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  1. punchy504
    tell him to mail it, that you don't want him at your house and if he comes you won't be there
  2. punchy504
    outta sight outta mind lets you focus on other things so you can move on
  3. punchy504
    I am on the same page as Mr Meh on this one, your longing might have more to do with the attention involved with being pregnant and having a new baby, and having something "of your own" than an actual desire to be a parent.
  4. punchy504
    well you're 17, so in a few months you can do whatever you want, in the mean time they haven't said anything about it so I wouldn't worry all that much, and if they ask you about it just be honest.
  5. punchy504
    That is awesome, and rather than a red flag, he seems to be sending up a grenn one as far as his ability to be empathetic and consider the situation fromyour pov
  6. punchy504
    well, quite frankly, I can understand your parents not wanting you to spend too much time with this girl, I would not want my kids to be in a relationship with someone who has or recently had some major issues going on. That being said, you may want to let your parents know the steps she has taken to handle her issues in a more healthy manner, i.e. she goes to counseling, got involved in church/support group etc. your parents are trying only to protect you, don't begrudge them that.
  7. punchy504
    you shouldn't have read her posts- If I were you I wouldn't bring it up, she is entitled to thoughts and feelings she doesn't share with you.
  8. punchy504
    I would continue to hang out with her as a friend until you both feel strongly enough to move forward
  9. punchy504
    let him move out, you can't make someone want to be with you, you would be better off not making him or YOU miserable trying, concentrate on you and that soon to be here baby. Hanging on to him is not going to change his feelings right now, only he can do that.
  10. punchy504
    what do you mean cut herself?
  11. punchy504
    I know- and I feel for you, but find out right away that way you don't get duped.
  12. punchy504
    you're falling in love with this guy??? better to know now right, i mean not to scare you or be the harbinger of doom, but what if he's married?
  13. punchy504
    set a date for in his town, it's time to see what he's freaked out about.
  14. punchy504
    what did your g/f do that your parents don't like her?
  15. punchy504
    she has a boyfriend- don't do this to yourself....
  16. punchy504
    I would not continue a friendship like that.
  17. punchy504
    I think there is a lot of blame to go around in your scenario- the least of which falls on you- dad should be spending better quality time with his kids, mom should as well, both of them should not let the girls play these games that teens play, the teens are playing their games, mom should have supported your position in the household- it's just a mess. I don't know what to tell you, but I feel for you man. I wouldn't restart anything until mom agrees and follows through with demanding those girls start treating her and all other adults with some respect.
  18. punchy504
    it's the social norm to do the flower thing for these dances so you really don't have to justify it at all
  19. punchy504
    There are so many different ways people can be alcoholics, if you went by all of the different tests there are more alcoholics than not. that being said the drinking alone and the drinking to medicate feelings are unhealthy behaviors that you should address
  20. punchy504
    I would not get so worked up until you read the letter
  21. punchy504
    sounds like you already have a good grasp of the situation good luck, harbor no expectations and you won't be disappointed
  22. punchy504
    happens everyday- most times isn't really love though, just some sort of unhealthy attachment
  23. punchy504
    what should I do? concentrate on school...
  24. punchy504
    maybe he's trying to show her his sensitive side, or get her to feel sorry for him and talk to him, or make her think he is "such a deep" person
  25. punchy504
    you're right each person has their own idea of when it's right, probably the most important factor being if they are with someone they want to marry
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