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  1. butterflykiss04
    You know you are right and it dosnt make you a hipocrit I find it conforting to know that you have found something to give you a glimpse of light and your willing to share it with others. The movie that changed things for me was pay it forward I have given it as a gift to almost everyone I know they joke about it now they said they didnt even have to guess what it was my brother actually said let me get the popcorn befor he opened it!
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    I honestly think that you already know that he really wants some space you admited to being needy and maybe that is whats pushing him away maybe if you try focusing on yourself and just take some time for yourself or to hang out with your friends than that should give him some space and maybe cutting down on the questioning can help look in all honesty you seem to know what the deal is just read your post you have answered your questions!
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    Honesty is key!
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    It isnt wrong for you to be with her because a father is not the one who plants the seed its the one who will care and nurture it in the long run. But you are still young and really need to think of it this way are you ready to take care of a family to be a role model to this child and to be there for this child no matter what? Just think about it dont rush into anything being a parent is hardder than you think I should know I have 2. Good luck and hope I helped!
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    Its normal for sex to kindda go that way after a while for different reasons it sometimes feels rutine you could try something different a little romace wouldnt hurt good forplay for me begins outside of the bedroom from saying sweet nothings to each other thoughtfull things usually help like the more my man does around the house the less overwhelmed I am but talking to her would be a good idea and make sure you rule out medical problems if all else fails some strawberrys, chocolate, whipped cream and a scarf to blind fold her should do the trick and try not to aim dirrectly to do breast or genitals just linger around and the anxiety will build up pay attention to other neglected parts of her body. Good luck and hope I helped!
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    You sound like you are going through alot in your life that has affected your confidence and self-esteem you need to find your worth before you start dating because if you view yourself the way you do right now people are gonna step all over know that you are a great man and if your beautifull on the inside it will show on the outside and god makes no mistakes you will find in time someone who will love you and wont see your disabilities but your great abilities love and care! God bless take care and dont loose faith!
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    Thank you all for the input and advice one of my kids is his and I do have somewhere to go but its out of the country and he wont let me take my daughter if I leave I cant just move because I am just starting to get myself together I havent work a day in my life because of a heart decease and recently decided that I wouldnt let this keep me down I start cna classes in sep. and get on my feet from there. thanx again for all the great advise and input!
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    jelousy is ussually a sing of insequirity and that you dont trust each other and if you dont trust each other you have nothing.
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    Ok I dont think that he hates you its difficult to be a steparent not becaue of the child but because the grownups have differences like in dicipline of how they want to raise a child and its difficult when the child is not your own because sometimes you feel like and outsider give him sometime it took me a while to come around and even though me and my stepdaughters father aint together anymore me and her have great relationship. Also you should speak to your mother if you feel neglected or abused nobody has the right to do that. I know you feel you are in a bad situation but believe me so is he.
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    My boyfriend of three years and I broke up 5 days ago the problem is this we sing a lease together and it expires in a year now he is not acting like he has any intention of leaving we really havent talked but this has me kindda worryed I dont know if I could stand us living together because in some ways I still want to be with him I cant leave because I have 2 kids and nowhere to go and I was here first! My question I guess is could you do it and why and I would appreciate some advice.
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    Opposite sex friendships are ussually a problem I know that you confronted him about how you feel but I think your gonna have to do it again maybe this time you can let him know that yes maybe you are jelouse but its because he is giving you reasons to be you can tell him that you understand that they are friends but that somethings are just not cool anymore now that he is married to you.
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    I have always believed that nothing is to kinky as long as nobody gets hurt and both people enjoy and are comfortable with whatever they are doing! But I dont think this is kinky this dude has issues basically he is turned on by girls who look dead and someone he can feel he is taking advantage of he needs help and she needs to call it quits I mean hell she isnt even comfortable with this crap!
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    I dont think that bisexuality is wrong as long as your are honest and dont hurt anyone I think you should give yourself sometime to explore your sexuality and believe me you will know what you like and what you dont just protect yourself!
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    We all make mistakes we are only human and you have accepted yours I dont know if you let her know this but the reality is that she has moved on and you have to do the same I know it hurts but it does get better!
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    Well I dont think that by you telling him your needs you should be thought of as needy as people we change and sometimes so do are needs so let your feelings be known and dont compromise all of your needs for someone elses because right now I bet he is happy cause everything is going his way well burst his bubble and let him know that the world does not revolve around him! Good luck and hope I helped.
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    Crush

    butterflykiss04 replied to TOA's topic in Dating Advice

    I think its ok as long as your not having sexuall thoughts I mean just chill you thought she was a grown woman and you already know you are not perv!
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    Well sounds like you are not over her you are in a bad situation because you cant avoid her all together I would advice you to let your feelings be known if you want to try to work things out or just be friends but you need to be prepared to accept what ever she says. Stay strong and good luck! [/i]
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    It is ok for a girl to have guy friends and vise versa but what ever she does with him has to be done in a respectful way to you some things are just not acceptable like 4:30 in the morning thats not cool and you should let her know right now that it bothers you and it is desrespectful to and if wants to behave like she is single than maybe she should be!
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    Ejaculation does not equal orgasm!
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    Ok some women use theire cycles as a birthcontrol method which requires for you to be very intune with your body and have normal periods my advice to you is wear a condom that way you wont have to worry about a pregnancy or std's they have some very good condoms!
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    Gilgamesh made a good point all you have to do is listen and your part is to be honest about what you want and not to play with someone elses feelings you never know what the future holds!
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    I was on depo and ended pregnant with my son but never had a period which was good so its strange because depo usually puts a stop to periods or makes them lighter and left often but I guess you cant count on what they say because I ended up pregnant now I am using a 10 IUD anyway have you heard of the new pill that lets you get only 4 perionds a year talk to your doc!
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    I agree with JT leave her alone I wouldnt even worry about being friends with her she dosnt deserve a guy like u just take personal time to heal and go on with your life and find a girl that can trully love and appreciate you!
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    Well I personally I cant relate and I cant appreciate these kinds of poems but I do like that you have found a way to express yourself and if it helps you than more power to you! God bless!
  25. butterflykiss04
    I dont know if this will help but here it is make sure your lips are soft I personally hate ruff lips and that your breath is fresh start of slow mouth closed and than slowly slip the tongue dont cover her mouth like a vacume cleaner that sucks just go with the rythm of her tongue and watch your teeth! hope that helps and just relax you will get the hang of it!
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