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    Hey Saku! I see that you have the same problem I had. You know, life becomes a chaos, and the only one left to blame is God. Well, he didn't put you in this world for no reason. He doesn't "just punish you". Remember that you also have your happy times. In fact, there are more happy times than "punishments". Everything in this world has a purpose. Even the most stupid things. You will always be able to learn something new from your experiences. Personaly, I had one of the worst times of my life lately. It's that kind of moment when school is like hell, and trying to be kind and nice to everyone without results seems to worsen your mood. But I learned that God won't help you in little stuff you can solve by yourself, because he gave us the capacity to fix most of our problems. One last line: The one who never makes mistakes hasn't done anything. d1whouf
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    Hey Daxman! LIFE'S LIKE THIS MY FRIEND Next time, even if you don't want to, go to any event. You know, life is special because of its surprises. D1whoutf
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    Hey skittles_109! I agree with TheShyGuy; he do wants you as a friend. That is a great beginning. Feelings can grow and become stronger, and you might become more than friends . I really recommend you to be with him, you know, hang out together (as friends), and all that kind of stuff. If you are lucky, it will happen! Good Luck d1whoutf
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    Hey Ash55! I really think that you should talk to her, but in another way. When I want to tell that something about someone disgusts me, I try no to go exactly to that point, you know, to avoid it to be like a cold slap in the face. Remember that you don't want to start a fight, just tell her that her behaviour isn't really good. Sometimes, friends can turn into that. I haven't got an explanation for that. Maybe she just wants to help you, but does it the wrong way. Her intentions are probably good, she just doesn't know that she isn't doing something you don't like. That's my 2 cents! Good Luck! d1whoutf
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    *It's "through the darkness" not to the darkness
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    Hey Anamarie89! I simply loved your poem. It's great! It made me feel really great. d1whoutf
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    Hey katy! I'm sorry to hear that about your mum. I can understand what you are feeling. When the person you love the most dies, the whole world seems to be senseless and life seems useless. It is that strange sadness that fills you and makes you feel like giving up. But wait! Life goes on When I remember someone I really cared that has left, I prefer to think that he/she is in some better place; that he is very happy there and that he is waiting for me. Then, I think about all the good things we spent together and what that person would have wanted me to do in this sad situation or what that person would have wanted me to become. I'm sure your mother would have wanted you to become someone important; someone everyone admires and respects, someone she could be proud of. You must always remember that giving up is not an option. Life has many beautiful things, experiences and emotions you still need to discover. Also, think of everything life has given you; you have a shelter to return to, you have the abbility of expresing your opinions and feelings, and probably the most important one to you: you have been born and have received the protection and love of your mother. As other users posted before, I advice you to search for someone you trust in, and talk, and see that you are not alone. That many people want to help you, that many people love you and that others need you. Here's a poem I read yesterday in this webpage I'm glad you have read my long post. I hope you find your way to the darkness. Keep writing! d1whoutf
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    Hey indee_vidual! I somewhat agree with sweetchickpea; maybe your mother is just trying to protect you. If I were you I would think it very carefully before having my lip pierced. Some of my friends have had their lip pierced and they said it caused much pain in the first week. Then, you have to "look after" it. You know, keep it away from bacteria and all that kind of stuff. as sweetchickpea also said, your appearance really changes, so it would be good to scan a photo of you to the computer and "add" it so you have an idea of how it look likes. However, the decition is yours, whatever you do, think it well. In case you are allowed to, be sure to go to a reliable place: you know, clean equipment and discardable needles to avoid getting unwanted diseases. Good luck d1whoutf
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    I think it's nice; sometimes some physical contact can be nice.
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    Hey! The point is that sometimes I just need someone to be there to be with. I mean, I would be happy I had someone to, at least, talk to when I'm alone, bored or depressed.
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    Hey Everyone! Right now I'm feeling that I'm going to be condemned for the rest of my life to be "girl-less". You see, I just can't make the grade when it's about girls. Most of my feelings have ended in just obsesions. Is it ok for my age? (I'm 14) I think I'm too nervous, I choose wrong ways of catching someone's attention and thereforeeee, I "send" the wrong message to them. Sometimes, when I try to talk to a girl I really like, I try to think about what I'm going to say, but when the moment arrives, I just stand there frozen. Also, It seems that I'm afraid to lose; there have been times that I'm almost decided to go and tell that someone my feelings, but I regret in the last moment, so it ends up in nothing. I wonder if I could stop falling in love, or if I should wait for the other person to move first or if I'll have to be without that someone special to love for the rest of my life. Any help would be really appreciated, D1whoutf
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    Hey Abbeh! I know sometimes life seems really hard to face. I've been through that before: everything seems senseless and sometimes it seems that death is an exit. BUT it is NOT. As some people posted before said, there are many people who love you and want you to be with them: your family, your friends, your boyfriend. You must understand that dieing won't end a problem, but create another. As you also said, people would start blaming themselves. There are always going to be problems in life. We all have them, and we must face them. You also said you were often alone at home; why don't you find some activities for the afternoon. Join some community group or something like that. Keep yourself doing interesting actvities, because when you are bored and alone you will begin thinking about sad stuff. Sometimes, I find it hard to talk to my parents about my problems. When this happens, I search for my friends. I think it's easier for them to understand because they are the same age that you are. It's good for you to write. Try carrying a dairy on. It helps a lot because you let everything come out. Singing has also helped me; I know it might sound a bit weird, but when I'm really depressed, I put my cds on and I sing them out loud. Hope this helps. Cheer up d1whoutf
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    Hey discotew014! I think your letter is very cool. The way you present it can vary; you can even use a plain white sheet with some nice letter. Remember that colours express feelings too! By the way, as far as I'm concerned, valentines day is in february, isn't it? I know it's good to be prepared, but your feelings towards your friend can change a lot in a short period of time. Whatever you do, Good Luck!
