CamaroGuy

Everyone gets crushes, but I wouldn't act on it. No matter what age you are, if he is a teacher and you are a student, he could get fired, and no one wants that(Unless he gave you a bad grade ).

A kid at 14? It's people like you who's child will steal my car in 20 years. I cannot urge you enough to not have a child now, or for quite a while. There are many things you should experience before that. You say you are getting kicked out of school, you can still get your G.E.D. and go to college. If you do have a baby now, who will be its father? You said that 'he' wasn't even your real boyfriend anymore, just a friend with benefits. Do those benefits include child support? Please heed my advice, atleast only waiting a few years will make a world of a difference.

With money? Bad. And not to mention illegal. But paying for it with dinner and a movie on ther other hand...

And I'm very glad you haven't, being 14 and all....

I'm a senior in high school and I don't even consider having sex with my girlfriend. Hell, when I was 13 I think I still had the whole "girls = yuck" mindset. Haha, I can imagine being a walgreens clerk, middle schooler comes up to the counter, buys jelly beans, a My Little Pony action figure, and birth control pills....

I'm not sure if this is the right part of the forum to post this, but here it goes: Ever since I can remember, I've had a condition called phimosis, where the foreskin on the penis cannot retract because the opening it too small. I finally decided to do something about it, so I went to the doctor and he recommended circumcision. So two weeks ago, I went under the knife and had the operation done. It is almost fully healed and everything is fine. I have been dating this girl for about a little over a month now. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to figure out that I had the operation done while I was dating her. Now, the relationship isn't sexual, but having the operation meant going to the hospital and then saying in bed the next couple days afterwards, so she would obviously be curious. If I told her afterwards, I thought she might get angry that I didn't tell her beforehand; but then again, sixteen-year-old guys don't get circumcised everyday(atleast not to my knowledge), and I didn't know how she would react to that(this is my first relationship and I don't want to mess it up). So because of those things, I told her a few days before that I was having surgery and was very vague with the details(she knew it was in that area, and that I had stitches, that was about it), and to my surprise she didn't press the matter as I suspected she would, which was good for me at the time. My problem is this: I feel somewhat guilty that I didn't tell her the full truth about what I was getting done. Actually I'm not sure if it is guilt at all, but for some reason I feel the need to tell her. What do you think I should do, in the interest of staying with her? Do you think she would react badly to that info? Thanks in advance