Caterina
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That sounds more casual. Good luck with everything.
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She's not expressing that she feels that way...the signs from her behaviour express it even if it may not be her intention. Stop obsessing...there are plenty of fish in the sea...wait till you know her before deciding whether she's worth all this worry.
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Topher Grace is super hot- what are you talking about? You just are overly cynical and have low self esteem...thats why you can't get women. Jeez, and you'd kill yourself if you didn't date anyone? Now thats sad. Life isn't lived just so that we can date. There is so much more to life then that.
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I think you're doing the right thing.
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Sounds like she kind of likes you but isn't sure about her feelings. Being clingy isn't going to help. Just call her to make dates and forget about her until the day of the date. You're still contacting her too much.
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I'm a woman and I don't think that there is anything wrong with what he said. He just mentioned that he had a preference. Should we bash people who say that they like blondes? Stop the bad treatment of women when its the bad treatment of women.
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That is really scary. It sounds like there are deep emotional problems there.
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My fiance says I am "not his type"
Caterina replied to limeorchid's topic in Marriage/Long Term Relationships
Honestly, it could be as simple as him looking at other naked women all day. Thats bound to be a temptation and a torture. Some people will disagree with the previous statement. I think that love takes work. You sound like you have a really good head on your shoulders...you know how to make a relationship work...I can't offer much other then that I think you'll figure a solution out eventually. -
At this point it shouldn't matter. You've let her know that you want to see her. The ball is in her court. YOu should have waited longer before contacting her after the date(although the night of the date confirm that she'd like to go on another one) in my opinion. If she doesn't contact you, it really doesn't matter because you don't really know her that well. For all you know she could be the biggest jerk in the world and you're lucky she didn't hook her claws into you.
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Well, it sounds like you have good priorities.
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Age matters to some people and not to others. He is probably in a different place in life...he just graduated while by now you've had a job for a few years. Some men would become scared by that, others wouldn't. I dated a guy who was six years younger then I am. I am 24 and he was eighteen. He was perfectly fine with my age...but I knew we were in two different places at that time and ended it. Basically, it depends on the person. Don't take it personal if he doesn't like it that you're older. I've known people who've dated with much larger age differences.
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Of course you don't have to sleep with her. I personally think sex should be saved for someone you know well and love.
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Well, I'm just talking about myself. Maybe other women are different, but I prefer that my men have their own lives. Especially if I don't know them that well and we've only gone on one date. It annoys me when the guy expects a date immediately after we've gone on one and then keeps texting me or calling me. I have a life I'm trying to live and I'm not about to go getting myself stressed out over a guy I've gone on one date with. Its added stress when you know the other person expects immediate responses and you know you just saw them the other day. Maybe in a world where time doesn't matter. I guess I respect him more if I see him less in the beggining. We appreciate what is rare. Having cake every day makes cake less interesting then having it once a year. Later in the relationship, that of course changes. When I start to fall for a guy, I would like him to call every day. But in the beginning, if a guy is constantly calling me and we've only gone out once it makes it seem as though he's trying to instantly take it from casual to serious. Which, for me, is a turn off. Its not about being aloof. Aloof is stupid. Its about not making her a priority until you know she's worth being a priority AND understanding that the same applies to the way she feels about you. When she knows you better, she'll be more willing to make you a priority.
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Who broke it off? Talk to him about it. What if he really likes her? I mean, you aren't with her anymore. Still, how close are you? If you are really close he should consider your feelings over any he has for her. Make sure you ask him and talk to him about it.
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Like I said. You are coming on way too strong. You only just started dating. Be aloof. It sounds like you are already scaring her off.
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Thats a little soon in my opinion. Why does she want to sleep with you so soon? She sounds like she has problems.
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Have your own life. You JUST SAW HER. Give it three days at least. If you come on too needy, that will scare her off, I'm tellin' you.
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Well, I was honest and he was really nice about it. I'm really glad I chose to treat him with the respect he deserved and called him.
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I hope no one thought that I said women jump at a chance to date a doctor. I said that most women would at least give it a chance.
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There are different types of eccentricities. I like the eccentric types who are kind of cute in a quirky way that isn't overly illogical. I don't like the annoying eccentric types who aren't in touch with rationalism or reality. I like male versions of what Dako looks for in women. Basically I like fun-loving eccentric types.
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Both are bad positions to be in. Find someone who excites you but also treats you well.
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You don't want a second date? So I went on a date and the guy treated me really well. Took me to a nice restraunt, and let me pick the movie. Thing is, I don't feel a lot of chemistry. I didn't like two things: one, he said that he smokes pot and two, he was wayyy too touchy-feely for the first date. I don't think badly of him, but I'm not really interested in a second date. He asked me if I was interested near the last date and I said yes call me. Now, I was probably wrong. but I chickened out. I HATE letting people know I'm not interested. What should I do...here are some options: 1) let him call and not pick up...he gets a clue and isn't hurt too much hopefully 2) be honest and say something along the lines of, I am not interested in someone who smokes pot...the lifestyle that it entails is too different from mine...and not mention anything about how I think we're too different 3) answer the phone, be respectful and nice but brief and tell him I'm busy and he gets the clue 4) some magnificent way of not hurting/rejecting in any way without actually having to tell him 5) you tell me, please
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That is HORRIBLE. I am so sorry. Not to sound like a man-hater but there are so many sleazy FAKE men out there. There are some men who are SOOOO nice until the instant you do/say something they don't like...then its like unleash the hulk. I feel righteous indignation for what you had to put up with. My honest advice? I'd hurt him. My good advice? Forgive man and forget. If you see him don't let it emotionally affect you. He's a tool-enemy or enemy-tool.
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You should be glad...you're going to be so busy that not getting caught up in relationships is probably a good thing. Don't settle. You have a lot to offer on at least the initial attraction level. Like previous posters said, most women that hear "attractive doctor," would at the very least give him a chance. Besides, 8 months is not that long. Its probably going to be quite some time before you find someone that you are interested in.
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But isn't saying that its the Stockholm Syndrom somewhat circular? I mean, why would the Stockholm Syndrom take place then?
