lilsht05

Ok... so let me understand a little bit better, you got pregnant BEFORE you were with your boyfriend... correct?? If so and if he actually likes you and cares for you then I think he should understand. If you doesn't care for you or any of that shibby then I think he is going to get a little P.O.ed. I you did actually cheat on him then I wouldn't expect much out of him. I hope all works out ok for you!!!!! Good Luck with everything and let us all know what happens!!!!!

I just wanted to let everyone know that I hate the world and everything about it!! Every time that I think that thigs are going my way something happens. Why does this always happen to me??

I've been on the pill for a long time now and I haven't got pregnant. My bf and I do not use any other kind of birth control method. I would say, unless she isn't using the pill correctly, she's fine. But with some pills you don't have your period and that is how it is supposed to be. With some women their drs tell them to skip the pills with nothing in them and just go on. talk to her.

In my opinion, I think that most girls remember their first time, I know that I do. But just because they remember it doesn't mean that they will nessisaily dwell on it and be happy about it and like the guy that it was with. The guy that I lost mine to I HATE and do not even like to think about him. And it hasn't ruined anything that I have done with my current bf. The sex that I have with him is very sentimental and I love him!

OMG!! I wish that I had sex 5-7 times a week or more. It used to be like that for me and my bf, but now it is more like once a week! We both have things to do and don't have time to have sex anymore. That and it is nice to just cuddle. But I still wish I got it more than I do! Oh well!!

I'm sorry if this sounds a little...mean, but I'm not asking about your opinion on me being engaged. I'm asking your opinion on what I should do about the letter that I found! Sorry if that was harsh, I'm having a TERRIBLE day! Thanx all for the advise and please...keep it coming!

Ok I'm going to try to answer all of your questions. Me and him have been together for almost 2 years. We are ingaged. His ex IS getting married. They haven't talked to each other for almost three years until she got his phone # from a mutaul friend. She asked him to write her. He has only done one thing that would make me not trust him- long story...not getting into it. But I understood because at the time I was thinking the samething, I didn't do it...he did. Anyway, I can't decide if I sould believe him or not. I know that the reason that they broke up was because she was "playing" him and another guy. So... I don't know. Any advicce would be great. And thanks for all that is there already!!!

OK this is a little embarrassing for me, I don't like to be judged, but last night I found a letter that my bf was writing to his ex, who is getting married. When I pick it up he came over to me and told me not to take it serious. It said that he wondered if he wouldn't have moved would they still be together and that he wondered that all the time. I freaked out and tryed to leave, but he wouldn't let me. He told me that it was a jake and that he had to make fun of her because she is getting married and she is only 18. Should I believe him that it was a joke or take it seriously... WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????

Just so you all know. A girl can have her period for the first three months of pregnancy, it isn't common and it isn't like a normal period, but it's still a period. Just a warning.

I agree with ck... what does the fact that he is black have to do with anything? People are all the same no matter what color their skin is. Maybe if you didn't have such a perspective about black people, you wouldn't have a problem with him. And it is obvious that you have a problem with them because if you didn;t you wouldn't have put that in there! about your problem...try talking to him. If that doesn't work try ignoring him. See if that helps and go from there!

Ok condoms are good. But without deffinently feels better. In my opinion it's better for both. I've been on the pill for 8 months and been having sex the whole time (with the same person). We haven't used any other kind of contreceptive and I'm not and haven't gotten pregnant, the pill works really good, but if you are really worried about it, then you should consider using a condom or spermicide. But the pill should be enough!! Be carefull though...don't miss a pill!!

What if your wife found out? Then what would you do? She would be pissed because you cheated and lied! You would definently be looking for a good lawyer then. Do you really think that she didn't notice the change in you and your attitude toward her. She knows something happened that changed you.

This is NOT true. lying about something...anything...to your gf or bf is the worst thing that you can do. Especially about cheating. What happens when she finds out from someone else? People have an odd way of feeling when something isn't right, I now this from personal experience. My bf cheated on me and lied to me about it fora couple months, when the guilt finally got to him, he told me. I knew about it, I felt it and I had been told, but I wouldn't believe anyone. Anyway, I forgave him for the cheating, but the lying was a different story. that was almost 6 months ago, I trust him more with other girls that I do when he tells me something. I always think that he is lying to me, even though I know he isn't. You telling her the truth was the best thing to do. And it will be easier for her to trust you knowing that you will always tell her the truth no matter what that means!

I have also had a "lip hickey". but not from a bad kisser, but to answer your question. It is possible and that is probably what it is. Just keep telling people that it is a bruise, that you ran into a door or something. They won't think anything of it!!

One good way to get rid of a hickey would be to take two fingers, start from the center of the hickey, press down and slowly move your fingers outward. Do this all around the hickey. It spreads the blood out and makes the hickey less visible. It does not make it go away completely, but it helps it go away faster, and helps it be less noticeable. It will make it and the skin around it red for a few min, but that goes away pretty quick. Don't just do it once, try doing in the morning and right before bed for a couple days. Hope I helped!