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    There are lots of over the counter cosmetics that can help you. If you are going au naturale try putting tea bags on your eyes for twenty minutes a night. Cumcumbers can also reduce puffiness. Good luck!
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    Are you sure she's got an eating disorder?????? Maybe I'm missing something here, but why exactly do you think she has an eating disorder? Because she lost a lot of weight quickly and she's eating less? That's not always the sign of an eating disorder. Be careful. I would say unless you see her puking up her food or looking really unhealthy(ie bones sticking out, etc.) you may want to get a second opinion. I'm a nutritionist and according to standards, a woman at 5'6" at size 2-4 is perfectly normal. Granted you know the situation better than I do, I would just say to be careful. But I have had clients lose weight quickly and change eating habits, it is possible to do in a healthy manner. Get all the facts before you make a speech, and ask her first.
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    There is a huge chance each and every time. Which is why you should always use protection if you are not ready for a child. You can get preganant from having sex once. Even if you are protected, you still have a chance of getting pregnant. I would ask him to wear protection for your own safety.
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    Worst: That's a nice shirt, it would look great with my floor. Best: Do you believe in the hereafter? Then you know what I'm here after.
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    Ask her out, she's clearly flirting with you.
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    I might try to invite her out with a group of friends somewhere. That way you two can chat and get to know each other and not have to have the pressure of "dating" yet.
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    You are not alone. I get embarrased in public restrooms as well. But keep in mind, people do know where they are. It's a bathroom, people should expect to hear particular sounds. Hey no one can see you and chances are if someone is out of a stall before you, you won't ever see them again. So relax and pee free!
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    I really don't think weight has anything to do with it. I myself am very thin and I didn't have a serious bf until I was 20. I had some of my own issues I had to deal with before I could enter a real relationship. Self confidence seems to be an issue for you. People do pick up on what messages you send out. Some guys might like you but might be afraid to enter a relationship with someone who seems to lack confidence in herself. Don't be in such a rush to enter a relationship. Good things happen when you least expect them. Until then, learn to love yourself.
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    You are perfectly normal to always find others attractive. If you desire a relationship with others all the time, you may not be in the best relationship. But being attracted to others is in our biology.
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    I think everyone has multiple soul mates. Not all soulmates are romantically involved though.
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    I would say to show real interest in her as a person, this will set you apart from those that just are attracted to her physically. It will show that you care and find her interesting.
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    Always say what really turns you on, a person will usually comply. Also ask what really turns him on, thent ogether you shoudl really create some fireworks.
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    Practice on your wrist. Other than that, just relax and it will come naturally.
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    In terms of quick generic answers, I would say: Movies, Music, Sports, Media, family, holidays, etc.
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    The best thing to do is give her time. Let her think about what she wants. In the meantime, don't worry, have fun, and let whatever happens happen.
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    I'd say go for it with Amy. Forget about Brad! He's getting married! So he has absolutely no right to act like you and Amy can't be together. Amy is not his fiance! He does not "own" her nor does he have any right to tell you who you can and can't date. If Brad is really that upset about you and Amy seeing each other, then he probably should not be getting married. This may seem weird but I would flat out ask Brad how he feels about Amy. Why did he choose her to cheat on his fiance with? Why did she go along with it? You could say something along the lines of, " I know you are protective of Amy as a friend, but I'd really like to take her out and see where it goes." If he reacts badly, remind him that he's getting married and has no claim to Amy romantically. Bottom line: If you and Amy like each other, you should give it a try. Brad has chosen to get married, his choice, end of story. Good luck.
