I am 24 white, and I have been with 3 girls... The reason I give the number, is cause the first 2 I thought I was doing something wrong. I had a clumbsy time with sex, and struggled for awhile to get inside. I thought I was just inexperienced and didn't know what I was doing.
Anyway my current partner and I are not in a relationship beyond having sex, and it is completely mutual. Whenever we have sex, it takes a lot of time and lube to get inside. Then it seems she will finish with a violent orgasm, like my previous partners, and I will feel like I only just got going. Anyway, she will complain about it starting to hurt, so I wont be able to go on, for whatever reason; either she pushes me out uncosciously, or by going limp from her disinterest, I can't seem to finish with any regularity. Then the next time it is that much harder to get inside again, like she is closed down. All three women have felt bad because they didnt let me go till orgasm, but they kept saying i was too big. If I masturbate, I obviously have no issues.
This has to be something I am doing wrong. Can a woman relax her vaginal muscles, or stretch them over time, to accept me?
While I am not hung, I am a mild 15 cm long (6 inches) by 16.5 cm in girth (6.5 inches) I never thought this was big, but it just doesn't seem to match any of my partners. I think the legnth is fine, the complaint is the girth/thickness.
I am curious if anyone has any suggestions, other than lube it up, and go slow, which i already do quite extensivly. Ladies, can you stretch out over a period of time, IE become more loose, or are vagina sizes permanent?