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  1. Caterina
    It sounds like you are doing the right thing> What were the religious differences if you don't mind my asking?
  2. Caterina
    PM me with what happened...maybe I can help.
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    I disagree with part of this. I think that if you are truly loved, the person is willing to put up with certain faults. Although, I do think that independent people need other independent people...but there is nothing wrong with expressing emotions...both negative or positive...expression is a form of communication that is healthy and often leads to true reconciliation. Your idea of what men want sounds really selfish...its all about what women do for you (make you feel special) but its bad if they impose their emotions on you. Thats not a relationship and its not realistic. However, if you recognize a problem...he tells you that you're too emotional...you should first ask yourself if its true. If it is true, you should implement strategies of change and NC him for a while until you feel more emotionally stable. If you think that other people wouldn't mind this part of your personality then keep it and get rid of him. I agree with annie on the questionable nature of a guy who is never around. Overall, you need people who will support you as you go through this. Is he doing that? You know the answer.
  4. Caterina
    Not everyone wants to waste the time, energy and money it takes to earn a Phd when you could be out in the workforce.
  5. Caterina
    You are in a lot of pain right now. It sounds like he isn't willing to be emotionally ready for you when you go through difficult times of this calibur. That isn't his fault, but I think you need time to heal and grieve, sweetheart. *hugs*
  6. Caterina
    Well good...feel JUDGED. Feel the excruciating heaviness of condemnation weigh down on your shoulders! Scream in agony! bwahahahhaha haha Lol, seriously though, just be a little more sensitive.
  7. Caterina
    Well, I've always eaten healthy. Okay, Okay, not always- I do have a sweet tooth. But I have eaten healthy for a while and it doesn't have totally awesome results. I'm guessing its portion size. I'm not overweight, but I remain the same size.
  8. Caterina
    Lol, I've had that happen before...too much shyness!
  9. Caterina
    Well, if he likes you then there is not much you can do that would be overly uncool...at least I don't think either of those actions are too risky. Who cares about the means as long as you get the results? Thats the way I think. Also, don't be mean to ugly people.
  10. Caterina
    I've felt the same way before. And I hate to break it to you, but it only gets worse after being in a university because the number of people of the opposite sex your age within close vicinity goes down significantly. But I guess its kind of like trying to predict the economy. Sure, the numbers go down but then again, the probability of meeting someone who is compatible might go up because their interests are similar if they're in the same workfield you are. I felt the same way. When I was at the university I was only attracted to maybe one guy. But when that happens, you tend to adapt. I adjusted my tastes a little and am now willing to date a larger range simply because what I want is too difficult to find.
  11. Caterina
    You're doing great! I don't know what the problem is. If you want to lose more, just amp up the ante when it comes to exercize. I have a question though...I've been trying to lose weight and I have MAJOR food cravings...I'm not sure sure if its a good thing to not listen to my body...what do you think?
  12. Caterina
    How come you are sure? If you're so sure, why doesn't he just ask you? I say wait unless you're willing to take the risk of being rejected.
  13. Caterina
    They try to cut any conversation with you short. They go out of their way to avoid you. They ignore you and aren't interested in anything you say. They don't smile at all around you...or very little. They act annoyed by you. ---- If she's friends with you...you at least have a bit of a chance if she enjoys your company...but it will still be a risk to ask. Asking is the only way of knowing.
  14. Caterina
    Ask him out.
  15. Caterina
    Well, I guess it will remain an eternal question for us lol (I mean, until its not). Thanks for the responses!
  16. Caterina
    I've said that before... I don't become interested unless he showed an indication of interest...but I think its circular. We think that he has shown interest because its what we want to see. Anyhow, I'm sure a lot of people have felt this way. I don't want to see the ones who haven't.
  17. Caterina
    Why is it that so many of us have the issue of dealing with irony of having someone like us that we aren't interested in and being interested in someone that isn't interested in us? The way I see it, if you like a guy- its a sure sign he doesn't like you. If you wonder what he's thinking about - its a sure sign it isn't about you. Don't you agree?
  18. Caterina
    It just means that right now he doesn't want to say he loves you. Protect yourself b/c he might not be emotionally ready at any point...however, he might just be trying to make the relationship go slowly...be cool about it if you like him...go slow yourself... Personally, if a guy said that to me, I would have said, "I'm definetly cool with that...in my past most guys said 'I love you' way too early and it was far from being mutual."
  19. Caterina
    So what does it make you? A good one?
  20. Caterina
    Just wanted to clarify, at some point the idea that intent doesn't matter and doing wrong does...I don't think I was talking out of ignorance because I'm aware of racial issues...but I was partially being tongue in cheek so I'm glad you thought it was funny.
  21. Caterina
    Wow, thats really odd.
  22. Caterina
    I disagree. And I hated that movie. They downplayed some of the guy's crucial decision making to be a destructive person. It was a disgusting movie...the only good that one could possibly derive from it was the idea that (what an original thought!), there are consequences for causing such a horrible, painful betrayal as cheating on a supposed "loved one".
  23. Caterina
    To the poster who addressed my post: I wanted to note that I left a sort of disclaimer about the fact that I was being general. Bringing up exceptions to my generalities is silly since I already mentioned that. I think being politically, ethically and culturally sensitive is a good ideal but there is a fine line...we don't want to cause any sort of injustice but at some point conversation is limited and all the boring people of the world are the ones shouting about not stereotyping. This is sort of off the OP topic in a big way but the issue was raised...
  24. Caterina
    I agree. People who love their SO don't need to distract themselves with temptations because they're happy making someone else happy. Getting tempted by these women shows not only a lack of discipline but also a lack of love because if you loved her you wouldn't betray her. You need to learn what love is and how to truly love someone.
  25. Caterina
    This is really general but...I know a lot of Asian guys who get women...Asian guys are treated the same way as anyone else is treated. Although, I've noticed that some Asian-type guys are more popular then others. Like lots of women like Hawaiin guys because they're tan & tall & muscular but not Japanese guys because they're short and thinner than we are and also kind of nerdy. Anyways, I've really thought a lot of Asian guys were hot.
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