elveden
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Well it definitely sounds as though this girl is interested in you. If she keeps trying to find out about you.. If I were you, i'd look for signs such as smiling, constant eye contact, seems either nervous around you, or extremely confident (either could mean she's interested in you)..
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Think of this as a test for your relationship.. As dave says, if she really trusts you then she'll understand that when people are drunk, they do things that aren't exactly normal. Tell her. I don't think the guilt will go away, and if you aren't careful, it'll turn around and get you later on down the line.
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There is a slight chance that you could be pregrant even though you took a test. The test may have been incorrect for some reason, or the egg may not have been fertilised at the time you took the test? It could well also be hormones. Not really an expert..
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Well, it shouldn't be you begging her to come back, it should be her apologizing to you. You said that she needs to decide whether she wants to come back to you? It should be you doing the deciding. I know right now, it's easy to think to yourself that she's the only person in the world for you, but believe me.. there are other people who deserve you more than she does. If she has made the decision to discontinue your relationship then the best thing for you to do is to move on. That's the only way you will find closure.. Go out. Meet new people and remember that your life shouldn't be held to ransome just for one person, a person who has messed you around in the past. But look to the future - the pain will subside. I've never been in a relationship for 7 years but I know it hurts when I decent relationship ends - and I also know that by keeping yourself busy, and by not dwelling on what has happened in the past, you will get over her.. Really hope it works out for you
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Well, have you talked to your gf about it?
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I was dumped on msn messenger once.. ..sucks don't it?
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I'll drink to that..
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I can never get him to orgasm - need help.
elveden replied to You_Dont_Know_Me's topic in Sex and Romance
I would reccomend - a lot of foreplay - get him really worked up.. -
You have to talk to her. No one ever finds anything out by guessing, and communication is vital between partners - let each other know what's on your mind - what you like and dislike.. I can't understand why she'd do that - and I spose the only person who really knows is her..
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Well, I would imagine that completely shaved would be less natural than normal, but each his own I guess..
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Good words - follow them - learn to live by them. Most of all. ENJOY LIFE.
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Joke, people :shock:
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Loads of things, they differ from person to person. You've just got to experiment really, and find out what your partner likes
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I've certainly never heard of that one
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Mr Meh - you make me laugh..
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Well it completely depends on what he likes. If you are interested in doing something that he enjoys then yeah, you should think about what he has talked to you about. Horseback riding sounds good - outdoors, out and about and like you said, gives you a chance to talk..
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Well, if you do like him, then I would try and respond to what he is trying to tell you. Quite obviously he likes you - and if the feeling is reciprocal then there should be no reason. From what I can deduct from your post, you appear quite shy around this guy - and it's normal. All I will say is that if he does like you and he is attempting to make the first move, I shouldn't think that he will hang around forever, and I would make a move soon if you do feel for him, or the oppertunity may be wasted..
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Well, nerves are completely natural, especially around someone we like or have strong feelings for. In my opinion, you should take sometime on your own to sit down and think.. practise telling yourself to take a deep breath and count to five. This often helps the blood flow to your brain and allows to process thoughts faster and avoid freezing. When you "freeze" with nerves, all that's happening is your brain is getting stuck in a limbo between silence and saying something. You're so worked up on trying to say something that all you can do is not say anything atall. Practise breathing excersizes and then next time you see her, just do the same. Your head should be clear, but most of all - BE CONFIDENT!
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Well, I don't understand exactly what you're saying, but yeah, confidence is a huge part of a successful relationship. Like you imply, too much can ruin one, so you have to get it just right. Having confidence in your partner will mean that you don't jump to conclusions, often being incorrect. All in all, it's having trust in one another..
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I agree..
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There's no right and wrong baby - just let it flow! No one can decide the definative time to say 'i love you' - each his own.. If you feel the time is right then go for it, and if he's been making jokes about you loving him, i'd call it a definate sign that he wants to take the relationship further.. It sounds to me as though he's shy to make the first move, and if that is the case, then he'll be SO wanting you to make it.. Go for it..
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Yeah - that's all I can do at this point in time - to keep myself from remaining upset.. I've realised that all I can do is look to the future - and I plan to shape my life around how I want it - you only get one, eh? Live life to the full - AND ENJOY!
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The only thing which may sort this problem out is communication between the two of you. You have to talk to each other - ask her what it is that seems to have made her stop loving you.. I know that I couldn't bare being in a relationship where the feeling of love is returned - I just couldn't do it. You should talk to each other. No one can really tell you what's right to do in this situation - only you can make that decision. If you feel comfortable in a relationship inwhich your partner isn't in love with you then that's fine - but don't let yourself continue with a relationship if deep down you're unhappy.. In my opinion - proceeding with marriage if you're sure she is not in love with you would be a bad idea..