SkyFire

I STRONGLY suggest getting an abortion. This kid will mess up your life. Next time, wisen up and use a condom.

First of all, I am surprised by the amount of questions about girls on these forums. So this inspired me to post a thread about it, instead of answering each question. Now, hear this: "MY GF SAYS SHE LOVES ME BUT SHE GOES OUT WITH ANOTHER DUDE". I see things like this all the time. DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS! ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!!! And this not only goes for girls, but people in general. If you REALLY want to find out another person's intentions, look at their actions. If she says she loves you but she cheats on you the next day, SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!! It doesent matter how good of a friend or a girlfriend someone is, ALWAYS look at their actions, not at their words. I CANNOT EXPRESS HOW IMPORTANT THIS PART IS!!! on EX Girlfriends-Boyfriends She broke up. THATS IT!!! ITS OVER!!! They are called Exes for a reason. Once you guys break up, thats it. Your EX has their life, and you have yours. Once you break up, you do not call them. You do not give them gifts on christmas, ect. You wipe them out of your life. It does not matter if she was the greatest girl, "the one", or whatever. You broke up for a reason. Time to move on buddy. Getting laid is incredibly easy. Getting girls is incredibly easy. If you look good, you WILL get girls. If you look like a disgusting slob, you will not. Simple as that. With that said, if you want to look good, change your hair, buy some nice clothes, go to the gym, and you will have no problem. EVERYONE is shallow, no matter what they say. Again, judge by actions not words. Another imprtant thing: Girls are horny. VERY horny. They think about sex as much as guys do, it is a part of nature. They just dont want to talk about it, because they will be seen as being promiscuous. Get a chick to a safe place with just the two of you, get her horny, and she's yours. YES, ITS THAT SIMPLE!!! Answering the "does she like me" question. Dude.. if a girl keeps looking at you, smiling, touching you, ect., she IS interested. Just go talk to her man. She is a human being, not a terrible beast who will rip out your eyes. Talk to her, ask her number, call her, set up a date. That is all. One final thing: Just have fun! Dont take every single girl seriously. Go out to have fun, and youre bound to have nice surprises along the way

Its pretty damn hard to act on logic regardless of emotion, but alot of the time it is the best way to go.

You are creating images, with no foundation in the real world. Tomorrow you might get ran over by a car.. who knows. Stop thinking about it. It most likely isnt going to happen.

She cant change it. You can. Now go change it.

Sometimes, you need to stop acting upon emotion and be logical.

Stop eating fat foods. Eat healthy. Eat meat. Research, and find weight cutting plans. But you must also work out. Go to the gym, jog in the morning, ect. The only thing is you must completely dedicate yourself to this. It is really hard, but in the long run, it pays off. I had kinda the same problem, but I was too skinny. Well, I dedicated myself, and went from 6'0 and 120 to 137, and still keep gaining weight. Its all dedication, but it really pays off.

Start meeting more people. Just come up to people, smile, and start a conversation. Take up hobbies that involve socializing. Pretty soon you will be more outgoing and easily meet people. The only way to beat shyness is to attack it head on.

Very easy. Make her more comfortable around you. Do something crazy. Just take her hand and start doing some weird tango thing. Make her laugh alot. Take her out on an action date (none of that movie stuff) and show her a great time.

-Put on 20 pounds -Improve guitar skills -continue to improve & challenge myself -get a car All I can think of at the moment.

Why do you place YOUR happiness on another person? If you do that, you will never be happy. You must realize that. Now go out and live your life.

16.

Get her in the mood, and hit it 8)

If you want some good music to give u motivation and uplift you, check out these cheesy power metal bands: Freedom Call, Dragonforce, Edguy, Angra, Manowar, Helloween, ect.

This bothers me. Dude.. come on. Do yourself a favor and start meeting REAL girls. Trust me, it pays off alot more 8)

They start talking about dating & kissing, they will look at you, touch you, ect. You will KNOW dude, believe me. There is something called gut feeling, and it never fails you.

Well then? My tip is simple, but effective: Start doing something about it. I've done it at 15.

If Im attracted to a certain girl, I usually talk to them. Yes I do get laid occasionally. How? By getting the girl horny and comfortable with me. Would I tell my friends? No. I have respect for my girlfriend. Guys would not run if you tell them how you feel. However, being needy and desparate is a turn-off, just like desparate guys. During class, I STFU and do my work. That is all.

My friend.. Not all girls are like this. There ARE good ones out there. This one, however, is not worth a (INAPPROPRIATE LANGUAGE - DELETED BY MOD). Do not feel down because ofpeople like this. Simply forget her. Dont call her, dont talk to her. If she tries to go back to you, dotn let her. Dont associate with people like this.

Your BF is insecure. He does not control you, so do as you wish. I would still continue to hang out with my female friends, even if my GF said otherwise. Then again if she did that, she would not be my GF.

I am talking about not depending on people for anything. YOU Are responsible for your own life.

It means if you do it, you might be severely disfigured for the rest of your life. lol

Do YOU like it?

Yes.

The truth does not always have to be pleasant.