Sweets4u42

Well, my parents got divorced last May, a little less than a year and a half ago. Both of them have found someone new. Since June, my mom has made me go to a psychotherapist because she thought that i wasn't telling her everything and i was keeping all my feelings in. While there, it was discovered that i had a type of bipolar disorder, which apparently runs in the family. I'm also in a long term relationship. And although it might now seem like much, everything is just hitting so hard right now. Both my parents are trying to encorporate their new partners into my life. I didn't mind it at first, but now, it just adds on to the other pressures in my life. With my boyfriend; I've been trying to deal with my disorder, and I don't think he sees how much it affects me. He also denies that i have it, which you would guess doesn't help. I don't feel like i have a grip on anything in my life. My boyfriend and my school sport are the two driving forces that keep me from freaking out and ending it all. Just a little bit of rambling, and it probably won't do much good, but I just wanted to get it out there and off my chest. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I can see from both points of view, but i do think that she is being a little harsh saying she hates you and whatnot. Hey..that's a female for ya

Just make sure it doesn't happen too much

Haha thanks..guess thats a big ego boost

I definitely think she still has feelings for you, and when she brings up her new boyfriend, she is trying ot make you really jealous, and just hurt you even more. I wouldn't let it get to you, although she may seem nice, think9ing about it too much will jsut give you a headache

Well I know the end can be a bit un-nerving, but eventually you will find someone else, and although you're feelings may inger for a little bit, it will eventaully get better.

Ok..so..Isn't it try that guys masterbate even more when their actually IN a relationship!? My boyfriend says he hasn't masturbated in a long time, and whenever he gets horny when i'm away, he never does anything 'with' himself; that he'll wait for me. Is that unnormal? I guess I'm just looking for guys who explain to me lol.

I really like it..it actually turns me more on too!

Yes, i love it. Once, when a guy first kissed me, he put his hand on my cheek, and slowly drew my face up to his, and it was heavenly. It was what make me fall for him. As with my hair, it doesn't really matter, any contact i think is good..unless the girl tell you to stop lol

ya i like that song

I think you should tell her almost everything that you wrote above. Such as how you want to re-build bridges and that you care about her and want to be with her, its the only direct and honest truth.

I agree with both the two above, but still, don't do anything to quickly..i tmight turn out that you had nothing to worry about in the end

Well...yes, girls are definitely emotional, and some just seem to be that way, always pretending like they are always right. If this bothers you, i would DEFINITELY talk with her about it. I did the same thing with my boyfriend, and every time he tries to make me feel bad, I always bring it up, telling him that it feels like he's trying to blame me and everything, and he usually sees it and were still working it out..i hope that helped

well..i dont think you sure worry about making it too obvious.. if you want her to remember you...then make it obvious and hopefully she wont remember you for just that, but still, try ot make it genuine

I agree...also, try not to be too super-ego, and try to talk about her most of the time, like you are genuinly interested. if she asks about you, give a short answer, but try to realte everything to her

does anyone have any advice on shaving...''down there''? i've been doing it for a few times..but does anyone recommend a product or routine that they use more than another? thanks

I've posted on here a few times on such topics of suicide, depression, and cutting. Well, I talk with my boyfriend about all of them, because he is the only one i am comforatable talking about it with. But even as we discuss it, it still feels like I'm only letting out a fraction, and no matter how hard i try to explain it, it never feels like everything comes out. It just feels like there is a big black chunk of sadness in me. I want to be able to open up and talk with him and just get everything out once and for all. Got any ideas?

I dunno.. i liked some of the reasons, the points abotu God in the beginning were specific for only some people, but the general reasons are insightful. ALl in all, it was good, but I don't think that words on a screen are enough.

I definitely don't think that he wants the relationship to be over, and that the incident at the party was trulty a mistake. I don't think he would've strung you along, and especially since he said he would come down to see you soon. IF he doesn't come down, assuming it's because he doesn't want to be with you is not a good path; it's if he doesn't call to say he's not coming or if he doesn't give you a reason why then you want to be concerned. There could be things that he really can't get around, and though I don't know the rest of the story, I don't think that you guys are going to end

Suicide is a very big thing, please try not to hurt yourself more than you deserve. Take a look around these forums, there is a lot of help here, and a lot of these people helped me from my suicidal state too. PM if you want to talk about it, I'm always here to help.

If this is continually happenening, then it might just be the kind of girl you are trying to approach. For example, the blonde at the bar with overdone makeup and tight clothes might not be as approachable as the well-dressed conservative girl who looks a little lonely (a little overdramatic but you get my point). Some girls like to just impress their friends because they can be shallow like that, make themselves look better. If you try going for a girl who is not with her friend(s), then you might not loose as much self confidence if she says no (why should she?); she will not be trying to impress anyone, and she won't have anyone to turn to afterwards. Just my advice..

thanks for backing me up

Let's see...do you know what youre doing to ''mess'' the relationship up? (i.e. always fighting or arguing, etc. )or does it always just seem to end

Hi..a woman's reply on the topic now.. Definitely what the guys are saying is true...try to be yourself. But i thinkg a big thing it to definitely NOT try to make up things to make youreself sound better. Its stupid..and I hate when guys says things that make them appear lavish and rich and just so awesome. If it's true, well, their a jerk for trying to make themselves sound better. and if theyre lies, well, if she finds out then you'll just be CONSIDERED a jerk anyway (i'm sorry for the meanness) just trying to give a real girls perspective on having it done

I like it..it probably describes what a lot of people are feeling out there..(myself included) and i think it's really meaningful if you can relate to it.