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  1. punchy504
    because the most intense feelings we ever feel are the feelings we are feeling right now when you feel strongly about someone it is hard to imagine something comparable
  2. punchy504
    By saying that you have "lots of empathy" and then end your post by stating, "I cant be the only one rolling my eyes at some of these posts" is very contradictory! Too true, too true. However, and maybe, as is my habit to sometimes do, my words in the first post came out too sharply. But I do not think I would be helping anyone by encouraging some of the self defeatest attitudes that are prevelant here. Like I said before I have seen some GREAT advice given to a troubled poster, who then totally disregards it and still wonders why they are miserable. I want to help and support people, not enable them. and I will take someone's advice from early and be a bit chosy about who I am spending my time on.
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    I do have lots of empathy, and when I first joined this forum I did think oh that poor gir or that must have been so rough, but (and I am basing this on everything I have read here) when you actually give someone good solid advice and they turn around and come back at you with the exact same question as in their original post, you've got to wonder if they actually want they help they are cryin for. And I did join this site in addition to the legal site so I would have the opportunity to be a bit more personally supportive of people in difficult situations than a legal site really allows, but the drama is just overwhelming. I do know that I come accross as sharp but I can't be the only one rolling my eyes at some of these posts?
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    when this is a forum about love etc!!!!! I do recall seeing forum categories such as Career, Personal Growth. I would have loved to have been involved with the discussions you described, those help people.... will my ex ever call meee???? ad nauseum does not
  5. punchy504
    go where the other lesbians go, ask your ex where she met her friend
  6. punchy504
    I was so excited when I found this forum, I am also a member of a legal advice forum, I love it and the friends I have made there. This forum seems excessively full people trying to get attention over exaggerated emotions and situations. even in the career forum. I have looked all over this forum for an intelligent conversation and all I find is pity partys and people who don't want to move on because they are too happy being miserable. If there is a current discussion about something of substance, would someone please be so kind as to direct me to it?
  7. punchy504
    Angela's Ashes and it's sequel Tis both by Frank McCourt
  8. punchy504
    in the first post you said you wanted it to work, in your last you said you can't get rid of him, make up your mind
  9. punchy504
    you obviously don't want a relationship, nothing bad about that, but let the poor sap you have on the line go
  10. punchy504
    don't sleep with him just because he wants you to
  11. punchy504
    counseling might help
  12. punchy504
    contact ups, pay for shipping, set up a pik ticket, tell the ex to have it ready ups will be stopping by a x date at x time, to pick up box, he has to do nothing, he has to pay nothing.
  13. punchy504
    yeah it's definitely time for you to just move on- enough with the drama already, don't contact her, she has a boyfriend; she is not going to contact you. sad but true, that's the way it is.
  14. punchy504
    This guy obviously wants his cake and wants to eat it too. Think about it, if he were sincere he would have broken up with the other girl as soon as he realized his mistake- before he told you he made a mistake. If he were sincere he would have made sure the path for reconcilliation was clear. He feels really great right now, all this drama going on, just for him. The best thing you can do for yourself is concentrate on yourself! If someone else asks you on a date, go! Thai cooking class? GO! Move on.
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