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  1. elveden
    Very kind
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    Cheers peeps
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    Yeah I was in a relationship then a few months after we'd broken up, I realised I was a fool for letting me treat her the way she did.. (I know this isn't really what you asked btw Some girls enjoy hurting other people.. it's stupid.
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    Yeah - it sounds like you're really interested in pleasuring her which is good I think the best thing for you to do (like Cydeways is implying) is to take it really slow - try to get her all worked up. In other words, you need to make her want you. You could even try acting as though you aren't interested. Maybe she enjoys being in control of your sex life - and that's not really on..
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    You've gotta find out how he really feels. People don't often lie about the way they feel when they're drunk, quite the opposite infact. Being drunk is like being on a small dose of truth serum. definitely call him - find out. You'll never know if you don't.. and that would be awful. It's really worse not knowing for the rest of your life..
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    Like you say, if you're both confident with each other, and both feel strong enough to share sexual experiences with other people, then there should really be absolutely no reason not to try new things like this. Enjoy life
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    You're quite young to be asking about that kinda stuff, but hey. You gotta learn sometime I guess.. Just go with the flow. There's no "wrong and right" in relationships. Everyone does things differently, and different is often better Gets a little monotonous when people act the same..
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    I'm attracted to girls who stand out from the crowd. It's so boring seeing almost every girl in my school wearing exactly the same all hanging around together all the time. I'd only ever be attracted to someone I thought was different in a really good way.. And humour. I love girls who make me laugh and stuff. Someone who I feel is like my best friend aswell..
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    Well said
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    Yeah. You should tell her. Believe me, the truth, is always the best option. Let's consider both scenarios.. Ok, you don't tell her. Everything goes well for a while, until you do want to start a sexual relationship. She shouldn't have a problem with it, but she'd probably want to know when you had it done. Basically, not telling her could turn around and bite you later down the line If you were to tell her. Ok yeah, they may be a little embarrassment.. but if she has any sense, she'll be happier that you told her than the opposite. Keeping things secret from your partner isn't healthy for the relationship. Tell her.
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    The thing to remember with any relationship is to have confidence. People are attracted to confident, forward-moving people. If this girl thinks your afraid of starting or continuing a relationship, then she'll begin to become uninterested. Remember that this girl probably likes you too. Don't be afraid to initiate conversation. Believe me - people like other people starting conversations. Let me know what happens
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    That's really good
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    Last december my gf moved to new zealand.. It was such a great relationship and I couldn't believe it when I found out she was going I'm still distraught about it today, but after a while I realised that I just had to look to the future. We'd already decided that we were gonna meet up. I guess i'm just feeling upset at the moment. A lot upset because I just want to see her, and I can't.. It's like life has taken a hold of me. It's in-escapable. I'm not really even sure why i'm posting this.. Just wanted to say it.
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    Follow your heart..
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    I think that there are people out there who just click. Not necessarily soulmates.. but i think everyone will agree with me when I say that you sometimes just meet peole and you know, instantly, that there's something there..
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    For me it's inventing something new.. when you've been doing the same stuff for a while and then suddenly, your partner pulls somethin else out of the bag - it's excellent..
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    Yeah. Hold out! Even better.. turn it into a competition..
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    There are plenty of signs to show if a girl wants to take things further.. Apparently them playing with their hair is the biggest
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    There are no rules, the only person who knows when the time is right is you two. Just go with the flow, let it happen and don't listen to what other people say! (except us, of course, because we have good advice..)
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    All sounds good
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    I was at a trainstation once, also, when I saw this couple both in their early twenties kissing next to a train that was about to leave. The guy was pretty much pinned against the train so got quite a shock when it suddenly started moving. What made it even funnier was when his coat became hooked on one of the door handles and he started being dragged slowly along the platform. EVEN more funny was when his girlfriend apparently also in mild shock backed away refusing to help him!? He unhooked himself shortly after but it was fecking hilarious
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    Hi there.. You need to think more confidently. You say you asked her to a concert - I take it she accepted this invitation - which in itself means that she has feelings for you and doesn't dislike you. If this girl isn't stupid, then she'll prefer your qualities (wit etc) and not solely judge anybody by their appearance. To me you sound as though you are solely fearful of rejection due to past bad experiences. You have to look past those now, and tell yourself that that was in the past.. If you only have a couple of days to act, then my advice would be to go for it. Of course I don't know the whole situation, but if you don't do something, then you may spend the rest of your life never knowing whether she felt the same way about you, and that would be much worse than being rejected. I hope it sorts itself out soon
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    I agree. I'm sure he understands how you're feeling about this, but perhaps you should try to tell him just how unhappy you are with your current arrangement. 10 times in 6 months isn't particularly healthy for any relationship. The time you do have together thereforeeee has to really be special. Plan trips out and make the most of it. Hope you get it sorted soon
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