Cecil de Volange

Message to all women: Someone answer this, because I have no clue how to answer her situation. I rarely masterbate, so I really can't answer this. Probably it could expanded from all the massaging...I really have no clue?????

OH MY GAHHH.....I can't even believe that I'm giving advice to you, but your 15 so your excuse...Don't worry, just relax. Just wear something with sleeves and collar, then match it with any type of pants. Try to spray some cologne because girls like it when a man smells good (in your situation I should refer to you as "a boy"). Its the first date, so just talk about what do you like and what is your favorite things. Then again it would be boring, so spice things up with anything hilarious that has happened to you, such as "When I was in chemistry class I mixed water to acid, but I'm supposed to mix it with acid to water and my hand burned...hahahahah...isn't funny.." (don't tell that joke because it isn't comical at all, she might assume your weird). The way to a girls heart is Humor...WE LIKE TO LAUGH!!!!! Good luck

yeah...forget about the gift...bad advice...just talk to her to get thing resolve.

honestly white fang some women likes to flirt with other men. Its complicated, but I guess its just her personality. Although I do not have the same characteristics as her because I'm not really good a flirting. I'm only good at talking about academics in college and books (depressing, I win men over by my intellectual self). I do agree her behavior is very odd, but from my own opinion I think that she fancy's you. . You could try asking her about her eccentric behavior. Don't be afraid to ask her why she behaves oddly around you. Good luck

every woman masterbute althought June4life is one of a kind. It depends some women masterbate everyday, sometimes twice a day, or more....lol

Majority of men tend to be flirty even with female friends. Also I cannot really tell if he likes you because most men smile at every female they see. Also don't confront him about it. You don't want to be the center of humiliation or anything, but let things go with the flow. You'll never know because he might ask you out someday.

Your ex has some trust issue although it would be hard to get her back, but you could try sending her some gifts....usually roses and chocolates work. Those things are less than $20 . Are you sure you want her back? Just think about it because she doesn't seem to trust you at all or probably she doesn't trust anyone she dates. Talk to her again before you give her some gifts of apology.

just tell her how you feel, because your not going to lose anything, such as "____(girl's name), I have something to confess although I do not know how your reaction is going to be, but I have been longing to tell you that I like you....and (add something else.)" Even though she said she sees you as a friend, you still have her friendship, but if she said "Yes...I like you too...." You got both things. Just don't say anything about her liking you back. Only tell the truth when she asks about it....give her a single rose when you are about to ask her to make it more convincing and romantic...

I really like your message because somehow it gave me strength that there is always hope. I am glad you that you have move on. I'm still sad over the ending of my relationship, yet I am happy because my heart is slowly healing...little by little...

Your girlfriend has some major psychologica issues, and she seemed dellussional with this pretend marriage. Probably you can sue her for emotional distress or file a lawsuit for being a stalker (she phones a lot, invading of privacy). You can also change your phone numbers to make her stop. Call a psychologist to evaluate her so probably he/she could admit her to some type of therapy or institution. good luck....

Honestly from the way you described it. I think you girlfriend overdose herself with the pills. You did mention she was nauseous, so I can conclude that she overdose herself accidentally. Check with the doctor, just in case...

Dear hubman01, It is alright, I didn't even notice that I was being belittling. As a matter of fact you weren't belittling me at all. You were just explaining and just misunderstood what I just said. I just need to explicate my word choice more.... I accept the apology anyways.

Ask and tell him what you have just type. Its is the only way to find out. If he understands and intends to move near you...Great...that is love If he does not understand and is angry about the situation, then his not the one. Although the way you described him, he seems nice, so I don't see him getting angry or any misunderstanding. Good luck...

dear hubman01, I do agree that the people who are disloyal do not deserve to die, yet I do admit I got carried away; however, I have to disagree with the term you said "forgiven." True, a person who does not forgive will never find happines, but do you mean that you believe in the quote "Forgive and forget." I can forgive, but forget...never....Also when I mean "Shot" I did not mean dead, my definition of shot means hurt. Also I never said I wanted them all dead, I said the man who got ran over deserves to be dead because he was very cruel to his wife if your watch their documentary in "A&E". I did contradict myself that I wished the woman got a divorce to make the situation more horrible to her husband. Also I said "Abolish" it does not mean dead, death means not living, no life, and if your abolish the person is alive yet lives somewhere else.

