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  1. Finzsoftie
    Do you know why you are feeling like this? WHat were the events to lead u up to feeling this way? What happened? Pm if you wanna chat
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    OK, but what does he feel? Can you please give us a bit more background on the situation!
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    Have you ever seen my best friend's wedding. When you are in love with a person, you want to tell them right then and there, you cherish them.......... and you dont want to let go. Now what I can gather from your story, maybe you are only thinking that you are in love with him, you know sometimes we imagine (trust me this happens to about 99% of girls and guys) that we love the person. Have you thought that maybe if you's get back together and then one day you will realise, you achieved what you set out for, got him back........ and that was the whole infatuation of the matter? What do you reckon? PM if you wish
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    I think that you should go out with her, and just trying it out. Not for every date you need a car. You can apologise and meet her somewhere, I know it'snot the most romantic thing to do, however she should understand the situation about your car being in the shop. You see the thing is that if you dont go out with the girl, and just keep wondering and wondering, you are going to get into this 'confused circle'. You have to set all of this straight. But as from what I can tell by what you've written..... i think she likes ya If you wana chat PM me
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    Hey there, There is a lot of times when ex's of long periods of time do get back together, and on the other hand there are numerous occasions when they dont. It sounds that the both of you have broken up for a reason, and it has already been 4 months. Sometimes girls and guys start dating so soon after the relationship just because they want to get over their partner, or because they want to try new things out, and you have to keep in mind that 19 and 21 is pretty young. Some people are more aware of their feelings than others as well..... this is why it takes longer to get over someone after a break up! But you got to see it as well..... you have to understand the reasons why you broke up. All you can do now is take care of you, NUMBER ONE! If you want to chat some more PM me
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    Hey, I think you should go to the prom with someone else. 3 months is a damn long time to wait for someone, and for you to keep holding her in mind. Fill your mind up with somebody else, remember the saying - if you love soemthing let it go, if it loves you it will come back. You cant force someone to go out with you, and if you keep on pursuing her then she might get a bit freaked out. If you want to chat PM me.
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    Hey there, How long have you two been friends for? I think that he said this to you cause he values your friendship too much. In my language we have this saying "Love is so cruel, you can even fall in love with a goat" Dont beat yourself about it. If you think it will be easier for you to end the friendship then do so.......... but look out for yourself, remember you are number one and you always have complete control of yourself. If you want to chat PM me
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    Hey, Maybe it's not about lowering your standards, its thinking of how you are going to feel about it. And one of the other things, is are you going to have the respect for the girl, and if you two get together will that later on be a problem. Personally, i dont like to lower my standards but if I truly love/like a person, I would do it, if I had enough faith in the person I would do it but stick by it and dont regret it later. Ask yourself, what do you like her for...............? If you wanna chat PM me
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    I think you should just give her some time, give her space....... maybe she will come around....
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    Katie, Im sorry to hear about this, Cheating is a horrible factor and happens with a lot of people. I think that you however should ask yourself, if You didnt find him there, would he have told you that this happened? Even if he didnt have hickies on his neck.... would he have let you knwo that this is what has been going on??!?!?!? Through my experience, from the first time that my ex cheated on me, he didnt tell me but i found out, when i confronted him he denied it and said, how could he when I am the best thing that happened to him. I waited a week or so with him pleading for another chance, well.... the chance came..... then a second chance came..... then he just thought that he could do it, and get away with it..... there are only a limited amount of people that regret it and stay faithful to the person who let them cheat on them...... so...... you know be careful.... if you need anything or wanna chat more please private message me. All the best, and keep smiling and shining...... Oh and by the way...... even when you are drunk you still know what you are doing and have some sort of control over your body!!!!! Alcohol, drugs is not an excuse for cheating.....!
