kuhaaica
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I agree dont see her, you have come things far why mess it up now. She is continuing to try and string you along, dont allow it. good luck and take care
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wow this is a tough one, i was married to a guy who would drink and black out "waking" up in jail and hearing i was picked up beaten bloody and naked because of what he had done. But he had no knowledge of what happened... needless to say i am not with him any more but i do have 4 kids with him. I think that drinking is okay, but when you find that you drink past your "safe" point it can become dangerous for people who have lower serentonin levels in their brains, might not happen all the time, but it is more profound when mixed with alcohol and more pronounced in ppl as they get older. Do some research, explain and talk about what you find with him, and cut out drinking altogether or really pace yourself. Youa re responsible for your own actions so you need to prevent bad scenes whenever you can, especially now when you know theres a problem. Tequila bad bad bad for everyone lol.
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Yes i think you do what you need, no excuses.... Do what you can to survive, i cant wait to get out of the begging, hes the greatest thing stage if i ever will, I have a wrongly huge amount of forgiveness for people, so i have difficulty staying mad even though they may be bad at something i did. ITs difficult... Do what you have to do to save your self dont wuestion it, you owe her nothing.
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Yes so far it is, he came today (cant do NC share a 9 month old together) he wraped his arm around me and kissed my head, i began to cry without him knowing wondering if that was the last time i would ever feel his embrace. I want to sleep, and sleep for days, i have 5 kids i cant do that, but i soooo wish i had the option, his life is filled with family and work and his kids, and mine is very very empty, no family no real friends. Just my kids and i cant rely on them its not fair, so i am alone, aside from this site and reading other feelings and words i have no physical comfort, no nothing, he was everything i had. :
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I am in the same boat, my break is fresh and new, a day ago. I am sittng in his house, where we once chatted over a cooking dinner, laughed and played with our kids, and now there are the kids and me and a huge empty alone space. i walk by our once "active" bedroom and know i will never be curled up warm in his arms again, i will never cuddle on the couch and watch movies (our favorite thing) nothing will EVER be the same and i cant bare it. The deepest of despair i pray i will ever feel. And the thing that sucks most about it that this has nothign to do with us or our relationshp, we are both still very much in love. It has to do with my kids and choosing to gain custody of them. I know they come first, but it doesnt make this awful pain of letting this man walk out of our lives any better.
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no worries shes desperate to get you away from them for whatever reason, a selfish one i wuld guess. I would ignore those comments, shes trying anything to be controlling and get her way...
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i dont see what you need from us i think you answered your own questions.............
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Beginner needs advice about oral sex...what works?
kuhaaica replied to 97jeepkid's topic in Sex and Romance
ummm,,, suck them in and move your head back until they come out....you can do it as fast or slow as you like, just experiement. good luck -
UNTRUE! I had cervical cancer when i was thirteen and had NEVER been with a man, you may want to look up the facts first please............
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LMAO
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two words... anger management.
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now now you two..... At least get a room!
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There is no given time, i have heard it can take a year or more, i have seen ppl get over it in a short time (a few months) I think it depends on what you fill your life with in the mean time. Keep your self busy meet new ppl, as bad is this may be but i was with my ex for 9 years, when he left i thought i would literally DIE, but a month later i met my b/f now and really i got over my ex sooooooooo easily, now me and my b/f are facing a breakup and again i know i will DIE. It may come back to bite me, but it was the easiest way to survive the pain i felt by engaging myself in someone else. ALSO>>>>> STAY AWAY FROM TAKEN MEN
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Okay, well congrates to you to be able to make a decision as you have, but it was yours to make, dont let her immature "venting" on my spcae get to you, thats what she wants from you. I dont think either of you were ready to be in a serious commited relationship anyways. Just enjoy your adolesense and play everything light and casual. Good Luck
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Keep walking, someone who would do something so downlow and sleasy isnt worth your effort or time. you'll end up with herpies or something.... She is obviosuly not mature enough to deal with her emotions pro actively and she will need time for trial and error before she can have agood honest loving relationship. Do you really want to be around and on the end of all that trial and error, everytime shes feeling insecure she gives herself to stranger despite your feelings and her own self worth? I hope not.. like i said as hard as it may be ...keep walking, she has a lot of learning to do.
