yomama123

Well, that's a tough situation to be in. I've been there, only reverse. I liked my guy friend a LOT, but he was totally obsessed with this other girl. I was SO jealous, but I comforted him when he was depressed about the girl rejecting him, and he ended up liking me instead. In your situation, since you don't know if she really likes this guy a bunch, wait it out. You could bring it up while chatting with her, just like "So, who's this guy you're so interested in..." etc, without making it too obvious. I wish you the best of luck and do what your heart tells you because I've also had the opposite happen where friendships have been destroyed because of bad timing and stuff, but just go with the flow. Do what YOU feel is right and talking to her other girl friends might not be such a bad idea.

Ok, so I liked this guy for about 2 years and we dated on and off. He's still one of my really good friends and I can't help but remember our good times when we were in a relationship. We tell eachother EVERYTHING, so I told him that I liked one of his friends, who happens to be the person my best friend likes (I didn't know that until she told me she did after I told her that I liked him.) Someone (probably my ex) told the guy that 2 people like him, and I think he has a pretty good idea that it is me and my friend. His brother said that he thinks he likes me, but the problem with going out with him would be A. I couldn't do that to my friend. B. Memories from my ex are still in my head and i'm afraid I may still like him. C. There's not a really strong connection between us--yet, see that could take time. I guess I really feel like since me and my ex have such a strong connection that i'll never form one like it again. I know I don't have anything to worry about yet, but I wanna tell my ex how I feel about the whole situation, cuz I really think he could help somehow, even though he's most likely moved on from me. If the guy asked me out, what should I do???

Recently I met my friend's brother and got a crush on him after talking to him for awhile. He's nice, funny, sweet, and despite what my friends say I think he's cute. Just an all around good guy. He lives pretty far away so I don't get to see him very often. He came to visit the other day and I was really excited! He and my friends and I hung out and he talked to all of them a lot except me. He seemed really annoyed by me and I tried to hint that I sorta liked him, but he didn't seemed real interested in talking to me at all. I just feel really embarrassed now as well as confused about what to do. His sister is more or less trying to help me out and include me in her and his plans, but it's really awkward. My other friend says that it's really too soon to tell and that there's a chance that he might like me, but I think I might give up and not worry about the crush. What should I do???

Ok, I'm in a really confusing situation. I have the BIGGEST crush on this guy, and I found out that he liked me, BUT he stopped cuz he didn't think I liked him in that way. It really made me mad because I don't know why he thought that, probably cuz he's 2 years older and i'm a shy person and that I didn't know he liked me. What should I say to him? Should I tell him that I think it's stupid he didn't think I like him and that I still do? But what if he really doesn't like me anymore? Help please!