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No! definitely not... What have you got to lose? Nothing Are you saying the girl you are interested in asking on another date has another guy in her sights or the other girl you were thinking about going for? PR

I don't agree, people make mistakes because of their own insecurities. Even when they think they finally know what they want from their partner... or ex

Why did you do that? Your poems are great... Did you find they were holding down your feelings? PR

Kita, Nice poem! I have seen quite a few of your poems you have posted before! Are you keeping like a notebook or somekind where you keep all your work? PR

Hi proman23, What was the break up like and why did you guys part in the first place?

That might be digging up something he didn't want to get into... If he was close to your family it would only he normal for him to be concerned about your father, right? PR

Bent, I have taken a liking to futurama lately, it's played quite a bit on the fox 8 channel. Avatars need to be changed periodically. Love yours too, your like a father figure. PRSOV

Dako, She had an abusive past, and between being sexually assaulted and meeting me she let a lot of guys use her for sex because she had such a low self-esteem... which she still has. But because I was so different and was more focused on wanting a relationship I don't think she could handle it... I was just too different to what she was use to. I would love to get back with her, I really really do... there isn't anyone else I would rather be with, but I have tried everything to help her through this, I just can't seem to though... She just has too many problems in the past that I just cannot help her with. I am trying to do NC now...

IATBFMC, He just wouldn't be able to send a text through to her cellphone. It would just display the error message the same as when you are trying to send a text when you have no reception available. PRSOV

"The Puberty Book" PDHPE - Personal Development Health and Physical Education, high school theory. I remember we could never stop laughing at the cartoon videos, highly entertaining. Ahh the good ole days of laughing at the word vagina PRSOV

I would have to say he is probably concerned about your family... How close were the two of you?

That is powerfully graphic... It is good but it doesn't stop it from sending a chill down my spine. Never take it for granted. PR

It's just really easy to read, understand and follow... Seeing as NC is such a fundamental tool on the forum this should be made permanent link up the top so new people can understand it more easily as well as just having it explained to them. PR

Check with your cell phone company what your options are... Some allow certain selected phone numbers to be blocked if you deem they are harassing unecessarily... Otherwise your going to have to stake it out and just ignore his texts and reject his calls. Good luck, PR

Why don't you just ignore his messages, and if you must respond... be polite, don't reduce yourself down to his level. You don't have to be deliberately mean to him.

That is so good, thank you for sharing... It's like a mind map for NC... haha awesome!

As some of you may know my story from past threads. I now feel somewhat free from any emotional pain now from my ex. I haven't spoken to her in about a week, the last few times she has called I have used willpower and stopped myself from answering the phone... talking to her is only going to cause problems for me, and I know if there is any more messing around with her it will interfere with my studies. Sometimes that makes me feel good because I feel like I have more control, not like an upper hand thing... It just shows that she still misses me. My ex was everything I ever wanted in terms of a partner, I actually saw myself being totally 'committed' to her in terms of having a relationship where I had never ever felt this way before in any of my previous relationships. I always thought she was absolutely gorgeous/beautiful and I could not find one flaw with her body, it was amazing to me, I never wanted to be with anyone else. She has the most perfect body, I know she thought she was fat and ugly... I had totally opposite opinion I even woke up the morning fantasizing about her, but it wasn't like the typical type... I was just thinking "Oh my god, there is not one part of her body than I can fault, she is just amazingly beautiful", then I woke up. Due to differences we separated a few months ago, but she still tries to maintain contact, I do not. I met up with my best friend on Friday afternoon for lunch, we caught up on a lot of things... he mentioned her and asked me about her because the last time we hung out I was still dating her at the time. He has spoken to her once or twice in the last month or two, he said not to give up on her after everything I went through to be with her because she told him that she is still in love with me ... So I am just letting her go for now... until she sorts out her own issues, then maybe would there be a chance for us to work things out and be together again. The root of my problem is this, she was just such a stunner... great body, great eyes, just really sexy... I guess now I am being a bit shallow when I think about meeting new girls. I haven't been out since we were dating to meet women but we are going out for a big night this Saturday for beer and I guess the other guys will be chasing girls. I am having problems, I don't want to see other women unless I would say they are at least as attractive as her... which is just so hard. I have been working on myself and trying to move on her for so long, now I am finally there I am just having problems meeting new girls because of these issues. Do you think it is possible that I am still not over her? It would seem a bit drastic... or maybe I am just obssessed with her? By now I should be well and truly over what ever happened between us... even though she was the most special person to me. It has been about four months since we separated... She still calls to say she misses me, she loves me and try to patch things up and get back together as a couple. Please help! PRSOV

You want me to post more bender? Do you think they are worthy of that?

Do you think I should make it longer?

Sometimes a shorter poem is better than a long one... Like I thought it would be romantic to write it down on a piece of paper and give it to your love one when your intimate. Oh I don't know LoL

I know the feeling pal, but I decided to part with that feeling know it was the best thing in the end. It's the only way to separate your head from your heart sometimes... PR

A new memory is made each and every day, I only want to make them with you, and share them along the way, No matter what happens in life you know I will be here, to help you wish on a shooting star, and catch a silent tear.

Why do you want him to know you can't go without sex? There's nothing wrong with sex... why not just spend the next few times you are together being intimate - kissing, cuddling... holding each other. Actually it would be interesting if you could keep a diary about that kind of thing, you will slowly go insane hehe! Man I don't think I could go a day doing that... Good luck! PR

Remember the thread that went of forever about it? PR

I avoid myspace altogether...