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    Hey Amanda! I see you are quite confused and tired about life. Let me tell you that I have just been recently like you have been: nothing else seems to matter, world becomes senseless and boring and it seems that there are no exits. But I made my way out of the dark. I realized that life has many surprises, including bad and good things, but in 99.99% of our lifes, there are more good times than bad ones. Remember that killing yourself would be giving up. Think about someone you admire, (in my case, Albert Einstein or Eminem) they wouldn't be there by now if they had given up. Don't give up your dreams and goals. Remember that you are going to have a bright future. By the way you write, I can tell that you are a wonderful person, and that you are just confused. PLEASE, DON'T SUICIDE. It's good to hear that you care for your mum, there are many other people who love you too, and wouldn't like to see you suffer. Why don't you go and talk to them? By the way, it would be easier for us to help you if you told us what's annoying you. D1whoutf
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    Hey Paleoman! I thin that your girlfriend has probably recovered from what a break up causes. I still think you can be friends with her. What I don't understand is: why do you feel used? I understand that once you are with someone, you spend money and time on that person, but that's up to you. I mean, she didn't plan to take your time or/and money and then leave you, did she? You should move on too. Start a new life, find new friends, and soon, you will possibly find someone that could be better than the girlfriend you had. Hope this helps! D1whoutf
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    Hey heartonwheels! I really feel sorry for the disease you have. But I'm glad to know that you also think about how your girlfriend feels. Does she know that you have this disease? If yes, she has accepted you, hasn't she? If I were you, I would apologize and explain her that I'm going through a hard time But...... your doctor could have been mistaken. Have you tried getting a second opinion? However, your doctor said that your bones are more fragile, but they would not necesarily break. I mean, human bones can resist much weight, pressure, (whatever you want to call it), so, it might cause only a slight weakness. Have you searched if that disease causes death? I'm sure it doesn't. You only have to be more careful and not do things that could harm you bones (that means no football, sorry). That's as far as I understand from your post. Cheer up! Forget all your sadness and think about the many people that love you! Don't think about whatever your sickness is or causes, remember that you only live once! Hope this helps D1whoutf
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    Hey Kantore! You really had a bad day But it doesn't mean your life sucks. We all have bad days like those, luckily they are only few. Remember that life also has happy moments, which are more than days like the one you had. Don't worry bout that. I just had a terrible week (last one), but I won't let it take me down. Enjoy the happy moments of life.
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    Hey eratrya! I agree with previous posters: she needs space just as everyone does. I understand you love her very much, so, I must tell you this. I think love is not just being happy with someone, laugh, hug, kiss.... but if you really love someone, you will be able to give up some things to allow that someone to be happy. If I were you, I would make her understand that I really love her, and I would do all I can to let her be happy. Well, that is just my opinion. The best thing you can do is what you say: Good Luck
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    Hey Trix! YOU WERE MEAN TO PRINCES LULUX. People come to enotalone with questions and look for help, not for a silly comment. If it had been a more serious problem, you could have caused someone to do something incorrect. I think you should apologize to HER.
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    Did you watch Matrix? It's the same thing: what happens if what you know as real is not real? Stop thinking bout that, you won't find the answer, instead, go and read a book.
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    Hey Thehaunted123! As your friend previously said, your time will come. Today's society, influenced by tv and movies, tell us that you must have a gf to be cool from the moment u are 13 years old; isn't that what we see on tv? Things in life happen when u are ready to. However, there are many advices you can read in different sections of this page where u can get tips. My biggest suggestion is: smile and be yourself. Good Luck!
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    Hello da_fish3! As some users said before, ouija is just a game, however, we can't deny that strange things have happened after playing with ouija boards. Then, I agree with Sabena: I think you shouldn't mess with what you don't understand, specially if you know it can be dangerous or harmful. If I were you, I would stop messing with ouija boards. It is just my opinion, you should do what you think it's best
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    Hello natash, I think that you should give him a chance, at least for him to be your friend. Remember that in this world and life anything can happen; what happened to foolish won't neccesarily happen to you. I don't really know how you should act if you meet him, but I think that becoming friends, trying to fix what wrong is and, if wanted to, become good friends again, would be my choice. One important point is that this is my opinion. It's up to you if you do something written here or not. Good luck *pd. sorry if there are any mistakes in my writing.
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    Hello foolish I think that you shouldn't worry 'bout money and those kind of stuff that much. Remember that what matters about a person is a way it is. Personally, most of my friends are wealthy, and I'm not poor, but I haven't got some things they have. Instead, I am better than they are in some stuff. In my opinion, you should think about those many things you have that not even the richest have. If your b/f really loves you, even if you haven't got that much money and he knows that, you should be so worried. You also said that you were afraid of his parents meeting your father; I believe that you should tell them in a sensible way, after you know his parents better and they know that you are a good person, that you father has got some problems and isn't fine at the moment. Remember that this is my point of view. It's my opinion, so it's up to you if you do something I wrote or not. Good Luck!
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    Well, love for me is a feeling that makes you ignore your other senses and start doing foolish things. You start watching the person you are in love with differently, and you only see her; no matter what other people say or tell you. You don't think in anything. It is like a drug. You become addicted. However, life would be boring withouth it.
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