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  1. Caterina
    Wow I assumed a lot and its obvious in my response. Who knows...this kind of question applies to human beings not just women...humans lie etc
  2. Caterina
    ROFL. Its funny, one thing that seems to come up a lot is the idea that we are all truly only attracted to what is unavailable.
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    Its a mystery to me...but its gotta be that way for a reason and until I know the answer I'm gonna stay away from cheating and people who cheat.
  5. Caterina
    It definetly means that you're on his mind...either that, or you're incredibly common-looking.
  6. Caterina
    How are you supposed to know? But she did.
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    I agree. Especially since it really could have been his sister. Even if it wasn't, why do you care so much about him thinking that you are dumb? Besides, people lie all the time to smart people. If this happened to me, I could have very well reacted angrily. But if I had reacted that way...later reflection would have revealed that I'd made a mistake. Basically, like previous posters said, HE OWES YOU NOTHING because you weren't exclusive. But if he replied the way he did to you...like he doesn't care that its over...I'd cool down and realize that it probably doesn't matter...and I'd understand. Because personally, no one is attracted to someone who starts yelling at them for what seems like a very small reason. You say you are only angry about lying...but I think that its a lot more then that...no one gets that mad about feeling dumb about being lied to.
  8. Caterina
    For me its not so much small hands as those thin, enlongated fingers that look like women's that some men have.
  9. Caterina
    That is soo adorable! My brother has a sunken chest that he's really self conscious about. Its not even noticeable but you can bet that I tease him about it since it gets to him.
  10. Caterina
    You're so romantic & poetic Dako.
  11. Caterina
    No fair you Lucky!
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    Depends on the situation. Sometimes its a lot more sexy to wait and to just convey meaning through body language. Although, if you just want to know, just be upfront. Or even better, be upfront about the way you feel about her. The power of reciprication does exist. Sometimes the way you feel is returned merely because you iniated it...she might not have thought about liking you before but the thought isn't so bad once its been introduced to her and so she returns the affections back. In any case, you shouldn't ever be afraid of women. They can't hurt you. Just be honest, you know? I dont' see how talking and being honest hurts. When a guy asks me stuff like that, I just tell him the truth. Although, there are definetly a lot of variables to consider when thinking of possibilities of getting an answer you personally desire...like tone, the surprise factor, motivations (the desire not to hurt), lol the person etc
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    Do any of you have an quirky attraction for some odd things about other people? Not like a fetish, lol, but just a small attraction for something out of the ordinary? For instance, I have a friend who said that she found a mole on her husband's shoulder very interesting. Tell me some of yours. For me, I really like it when a guy touches his forefinger to his temple...especially if he has a watch on his wrist. Wow it drives me wild! I also like it if a guy has really soft bangs that he lets hang over his face if he's concentrating on something. Or if he touches things around him very gently with his hands. I love it when they have a slow, deep voice...he talks slowly but smoothly, like drinking warm coffee... What about features? I like thin lips...I also like it when a guy has really good posture. I hate wimpy looking hands...I hate feminine hands...I like a man whose hands are definetly masculine (not calloused or browned or anything, but just big man-hands LOL). I like men who smile. I love a thin waist. I also like it when a guy doesn't really have a lot of hair on his chest. I like glasses...not bottlecaps like mine, but thin ones...not those emo-glasses either...you know,those thick rimmed ones...those are cheesy/overdone. I like the look of youth...fresh looking skin. I also like wrists, thin wrists. So what do ya think?
  14. Caterina
    Sounds good to me! Ding!
  15. Caterina
    Good point, I certainly agree.
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    I've heard people say, "Oh, I like this type of guy," plenty of times and it always made me curious because it was difficult for me to find any patterns in the guys that have dated me. Theyve been very varied in all sorts of ways. Come to think of it though, I can think of a few: - usually they were intellectually competent in some way - they often were the pursuers...I definetly knew that they were the ones who liked me - good sense of humor It makes you think about things a little bit when you reflect on this. Its fun to speculate. I think that a large staple for me has been men who are very intelligent. I have the tendency to feel bored & trapped if I do not respect a man intellectually. Its also interesting to realize that I have only dated men I considered funny. I used to say that this doesn't matter to me. My father is a very funny man but I have always said that I have never liked men who were anything like him. I want someone who is psychologically deep, also. But, its also interesting to know that the guys I've dated have improved with practice. I had some really bad ones and they got better & better as time and experience progressed. So I figured I'd throw the question out to you.... If looking objectively at your past relationships...do you see any patterns that crop up? Do you date the same man over and over or do you have some qualities that keep arising in every man you've dated?
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    Oh man that sounds delicious. You sound like a sweet guy. Are you Italian? Your avatar looks like you're italian. Don't give up hope, just be who you are and you'll find the right one.
  18. Caterina
    Sounds like you've got a good plan there. Don't settle but don't expect people to be perfect...I need to think that way as well. I have commitmentphobia myself or it could just be that I haven't found my good man niche yet.
  19. Caterina
    Trust and have faith and hope that God will take care of you. Don't go to men to save you...stay away from them and seek purity and peace. Now, its going to be hard but through your trials and your suffering and loneliness know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and understand that this will also pass. Try to stop worrying and remedy that the best you can because your worrying will break you down.
  20. Caterina
    You're very anxious right now. I think you need to heal yourself and stay away from all the drama this man brings.
  21. Caterina
    Lol, clever, but our lives can't be lived dictated by maxims.
  22. Caterina
    Its an interesting thought...I think women tend to want/need men more then visa versa. I think a lot of women can't stand the thought of being alone and so they settle and then dream about how the grass is greener instead of waiting for someone they are sure about. Although of course I've seen many men with this problem also.
  23. Caterina
    You can't get through to a jerk. You just can't. He hurt you and he'll only hurt you more if you contact him. Its over, its over.
  24. Caterina
    You are in so much pain its not funny. The rebound guy sounds dangerous. Here he is swooping in and saying rude things to you when you are at your weakest. He's aware of the fact that he's a rebound guy and he's not treating you right. He's a low point.
  25. Caterina
    Monagamy is of course possible because many human beings (not to mention certain animal species lol) practice it. Temptation is something that can certainly grow if indulged with more thought. Personally, I think marriage is an extremely important decision that too many people in our country do not take seriously enough before entering.
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