nottoobrightguy

I told her I didn't want a relationship but after a week I told her things changed for me. I think the real problem that someone previously said is I said too much about how I felt too soon. So i'm thinking of taking the avoiding approach for a good month and see if she contacts me. If not I'll see her at a bar with some of my friends next month and I'll try to act the same. Just being a goofy guy in front of her.

I don't want to force her. But is this her way of saying I'm not the right guy for her or does she really just want to have some single fun for a while. Should I stay her friend and hope she changes her mind over time or should I stay away? Its just weird that she would start something and then suddenly just stop.

thanks for the help guys!