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PRSOV

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  1. Kita, As you can see she is having problems dealing with anything sexual right now without conselling. Even with conselling it is going to be very difficult for her to overcome these issues. Her self esteem would be damaged and images/memories/flashbacks will occur until she learns how to deal with her problems in the correct manner. What happened to her is awful but she must seek some sort of proffessional counselling, because if she doesn't these problems will get worse and worse as she gets older.
  2. Hey there celticghirl, go you! Just like in the PM's hehe... Sign of fate? Possibly?.. Maybe it was just destiny... How glad are you now that you saw sense and never took that final step of ending your own precious life, and mine would be less fulfilling because I wouldn't have someone to make me laugh all the time via text in all the time I spend on here hehe. You make me totally addicted huh? I think it was a sign from God that you were meant to take down your ex who treated you so badly. Look who's talking now huh? Kick him in the nuts girl. Previously I truly felt for you, but I don't understand what it is like to go through something like that, of course I imagine it would be devestating. You know i'm surprised your boyfriend never broke one of his limbs, because I know plenty of guys that would, what a gutless piece of crap to treat a way that your ex did. You have risen up to him and made so much of a better life for yourself and your future is so bright and your possibilities are endless, and you have become a totally cool chick. I love you and I think your awesome Take care, talk soon. PR
  3. I FULLY concur with the previous posters, Please do not do it, you will only make things awkward for yourself. Trust me please!..
  4. Why do you care about what others would think, seeing as you really like him right? I still think you should sit on it a little longer before making any moves, six days isn't very long to get to know someone enough to judge whether they are right for a relationship. Keep cool, it will work out if it's meant to be. PR
  5. Stay doing what you are doing for a while... He will get sick of the other girl sooner or later. How long have you known this guy?
  6. I do not have any understanding of why you are dreaming about this man. I hope these links provide you with some valuable information though. link removed link removed Hope this helps you, PR
  7. I could post links but I think it would be inappropriate and would breach forum guidelines.
  8. Isn't that for masturbation only?.. I thought he meant sex...
  9. My tip is to talk about it together as a couple out of the bedroom first so you can figure out how you both feel etc. Rather than making any decisions based on hormones in the bedroom. I think you will feel a lot more comfortable when it happens this way too.
  10. I can see your point of view, you really like her... but if she is being like this now, if you get emotionally involved you are only setting yourself up for failure and hurting yourself. Give her some time, If and when she sorts out her feelings and doesn't get back together with her ex then reasses the situation then... but only then! PR
  11. Keep doing what you stood by... I don't think she could hold a relationship under those circumstances. I would answer one more time, but be firm in how you feel. PR
  12. I agree, you don't want to get involved with someone who can't be committed towards you. Don't let her treat you like this... It isn't healthy in the long run. You did the right thing, maybe she just aint meant for you... PR
  13. PRSOV

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    That is an interesting statement you have brought up. In my own opinion time translates to experience, experience that we can adapt to new situations in life. No two events are the same, we are shown how to do it once, the second time we have to use our intelligence and the fundamentals of experience in the past to make the correct decision the second time around. This is so true in relationships, what values and identities we learn from one relationship we carry on into the next.
  14. Thank you everyone for your replies, I am feeling much better now... I did the boiling water with the towel thing, but it got a little too hot after a while althought it did clear my sinuses for a few hours. Codrel Original is what I went with from the pharmacist, day and night. Day tablets are non drowsy and night obviously make you a little drowsy to help you sleep better. After taking two of the day tablets my sore throat had almost completely disapeared and what nose had somewhat cleaned up even though it is still a little runny. I have also been taking in lots and lots of water, nothing but water actually... except one can of coke when I was feeling a bit better. The honey and lemon sounds good I will try that before I go to bed early tonight. Once again thank you everyone for you replies, much appreciated! PR
  15. Hi all, Overnight I have come down with the flu real bad. I got minimal sleep, my throat is so sore it feels like sandpaper and my nose is so blocked I don't think even a jackhammer could do anything. I will try and rest as much as I can today, and also going down to the pharmacy to get some drugs. Does anyone else have any home remedies on how to beat the blues PR
  16. Cannot agree more...
  17. I think too many people use NC as a tool of trying to get their ex back rather than focusing on healing themselves and moving on, I myself have been guilty of that at times too. Fair enough if you can work things out later on, then think about that later on when you are emotionally more intelligent rather than making decisions with your heart and not your brain. Good luck I hope you find yourself again, you are worth that. PR
  18. Kita, Very touching poem, I really feel for you. It makes me appreciate what I have got and not to take them for granted. My thoughts are with you. PR
  19. That's an awesome craft of writing bent ... Shame I can't say the same for your avatar... it just freaks me out Jk, your an awesome bloke... Pe Ar Es Oo Ve
  20. I don't think you should do that, it is a little immature and if you do he will know you are still thinking about him... and it would kind of spell jealousy to me. You are stronger than that, don't lower yourself to his level. PR
  21. 1. I have loved once... I don't know about loving again, it's a big question! 2. True love more than once... definitely! 3. Yes, I believe you can love someone who doesn't love you, I believe it means you cannot be in love with them 4. There are many of "the one's" for us, but when we find one of them, we think they are a one of a kind. 5. I don't think you can place an age on love, you can definitely never be too old to love... 6. True love last for enternity, not forever! True love is so deep and meaningful it goes beyond description or words. 7. In my own opinion love is when you only want to be with that one person, you find yourself thinking about them all the time, you love every part of them, physically mentally and emotionally. PR
  22. You have made the right decision, now stick to it! As ALSS if he does it once, he is likely to do it again. Which is something you shouldn't even have to deal with once. What a jerk, if he cared about you he would not do this. Be strong, you have the power now... PR
  23. Irishman, You acted well, you did the right thing and didn't let her get to you which is obviously what she wanted. May I ask why do you think she did this? Or does she live in the same apartment block as you? PR
  24. Very touching poem... Did you sort out everything with your gf regarding the drugs? PR
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