JuniorROTC

I dont think that , she completely opened up to me though, i remember an email i still got from about 3 weeks ago. its a short paragraph describing exactly how she felt, and it was a pretty deep email (she was out of town in california for like 5 days when she sent this). "Ever since I started going out with you I cant seem to make myself stop loving I mean it just keeps growing and i cant stop it. All i want to be is in your arms and all i want to be is yours. I love being in you loving embrace (its the place I feel safest) and I want to be in it every day for the rest of my life. There is not one day when i don't think about how much I miss you all the time. Every time we say "I love you" I get this incredible fluttery feeling and I love it!! I always feel like I can tell you anything no matter what,things that I could never tell any one else and that means a lot to me. I will always be faithful and honest with you. Baby, I love you and words can never express how much. You are my special some one and the person I want to be with I can't see myself with any one but you. You are my baby and I won't have it any other way. You are one of the only people I have ever gotten so close to in such a short amount of time. I know you love me for who I am, you never have expected me to be any thing more than me. You saw me for who I was, never lose that quality. I love you more than words can explain and I miss you so very much" This is what we had, and all of a sudden its just gone and i have no idea how the hell it happened. dewerte you made a good point but i dont think it was that now that i think of it. But then again i have no idea what it possibly could be. but thanks for the advice.

Yea man no contact really works. My ex was cheating on me while i was on vacation and i found out and i told her, well in a very nice way, to get out of my life. I told her hey you know what, Its been nice knowing you but were two diffrent people with two diffrent lives. I want you to go have fun with yours but keep me out of it, and she made this choice not me and im not mad im just keeping it real. try saying something like that if she tries to get a hold of you

Before i get started on my problem here is some background on my relationship with this girl. I was a sophmore and she was a freshman, I did not know her 'very' well in the start of the year but towards the end i started to get to know her fairly well and we were friends. We both went to the summer jROTC activities that were in July, and we started to get pretty close. She got a ride home with me and my friend and occasionally we would all go to my house. We flirted alot, and eventually i asked her out. Before i asked her out you could say we were pretty much almost best friends if not. Things went extremely well. We completely fell for each other and fast--maybe a bit too fast. In the start of the relationship she said she never really felt quite this way about anyone else, she just felt 'drawn' to me. I felt the same way about her, and we both could see us going out for awhile. After about 2 weeks of dating we were in love with each other. The next four weeks went by just as well. School started and she moved into her new apartments with her mom. I was a junior and she was a sophmore. Then Last thursday, after school i got on instant messanger. She logged on at around 8, and we started talking. she asked what i was up too and i was learning to play guitar. She said "thats cool. Im...thinking brb" and went away for about 10 minutes then came back. We started talking again then i asked her what she was thinking about..and she never responded and eventually logged off after 10 mins of being idle. Now i kne w something was wrong. Well next day at school she was kinda avoiding me, well long story short at the end of school friday she broke up with me. Said she wants to be friends right now and its 'because of stress of school and moving' and perhaps when the stress settles we could go back out but she 'cant promise anything'. She gave me a note to go along with what she said. It said things like she didnt want anything to be akward and how they wouldnt be, how she knows im like why the hell she did this, how she will no doubt miss me, and how she would still love me but like a brother (yea...ouch). Now i was cut and cut deep. i couldnt say anything but i managed to say if thats how she feels...and then she walked away and well i skipped the first 30 mins of practice and walked around the campus. I wasnt the only one shocked, her friends were too, they said they were against it and only found out friday morning that she was and she gave them the same reasons of 'stress'. I have both spoken to and seen my ex yesterday and monday, both days in which she acted buddy buddy and nothing was akward. My dad had told me something about highschool girls that i pretty much already knew but brought to my attention. Feelings like 'love' and such are new to them (and me i suppose) and they dont exactly know how to deal with them yet and have alot of thigns running in their head, and within two weeks you will know if they want you back or not. Her friends too, are trying to talk her to reconsidering, or at least giving them the real reason why she did what she did. Question is, is it probable that she would come back?

