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  1. punchy504
    JAY SHE'S DECIDED TO BE WITH HIM AND NOT YOU, FACE IT AND MOVE ON.
  2. punchy504
    why would this start arguments unless you were pushing him to give more than he ready too? I think the no contact is a great idea, he is obviously still feeling pressure from you. leave him be, move on
  3. punchy504
    oh my god the drama!! my philosophy with relationships is "if I am not 100% sure they want to be with me or they are 100% sure they want to be with me or I am not 100% sure I want to be with them, then we don't need to be together" at least not exclusively. the 300% rule has always worked for me.
  4. punchy504
    call him. just say you are in a different place now and got to thinking about him and was wondering what he was up to, what's going on in his life. then he can tell you. if he's involved than he's involved-- at least you know.
  5. punchy504
    first of all I don't think 14 years old should be trying to be sexy, that said I am sure if you are yourself and truly enjoy and focus on what you all are doing he's bound to notice you, first of all you'll be the only girl secondly when people are enjoying what they are involved in they exude happiness fun and that in itself is attractive to others- you might come away with 3 admirers!
  6. punchy504
    it's not for you to say how long she should take to get over the relationship, she is doing what she needs to, and it is no longer any of your business, you should be concentrating on what you need to do to move on
  7. punchy504
    I would not approach him on this, obviously every time he thinks you are getting sappy on him he pulls back, if you let it all out he will pull all the way back, this is your problem not his, don't dump it on him
  8. punchy504
    your 26, I would go for the cert, for now, if it were me, but I would plan to go back for the degree later (which is exactly what I did with my life)
  9. punchy504
    no I should have said she wants attention from more people, if you think you have been lacking in that area then certainly give her more attention, but this issue is all hers
  10. punchy504
    I wouldn't read too much into but she is flirting with you, things aren't going good in her relationship, but it makes her feel good to flirt with you and catch your eye, mini boost to the self esteem
  11. punchy504
    she has to says she doesn't feel like you're honest with her in order to justify her asking another person, she wants more attention, it's nothing to do with you at all.
  12. punchy504
    you're too young for that stuff, stick with kissing
  13. punchy504
    I don't think it's awesome for him to rest his mental health and possible safety on the potential of this relationship.
  14. punchy504
    why can't you do both- get ther cert, continue working, finish school at night- your job may even pay for some of it.
  15. punchy504
    if it were me I would go to the city, you'll have plenty of time later in life to settle down in a small town
  16. punchy504
    Raven once again time for you to be responsible for your own feelings and actions, you are now 18, an adult, time to act like one, you may not want to , and yes it will hurt, but follow the advice you have been given
  17. punchy504
    ok time for you to meet my friend- his name is responsibilty. your ex doesn't make you do anything, you decide to go along with what he says so you don't have to feel like a *beep*. move on, have no contact, and get on with your life.
  18. punchy504
    Theeeeeeeeen, don't be friends.
  19. punchy504
    if I were you I would definitely think about talking to a counsellor
  20. punchy504
    he might not have technically lied but portraying a relatively new friend as so good of a friend that he could not possibly not do as much stuff with her just to make you a bit more comfortable would get my back up. they have been friends for a year that means they have slept together within the past year, things are obviously too fresh with her for him to make a good start with someone new. you did the right thing
  21. punchy504
    I agree with iceman to an extent but some guys do feel quite intimidated in a new job which makes them feel a bit un-manly, thus libido and intimacy go down, I would give him a bit more time to get used to his new situation, also be encouraging and supportive, at least for this period of time put your needs on the back burner while he adjusts
  22. punchy504
    avman you are correct, I didn't think of that, it really irritates me when posters don't give all pertinent info
  23. punchy504
    you can certainly expand on any of the things you have already mentioned, you asked what she does, that can lead to how she got into that profession, what her goals are, if she ever wants to switch feilds etc etc etc
  24. punchy504
    I don't know, I don't know him, I would guess not, at least not right now.
  25. punchy504
    you don't need him to do something wrong, the only reason you need is you don't want to be involved at this level with this person anymore. waiting for him to do something wrong so you can be absolved of the responsibility of the breakup is cowardly and not fair to him, or yourself.
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