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  1. elveden
    I agree. If I had a quid for every day i'd spent wondering and anazlyzing people's feelings towards me, i'd have many, many quids..
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    Erm I don't know if you know this, but by girth I think you'll find he means circumference around
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    I must say I completely disagree. In my opinion, your physio professor is wrong.
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    Well, you haven't really told us why she broke up with you (I take it she broke up with you). It'd be easier to give you some advice if I knew what ended the relationship?
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    No problem Let us know how it works out for you?
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    Well, maybe. But I can see where he's coming from. I mean, my current gf will never be outdone.. one might say she is the cream of MY crop. Who agrees that i'll get an email from eNotalone admin telling me that because I said that this post is inappropriate?
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    Yeah I forgot about that - public place. Vital. Safe. Lots of people around if he turns out not to be who you thought he would be.. :shock:
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    I know it's difficult to hear the stupid old sentence "get over it" but it's really the only way forward. If she's no longer interested in a relationship, then i'm afriad there's really nother you can do about it. Perhaps find someone else, go out with friends - keep yourself occupied, that's what I didn't do, and I kept hurting myself for almost a year before I let my ex go. Take it from someone who's experienced the pain for a long time, let her go. Find someone who really deserves you..
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    When you are in a relationship that is just too good, sometimes you can feel a little flustered. Do give her some time, but ANSWER HER CALLS!? You have to keep that level of relationship at optimum level or she may well begin to lose interest? You need to keep YOU on her mind as much as possible. You sound very confident, but don't get to confident.. she may meet someone else, so if I were you, i'd let her know that you still want the incredible relationship you once had to continue. Communication, it's the one thing that all relationships lack at some point - and it can destroy them - so fight the system..
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    Well, online relationships are of course, not advisable due to concealed identity, but it's each persons decision whether they pursue one. Remember that it's your life, and your judgement. If you really truly believe that this could work, then I would say go for it. You need to give it lots of thought, however, as i'm thinking you probably have. Tell him how you feel directly, and perhaps try to initiate other forms of communication... letters, phone .etc. That way, you can get to know each other on a more personal method. Hope it works out for you
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    Guys certainly seem to have a tendency to play mind games. Most do when they don't get their own way. It's natural. Just kick him in the bollocks. THEN he'll listen.
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    Well, it's important that you tell her how you feel. Communication is vital in a relationship. I would sit down and let her know what you want from the relationship. If then you feel that you can't experience what you'd like to from this relationship, I advise you consider breaking up with her. You have to move on in a relationship, try new things, and it's fine if she's not ready, but you obviously are. Sit her down, let her know. It's the only way. Good luck
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    1 year, 8 months and something. My ex finished with me on msn. For some reason, now, we hate each other.
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    That's very true. You should let him know how much he meant to you as a friend. I can imagine it's difficult, being friends with someone who has rejected you, but if you and him have a special connection as you put it, then that little event shouldn't have ruined your friendship. If I were you i'd call him, ask him to meet you somewhere (I wouldn't try to speak on the phone about a situation as delicate as this) and talk it all through. Both express how you truly feel about each other, and what you'd like to happen in the future. See if you can come to an agreement with him, that you remain friends. Perhaps use the age old method of letting someone down gently and tell him "I'm not really interested in getting into a relationship now, but let's stay friends and you never know what might happen in the future"..
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    I'm sure you do. But I stand by what I said earlier..
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    Confidence. Needed. Her.
  17. elveden
    True love and love, are very different. If you fall out of love with someone, you were never truly in love with them to begin with peeps..
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    I think that if you can fall out of love, then you were never truly in love to begin with..
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    I don't agree. If it's not meant to be, then it won't happen. But two people's paths crossing are often believed to be down to destiny. If you're meant to be together, then you will be. There's no point in not trying..
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    I've been through a similar situation, only I wasn't standing in the shoes that you are, Tsunami.. Only you can make the true decision as to who is worthy of your love. It is yours, afterall.. yours to give, yours to take. Don't let people treat you badly if there's another who will treat you like a goddess..
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    If I were you, i'd tell him that everything is great at the moment (like you implied) and suggest that you spice things up a little to keep things exciting. That way you'd be constructively critisizing
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    Couldn't have put it better myself
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    Well, really, the only thing you can do is talk to each other. To get rid of that "not knowing" feeling then one of you needs to make a decision. Are you still in love with her then? If she isn't in love with you, then i'd reccomend ending it yourself, for there is little point in trying for a relationship where the love is not reciprocated. Ask her if you can get together (don't do it on the phone or anything, it's not the same - no emotion) and talk about everything. If from your conversation you don't feel you have found the answer from her that you're looking for then ask her, straight up what she wants. From that, you should be able to form an opinion of her, and the relationship itself. Hope it works out for you
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    It's quite understandable that you are upset about this. I would be if I were you.. If I were you then I wouldn't stand for this kind of treatment. Mainly because he lied to you. If this guy told you he hadn't been talking to these girls online, and he had, then that's not on. If you feel that you're able to give him a 3rd, 4th (etc) chance then it's quite understandable.. but to be honest, if he's done it more than once in the past, then there's nothing to say he won't do it many times again.. Good luck
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    Well communication is vital.. and from what you say about her having a 6yr old son, i'm guessing she was in a fairly serious relationship before she met you? If this is so, then it's natural for her to feel anxious about imposing another father figure on her son too early on. Often the appearance of a new parent for a child can be distressing. She may also still be getting over her previous partner. All you can do is talk to her about where she'd like to go with this relationship. Ask to meet up somewhere nice and quiet, and be honest. Tell her what you'd like to happen in the future..
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