Yea, i went out with a girl for a very short period, like a week. We went to a dance together and all, we were good friends before i asked her out. then she told me that she didnt really like me and she wanted to just be friends, which hit me like a brick wall becuase it seemed like she did. before i asked her out she would flirt with me and then when i asked her out i would wait with her at the bus stop after school and it was cold so i would have my arm around her and her head would be on my shoulder and all..well yea so i was a bit upset when i heard, but i got over it now and we are still friends and still talk alot. But the thing is i still like her, and i know she likes this other guy and he likes her to and they are basically goin out and i just feel jealous any tips on how to get over it?

Yea thats what i was thinking. anyway i have already asked if she would like to go to a movie and she wants to see 'boogie man', just gotta see if her mother would let her -crosses fingers-

Alright, first off the girl im talking about ive known for a few months and i really like her and she really likes me. I asked her out to the military ball and she said yes we went last night and had a blast, now her mom gave us (me, her, a few friends) a ride home, she dropped me off at my house first, and the girl got out of the car to let me get out, and she gave me a hug and i said cya monday. Now everyone was asking me if i kissed her or not, should i have kissed her either during one of the dances or when i was dropped off? did i miss a good chance? Or are kisses on first dates uncommon.

Well i have done that before, she would say something and i would lower my head and *sniff* and she would be like "ohhhh" and give me a hug.

Just a quick question, do girls often tease the guy they like alot? Or is it in their 'nature' or whatever. Basically she thinks im somewhat of a 'redneck' and teases me (not in a mean way at all) about it every now and then, and i play along. She thinks im really funny, she said im basically the funniest guy she knows, and she mimics alot of my jokes, like "drink some water youll be fine" and stuff. Just curious,

Well it seems that neither of us is going to have the oppurtunity to take her- her mom said no to both of us more or less. At least thats what my friend told me, he said that she (the girl in mind here) wanted to tell me personally, so i guess tomorrow if i see her or tuesday when school starts back up ill hear it from her.

I'll start by saying that i am 15, the girl i like just turned 15 last december, and there is a military ball coming up. I decided i was going to ask her after practice last tuesday, her friends really wanted me to ask her. She gives me eye contact, laughs at my jokes, gives me hugs, ect, so i was pretty convinced she liked me. So tuesday came, and one of my best friends actually asked her. He did not know that i was going to ask her though he knew i liked her, he was pretty surprised when i said i was going to. Now he asked her out as friends (or at least he said) but my real question is...He knows her pretty well and he told me that she didn't like me, though her friends all were edging me on to ask her out, and she seems to like me...who do i believe! any help would be appreciated

Well...I cant answer the question but i can tell you it is worth a shot. if she ever breaks up with her current boy friend (Make sure your not part of the reason they broke up!) go ahead and ask her out. if you are pretty good friends im sure she would say yes, and on your date you can find out if she really likes you.

Well i decided that i would just get to know her better than i already do and hang out with her more by going to school before school as well after. The reassuring thing is that even if i asked her out and she said no i know we could still be friends

i dont think it was a coincidence bud im pretty sure she is going out of her way to see you more often. its a good sign so good luck tomorrow 8)

Alright ill start off first by saying i am 15 and the girl i have in mind is 14. i have known her for a couple of months now, i met her through one of my best friends. At first she was pretty distant but now she has warmed up a bit and we usually hang around each other during lunch/before or after school. She smiles and says hey or something when we pass in the halls between classes and when we meet after school we hug and say wassup. Though she hugs all of her closer friends 8) We joke around alot sometimes she playfully hits my shoudler or somethign or whacks me in the face with her sleeve (nearly poked my eye out that one time.. ) We have an interest in the Spurs and when i told her my dad has season tickets she asked me to take her to a game sometime and i promised i would if i can get a spare ticket. I am pretty sure she knows i like her, one of my friends had told her that i did. She then after school called me over and in front of one of her friends asked me if i really did like her. Needless to say my tongue seemed it had stopped working and i found myself changing the subject quickly. There are also other guys who hang around her who also like her, though she doesnt think they do. She often asks me or one of her other friends if they think so and so likes her. So basically my question is, does she like me? or is she just being friendly.