to call her many time but , she later told me, because her phone keep dying on her, she couldn't answer my calls. I have heard from some friends that if she is interested in me, then she would try to call me. So far in class, she has not shown the a slightess effort to talk to me.From here I would like to know what am I suppose to do next? I have a couple of ideas on my mind. Because she has been avoiding me, I guess she is just shy but she has some interest in me. As a result, I could arrange a meeting with her after class-since calling her dont work. But what if she don't like me at all, which I am completely fine with the idea. I would leave her alone Interpreting is this girl show any interest in me is not a task that i can do; thereforeeee, I need some advice in this matter
  3. I phoned a classmate of mine and she didn't reply the phone calls. I asked her today in class and she said the problem was with her phone, it keeps dying on her. I followed her after class saying , I am new at this, "I don't want any awkwardness between us, and a question regarding her honesty about her phone's problem." I sounded pretty lame and too serious. I truly dislike liars and I want to the truth, I can surely handle rejection. No fancy excuses, just straight up honestly. What i would like to know is how to sound not too serious in these situation. I am not a type of guy who can tease a girl about these things.
  4. I called my friend up that night i called my female classmate. He was able to get a hello - hello? on the other line. I also did get a message machine voice asking me to leave a message. Could that be a fake number, when someone actually reply and a message machine answer?
  5. I asked a girl, who I found to be interesting, in my class for her phone number. I tried to use that number but it doesn't work, she have not pick up the phone. There are two possibilities, her phone connection is bad or she could have not be there when I called. I have tried to reach her a day later, but still no answer from the other line. Whenever I called an automatic reply says" pls hold until your connection is reach." and then i heard classical music I have to meet this person in class next week. It would not be awkward for me to ask her the reason for the mess up phone call, but i would like to know how to approach with the right tone so it would be easier for the both of us if her reason for not asnwering my calls is her not interested in me.
  6. Also I have heard that these gymnastics men and women train 5-6 hours a day, according to some interview i watched. How can they afford to have time to eat, to get enough nutrition proteins and carb, and keeping a muscular body when they train so much? Adaption, might be allows them to train long hours but nutritions facts? I dont know about that
  7. I have been building a muscular body for years. A couple of years ago I watched the Male Gymnastic Olympic Competetion and I wondered, "do those gymnastics work out with weights to build a well defined body or do they only work parallel bars and ropes, purely calesthenic?" The question remains unanswer, so I thought some of enotalone people could help me out. Your comments will be appreciated. Tiesto and Paul Van Dyk rocks!!!
  8. Lady Bugg is right. People deserve to know the truth. To not know some for certain would make a person frustrated. So help your lady friend out Rosstheboss, help her get on with her life by telling exactly how you feel.
  9. hi The friend zone sucks, I know from experience. You are right to ended the friendship with her. But hey, you gain something from this, respect for yourself. No longer that you are her pet, no longer that she could use you as a shoulder to cry on when she is down. See how insignificant you are to her? "oh well?" she said that after all you did for her. She had used you! There are a billion girls in this world and you are worrying about one? So be glad that YOU! are no longer a slave.
  10. Hi, people I don't know. My first semester in college has ended. I have found ways to study well in other subjects but not in English, I have not find an exact way to write a good essay. thereforeeee, I would like to hear people's, who was a student that had struggled in writing essays, advice in hope to help me become a better writer. These are the things that I have been trying on my own. Read grammar books, write journals, read articles from magazines to books, and get myself a good english tutor. Any advice would be appreciated.
  11. let me clarify. Girls and guys usually hide their flaw when they first talk to people. On a date, when things get more comfortable, people could show their flaw. If there is alcohol around, a girl or a guy could show that he or she like to drinks alot. And this goes for obnoxious personality too. During long conversation with some one on a date, people might review obnoxious qualities such as, too arrogant or ostentation, or say things that are turn off.
  12. In college, I have over heard many angry comments said by girl toward a behavior that I am not sure that is right or wrong, never call a girl you had sex with or dated ever again. The conversation usually about how girls hate guys for not calling, the girls need an explanation on why she is not his type. If a guy sees a girl he dated is a total * * * *, alcoholic, or obnoxious, should he call her up and tell her that? A saying goes if you have nothing better to say, say nothing at all. Are the guys right for not calling and giving reasons that might hurt the girl feeling?
  13. Also how can the physical size and ethnicity of a person help or create disadvantage to have high self-esteem
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