I have read so many intriguing stories in every forum about a woman cheating behind behind her loyal boyfriend's back or a man cheating behind his girlfriend's back. Honestly, I despised every person who has committed adultery, infidelity, cheating, and vice versa. I believed the people who are disloyal in a relationship before marriage do not deserve a second chance. They deserve to be alone or even better "abolish" in the face of the earth. They don't deserve happiness, only depression and loneliness. As you could all see, I loathe every cheating hearts that ever existed in this world . They should make infidelity a crime for marriages in the United States although such law does exist at Turkey. It would be very wonderful if President Bush or Kerry sign such law. I have no clue if some of you remember a woman who ran over her husband with a Mercedes Benz because he was cheating with his secretary, but majority of you would disagree with me; however, the man who got ran over by a car deserves to die and be ran over by a 4,000 ton car . Although I just wished the woman just got a divorce such as following the quote "DON'T GET MAD, GET EVERYTHING...." (the quote in the movie "The First Wives Club), but she just couldn't handle her rage anymore. Although marriage might be an exception, Adultery in marriages can be very frustrating, but the only way for cheaters to regain the trust of there partners is nothing. Probably moving to a provincial town to be away from your mistress or lover might help, but regaining the trust from your wife or husband again is difficult. I have never been disloyal to any of my past relationships, but a few of them were disloyal to me, and I hated every inch of them. I always wonder why would people cheat if they have the most loyal and kind person in the whole world. Those type of people who would cheat behind the humble ones have psychological issues, and they need to get SHOT!!!!! I guess the lesson for every loyal person is "Don't be nice every day, show them you have a dark side..."

Do you love this man? If you do, just keep it a secret. I am just amazed you killed your own child to have the man you want. I call this situation selfish. Although it is your life, I cannot guarantee everything will stay in the closet, but if he ever founds out, just tell him the truth; however, if he never founds out, Great...you got the ending you wanted....

I am very amaze that your able to control your sexual urges. Honestly, when a man is offered sex by an irresistible woman, the man would automatically agree. In your situation you rejected the offer which I can't even be more happier that you made a very mature decision. Every man should follow your mature example.

why won't you ask her politely so she will give you head. Such as "Bunny, I know this may seem inappropriate and beyond our moral values but would you kindly give me a blow job, please?" Honestly, I have no clue if that question is going to work, but I have been doing a research of how to make people do things. (Its for college) Although base in my research keep asking politely, never force the person.

I was involved with a verbablly abusive man with similar characteristics to your boyfriend. He won't hold my hand either, but he does say I love you when his drunk (he called around 2 am).Here is an advice if you know its not going to work out you have to let him go no matter how much you love him. Its for the sake of both you . I was depress letting him go because I love my boyfriend so much, but I just couldn't take it anymore. Please move on....just try...

I wrote my ex-boyfriend, the verbablly abusive one, a letter. Somehow it is similar to yours. I was having trouble mailing it to him, but I still did. Honestly writing a letter to an ex might be a bad idea, but its a good thing in a way to make them realized that we are not kidding around about love. Also I cannot guarantee the person who wrote the letter will have closure because I'm having a difficult time moving on. Also your letter was great...

As you know I was involved with a man who never loved me the way I wanted him to love me, he drove me into my own insanity. Although I have a few questions to the men of our dear society, pleas answer. I'm just confused. 1)What do men really want for a girl to be? Do they want them wild or innocent? 2)Why do men say I love you, when they don't even mean what they say? 3)Do men prefer personality or looks? (Pick one only) 4) Do men prefer a woman with brains or with a sexy body (Pick one only) 5)Are men only attracted to some innocent, virgin, and educated women to satisfy society ? 6)Why men suddenly do realized they don't want to be with this type of educated and innocent women? 7) What is an ideal female in mens perspective?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend in the middle of June 2004. I ended it to save us both because he was becoming verbably abusive after the break up I was drifting into madness. In other words I was insane, such as throwing objects accross the room, isolation, seclusion, having a philosophy of a misanthropist (hatred towards men), whispering to myself at a corner such as "He said he loves...he said it was faith..." and then if I'm having a very sad feeling or a very painful one then I would throw myself down the stairs. The stimuli of the pain makes every bad memories go away. I still throw myself down the stairs. I have a lot of hematomas and a few bruises right now. I know he would never call again and I love him too much...its just hard.

Really...that's not what my friend's lawyers told her which she told me... Although my friend did asked a lawyer at a firm, the lawyers recommended my friend to do the 10 years thing, but I do hope such thing exist.

Their is a law that if you have live in the US more than 10 years, she would be eligible to have a green card and SSN. I ask my father for the site.That is what my friend is going through right now. She couldn't go to a University because they were asking her for a drivers license and SSN. She doesn't have one of those. She is having difficulty going to school also because she does not drive. I wish a the governor of california sign the law to make undocumented immgrants have driver's license because not all are terrorist.

So you were involved with a friends w/ benefits things? I would recommend you to let go of him. Avoid him as much as possible. He is just using you for his selfish desires. I know its hard, believe me? Well my boyfriend didn't took away my vriginity, but he took away my sanity. I'm pretty much have self-inflicted psychological issues right now....really severe self-inflicted psychological issues...like a lot of them....just let him go.