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    I am so sorry. That's horrible. Most of the time, a long term relationship such as the one you were in does not end that quickly unless another person is involved. The "needs space" thing is often a common cover up excuse for "there's somone else I like". But if he is treating you this badly after the break up, then he is really not worth your time and energy. He's clearly not losing any sleep over it, so why should you? My advice- you're single now-so celebrate. Treat yourself. Dress up, go out, have fun, meet new people. There are plenty of men out there who will see all the worth and beauty in you. And I'll bet that you will meet someone who will treat you like a princess and that is what you deserve. Don't waste time on people who make you feel badly. Go enjoy life. Best of luck
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    Sorry to say it, but you need to be honest and tell him how you feel. It might hurt his feelings, it is sometimes unavoidable. But if he really is annoying you that much, tell him politely to back off. If he won't, that is probably an indicator that he has a crush on you. If you are not interested, then you definitely need to say goodbye to that relationship until you are single or with someone who doesn't mind you having male friends.
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    My question for you is why do you want a child so badly? Is it the desire to be pregnant? The desire for a family? The desire to just have a baby around? You say you've wanted a child for eight years now. That's a long time. If you are that anxious, why don't you just adopt a child? You don't need a man for that. You say that the man you are with wants children, it certainly doesn't sound like it. If he is consistently making you wait, then you might need to have a serious talk about what you both want in a relationship and what is important to you. If he won't even hear you out, then I don't think this is a man with whom you could raise children anyway. Sweetie, you're only 28, that's not so old. My mother was 39 when she had me. Also, I think you should carefully reflect on what it is that makes you want a child so much. Maybe you'll discover that there's more there than what meets the eye.
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    The only way I can think that she does not know you like her romantically is if you never said it was "date" that you went on. If you were both fully aware that you were on a date, then she probably realizes that you have romantic feelings for her. Sometimes people expect too big of a reaction on dates. She must like you, or she would not have agreed to go out with you again. Women try to be careful, just like men do, not to put their heart on the line on a first date. She may not know what to say, she may be nervous or just have butterflies in her stomach. I would suggest that the next time you go out that you go somewhere that is romantic. Maybe some dinner and dancing? Or walking by a moonlight creek. Be creative. Make romantic gestures, and if she likes them, she will probably respond. If she does not like them, and does just want to be friends, it will probably become apparent by her reactions. If all else fails, just tell her how you feel and then ask her how she feels.
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    I was in your situaiton at one time. I was 17, he was 29. I don't like to compare people but let me just say that while I did enjoy the attention and the "fun stuff" it later on became apparent why he really wanted to see me. I ended up being hurt both physically and emotionally. I felt stupid, and I was, like you, very mature for my age. I know it sounds harsh and annoying when people tell you to be careful, but looking back on my own situation now, those people were right. Since you're not yet 18, please be careful sweetie. Things can get ugly. Being mature, it is easy to like older people. And it attracts older people when they see someone young who is so mature. But in your case, you may want to step back, examine the situation, and maybe try to a have a relationship after you're of age. If he really likes you as much as he claims, he will wait. Especially becuase he needs to understand that unitl you're 18, he could get into serious trouble.
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    Never let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you want. If you really love this man, that's all that matters. You are of age, so who cares about the difference? Age is only a state of mind. As long as you can agree upon how to live and neither of you is a hinderence to the other, then I say go for it. I'd say to be careful about the workplace situation. That can become a sticky issue if you're not careful. Good luck
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    Well I have known him for a while, we just started dating recently. We've had feelings for each other for a long time now, at first the age gap was a bit of a concern. But after realizing how strong our feelings for each other really were, we decided that it does not really matter; so then we started dating. It wasn't an instantaneous thing.(this all happened over about eight months time) We're not trying to rush anything, I just met his kids because they are part of his life. As far as my parents go, they'd have no argument about falling in love quickly as they themselves got married after knowing each other for only three months. But that is not my concern, my concern is that they may be too judgemental of him just because he's older.
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    I need some advice. I just started a new relationship with an incredible man. I just fell madly in love with him as he did with me. I'm 23, he's 37. He's also divorced with two children. The age difference does not really bother either of us and I've also met and adore his kids. And they both love me as well. The problem is telling my parents. I don't know how they are going to react. I really love this man and have absolutely no intention to give him up. I'm worried that they will freak out and say that he is just looking for someone to help him take care of his children(which is not the case) How can I tell them without them trying to dissuade me from having a relationship with him?
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