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    Hey there, you should talk more to this girl and find out what she really wants. You dont want to be stuck in a love triangle! As for the ex boyfriend you have to believe and trust this girl that there is no point and stuff. Find out why they broke up in the first place. ....... why and what were his reasons for not being around for the kids.. PM me if you wanna elaborate
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    I think your friend is right, try to find some common grounds and hang out with him and his friends. Try to be around him, so he notices you! Wave Hi, come up to him later on and say hey you are in one of my classes, did you do this..... homework..... You know MAKE SURE HE NOTICES YOU AND KNOWS THAT YOU ARE AROUND!
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    Hey, Hope you are doing a little bit better. I just wanted to know, he has already been with a few girls, why are you his last choice? And..... if you want to figure everything out, why are you taking your new best friend along? PM if you wanna chat more!
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    I think that this just proves to you what your relaitonship meant to him. Look how dare he, not respect you so much after you spent a year with him, you know, who is he to do something like that to you? Not fair! Why you want him back after he already touched somebody else, why would you want to be with someone that does not respect himself? I understand that you feel all of this inside, but dont you think it's not reasonable to just try to move on. Maybe its not him that you are wanting right now, maybe it's just that place of comfort that you felt when you were with him. But just think about it a different way - the person you fell in love with, does not exist anymore. He has been with someone else, he betrayed your trust. If you want PM me!
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    Hi JessieLea, Breakups are not easy! They never are, and in most cases they hurt one person more than they hurt the other. However, do you really want to be with someone who wants to experience the "college thing". I know that you are feel sad now, but just think, he is younger than you. When he comes to his senses and outdid his stupid college thing and hang out with his friends and do everything he has to do then he will come back to you. And why in the world do you want to be the second choice for somebody? There is something that I realised from a recent break up ... I realised that only TWO people can make a relationship work, and if someone doesnt want to be with me then it's absolutely their loss! I dont need to prove to them how great our relationships was, because trust me Jess, one day sooner or later they will lie in bed and it will eat them! If you know what i mean. If you want to chat more, please pm me!
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    I am sooo sorry to hear about what happened? Some peoples just dont deserve our presense. I know what you are going through I went through this thing for a while now, but im getting over it! Just think that if you feel like its the end of the world, think to yourself that you have a choice right here, right now right this second. You have a choice to get up and get this out of your system, or you have the choice to sit and elaborate this situation. I can give you some good ideas about getting your self confidence back. PM me if you wanna carry on talking!
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    WHy did you and your best friend break when together? Do you think that he will be all right with that? When did you guys break up? Can you evaluate the story a bit more plz. PM me if you want!
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    Guys my bf and me broke up now over a week ago, i still love him but i cant do anything as for different reasons (see my earlier posts), how do I make him realise that I love him and to come back to me? Does this ever work?
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    WHY WOULD YOU BE TREATED AS SECOND CHOICE? YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT! Pm if you want
  20. Finzsoftie
    GIVE HER TIME You have to find out her reasons for wanting space and a break, and then you can judge from there. PM me if you want
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    Hey there, I think that you should just give him time, Patience is a virtue! Patience gets you where you want to go! Trust me, dont push anything, if it was meant to happen it will. If you want PM me we can chat more about it!
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    I think you should just speak to your mom and tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel about the entire thing. DOnt lock her out, and dont build hate and anger inside of yourself. PM me if you wish!
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    I say if you love her that much, and think she loves you back power through like the guy doesnt exist. In the end even if you loose you can say you gave it your full shot. PM me if you want!
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    Empty soul you are great! Wowo, that's nice can you pm it to me PLZ PLZ PLZ!!!!
  25. Finzsoftie
    Look, break ups hurt soooooooooooo damn much, trust me I know! Its hard, but what you got to do now is consentrate on yourself. Go to the mall and buy yourself a nice mask you know pop it on tonight, and just relax. Break ups are hard, and believe that with every person that we meet we learn something from. SOme break up healing processes take a year, my one took me 2 years before i fell in love with someone else, and I am just recovering from it now. Take time out and just say to yourself, that what you had is in the past. And you have to come to the terms that it has ended. If you wanna chat, PM ME!
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