Ash55

Wow, thanks guys. And to Tehshyguy, yeah, I don't know how well that would work out, but I found it pretty amusing. But to all, thanks!

Hi! Well, I have a bit of a problem. My friend is trying to live through me. I didn't realize it was a real problem until I noticed that she would try to hook me up with the guys that she knew. And even liked. It got really bad this year when, at school, there was a guy that I liked. She didn't know him personally, just who he was. So the guy and I begin to develope somewhat of a relationship(friend wise). It was all okay. Then when the guy and I would argue, or when he would hurt my feelings, she would defend him. It seemed off and I didn't know why she would do that. Then she began talking to him about me and such whenever she would see him. She even talked to him about a date we went on. Saying that I had the most amazing time, and stuff...when really I didn't. And she knew that. It seems as if she is trying to control my life. I need help! She is my bestfriend and I love her....but I mean enough is enough. When I confronted her about it awhile ago, we just ended up fighting and nothing got solved. Another thing, I'm bestfriends with her little sister too and she has out and out told me that she is trying to replace her. Which is a bit much. So any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Thanks for all of your help guys! I really appreciate it and I will take all of it to heart. I feel a bit better all ready! Thanks!

Hi, I've been reading up on a few posts and it sounds as if this is the place to get some good advice and to let some pent up emotions out...so here goes nothing. See, I was seeing this guy and we were extremely close. Then all of a sudden it was like he died. He stopped calling and didn't return any of my calls. I was devastated. I cried constantly and always wondered what I must have done wrong. I eventually told myself to just replace him, to go through the motions and eventually it'll be real. So I met a new guy, although I couldn't stop thinking of or missing the other guy. Well, then one day he called. He told me that he missed me and that he was just so busy and that he couldn't call because he got in major trouble for sneaking out and totaling his car. So I told him what happened and he gave me a giant guilt trip and said that we'd never be together again. It was a difficult relationship to begin with(he lived 40 min. away). So I asked him if we could just "try" to fix things. He said only if I broke up with the other guy. So I did, instantly. Then we began talking again, and we decided to get back together. He was the best guy ever and I was completely in love. Then it happened again. He was gone. disappeared in thin air. I still get the occasional call about one a month. But I still miss him and I haven't been able to move on. I still read his e-mails, and I sleep with his old shirt every night. Basically, I want to get over him. I want to have fun. So if anyone has advice I'm more than happy to hear it. Thanks!