melissa_74
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fisrt of all, congrats on ure upcoming weeding! but for the sex part as some of the women say, it does not hurt...well it depens on evryone, but the younger u are the more its likely to hurt....actually my 1st time, it hurted so much i coudnt even continu till it actually went in... but as 4 msmaya21, it is possible u can orgasm the 1st time but chances arent very high... well wat makes sex good is geting aroused 1st by most of the time oral than actually having sex, but make sure to tell ure husband to go very slowly....although finding ure specifics way to orgasm takes time, cuz u need to try diferent things which will get u rly excited.... Good Luck..
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I agree with wat the others said and mostly wat RayKay said, that it might be hitting ure cervix i myself reconize the same pain on the side of my stomach but i no cuz i can see that my bf goes all the way in, so its pretty obvious its hiting the cervix but there are some really good positions u can try that are good... the one i no that it does not hurt the cervix so much is lik missionary but instead you put the weight of ure legs on ure bfs shoulders and u are on ure back....it works lik a charm but if u dont understand what i mean just tell me... Gud Luck..
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i say just to be sure it really is positive you should go to a clinic and get a urine and see from there....
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Heyy, when do u guys think is a gud time to take the pregnacy test? cuz ive token it lik 2 days ago and it was negative, though would it be more accurate if i took right before i am seposed to get my period?
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i shall and thanks alot for your seport, though i cant wait til tomorrow to go and get the results, cuz i dont no where to go if i anna see a doctor to get the tests so in the meantime i will take a home test....but i will go ask my guidance conselor about where to go see a doctor.... though tell me plz what hapenned to the gurl whom got an abortion?
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though i dont mean shellfish, but im worried he might be thinking more about himself in this situation than common sense of not killing a child...
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actually i am very scared about this , and i dont no, wat to do if it would turn out positive.....though i m talking to my boyfriend about this suject now......and what he tells me is if it turns out possitive he says i sould give it up.....i dont no but my bf seems a bit shellfish about it.....since he says evryone would hate him, his famli, his friends, anfd evryone....and he tells me he has alridy a lot of problems lik army, skool, and much more.... but im thinking i dont no i dont care of what would hapen with my famli, being kicked out of the house......skool, friends...i dont care i just dont want to know that i killed a human being and if i brake up with my bf then lets say i marry another n tell him that i was pregnant once n killed it.....thats a bit shoking to no..... though i feel so messed up inside....i kinda wamt the child but then all the consequances....and i dont no i feel sick to my heart i dont no cuz its a teen thing when bad things hapen or cuz im pregnant....
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whaqt do you mean??
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actually i am seposed to be getting my perod around the 20th....though after the 1st time i had sex, my period came 2 weeks earlier....:S
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okay sir, we will be careful with what we say.... Jay, sei italiano? perche io sono italiana, me se non parlo bene in italiano e perche adeso aprendo il espagnolo anche alora...
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No - I refuse to give advice whereby the poster is not mature enough to have sex. You know nothing of her - I have read her advice requests and come to the conclusion that she is not mature or old enough to have sex. STD's, STI's, Pregnancy and emotional discomfort. I don't believe most 14 year olds are mature enough to even comprehend such effects. What would say about me then? If she is ready to have sex then she is ready, it is better for her to talk to her mother about it, lik that she can tell her wats best.....at least this way she will not have the chances of falling pregnant if she is on the pilll.....
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No - I refuse to give advice whereby the poster is not mature enough to have sex. You know nothing of her - I have read her advice requests and come to the conclusion that she is not mature or old enough to have sex. STD's, STI's, Pregnancy and emotional discomfort. I don't believe most 14 year olds are mature enough to even comprehend such effects.
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its true, but dont push it, im still an italian...though it depens where in italy, i think they do that mostly in sicily where i come from in italy its more cool with the marrage thing and cousin blood line things, but the old world of italians will always not lik for there grand-children to marry someone whos not italian as well....
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What evryone says is true, ive alridy had dry or oral and the same thing as you yet im not pregnant, you should worry about it.... me too when i was folling around with my bf i was worried about it, but i though to my self what are the chances im become pregnant by only doing tat? Take your mind off that unless, uve had intercourse and the comdom poped, then worry as im am doing now.... Hope for the slim changes...
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Thanks a lot both of you, (Jay and Amannamederic) Well for now all i can do is wait til tomorrow and go buy thoses home tests and see what they bring and of course ill talk to my boyfriend aand see wat he says and blablabla.... though i dint no italian gran-parents are so anti-other cultures other than italians......thats so bad...