This is my first time on this forum- I am 8.5 months pregnant and my husband of almost 5 years does not want to be with me. Just a week ago I decided to pack his stuff and asked him to leave because, I couldnt take his neglect anymore. Through out the 8 months that I have been pregnant I never felt that he was there for me. I always felt that everything was more important to him, (friends and family). We have been down this road before but, we always managed to work it out and stay together. He wants to act like he is a single man and do whatever he wants. I feel that I am not asking for much but, for him to come home and be with me. He has a sick mom which he visits every day but, thats when his sister comes in the picture. If she asks him do something for her he will drop everything and do it for her. While I am home alone, waiting for him. He has his priotiries all mixed up because, I feel that once you are married your wife should be your first priority like he is to me. So, now he is telling me that he is tired of being with me and that he loves me but, is not in love with me. He says that I am controlling, rude, mean, that we dont have anything in common. He said that I make him feel like a child, and that his family will always be a problem for me. He also mentioned that he doesnt want anybody else that he wants to be alone. but, today he said that maybe he wants to know what it is to be with another woman. I know he has not been cheating but, that comment makes me wonder? He did not take any of his stuff out and as a matter of fact i put it back where it belongs. He did not move out yet but, is planning to take his stuff this weekend. I love him and want to be with him, I am wiling to work it out and perhaps see a marriage counselor. He has made up his mind and does not want anything to do with me. However, he mentioned that if we are menat to be we can be together in the future.
Any thoughts?
