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  1. Eh Im Canadian
    Just so you know, that is depression. I don't know about human tendencies to be bored around fall, I am generally pretty happy. School starting may suck, but it doesn't suck as much as most people say it does. Regardless of whether or not you have to learn hanging out with your friends is still fun. You are just feeling jaded toward different things because you don't know what you want to do. My advice is just keep doing new things until you find something you like, then keep trying so you keep the cycle of "interest" going. Hope you find what you are looking for.
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    Well, I don't really have any good advice on this subject. If she were a friend from school or something you could call her up? Do you know her phone number? avman is absolutely right, they key thing is to have a cool head. I don't think she has or is going to kill herself. Maybe she just had to go somewhere? Just keep hoping and praying, and tomorrow if she doesn't send you a message, I might get a little worried. There are things you could do with IP addresses to find her location, but I barely know how to locate someone, and I am unable to get my dad to teach me. He calls it an invasion of personal privacy, if you know any of her friends, try telling them to find her, and email her. All I can say is Good Luck.
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    Oh ok, I guess I just got the two confused. I was klind of sleepy last night and I went and asked my mom this morning, and she said that too. Sorry I was wrong.
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    Now comes the question of "How do I make friends with only one of them?". As I said before, they are both each others best friend, and they are always together. It makes things slightly more difficult because of this. Ok thank you all for your help, I hope I can actually do all the things you said.
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    You brought up a good point. I forgot to mention this. These two friends are basically inseperable, and do not have many other friends. So I was basically taking away their friendship, so I decided to stop. But I should have just tried to be both of their friends, that would have worked out much better.
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    I have this one nagging question that I have had for quite some time now. How do you say you are sorry to someone when you want to try and be their friend? I guess I don't do a lot of really dumb stuff, at least the type that get people angry at me. I did this particular dumb thing a while ago, and I don't know how to fix it. I don't think I have the courage to talk to this person face to face, so I am thinking about writing a letter. Yeah, I haven't given any specifics about what happened so I'll do that now. There was this girl. I wanted to be her friend. Her best friend hated my guts, because I took all the attention away from her. So, since I didn't want to ruin their friendhsip, I broke off all contact, which I now am questioning the wisdom of that decision. Ruining their friendship would have been bad, but I shouldn't have broken off ALL contact. I don't know anything else that I haven't said here, so this is basically all the information. What should I do? Thank you.
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    You may need a M. D. to be a psychologist, but to be a psychotherapist, you don't. The big difference is psychologists are allowed to prescribe drugs. I personally think that while psychotherapist not only sounds cooler, people also view it as something better than a psychologist because the title sounds more important. You have to know a lot to be a psychologist, I have been studying depression and psychology for about a year now, and I know very little about it. It takes a LONG time and it is very difficult. Try observing your friends and just see how they react to certain things. Hope you do well in whatever you choose.
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    I am just going to tell you what I think it is. I believe that you are a little depressed, but you keep trying to tell yourself you aren't. You just have a lot to think about, and I have a feeling you are exaggerating about the not being able to separate. About the world being designed around you, no offense, but that is kind of an ego thing. Trust me, the world was not designed around you or anyone else. Well actually, it doesn't matter whether you trust me or not, but still remember what I am saying. While a lot of people act fake, and try to be people that they aren't, that doesn't mean they actually aren't real. I recommend reading a book called Total Recall. I think they made it into a movie, but It probably doesn't get the point accross. There are many copies of this book, but the one I read was by Piers Anthony. Yeah, hope you find what you are looking for in life, and Good Luck. [/i]
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    Yup this is me. E N T P 28 100 17 72 * moderately expressed extrovert * very expressed intuitive personality * slightly expressed thinking personality * distinctively expressed perceiving personality The thingy said I was an inventor, and while this is true, I think a lot more than I invent. Oh well, it is a cool test, I'll see what my friends are too.
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    Well, I don't really care what people look like, I mostly care about how they act and what their personality is. They have to be comfortable talking to people, because if someone is really nervous whenever you talk or flirt with them, then it just doesn't work out very well. I also look for someone who has high self esteem, and doesn't just stop trying at something just because everyones tells them they are wrong. I guess I just really like smiles, if you are going for a physical trait. You should just wait and find someone who likes you, not who you try to act like. Good Luck.
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    I'll bet if you said you didn't like being called that, not only would you sound incredibly odd, and he would probably keep calling you more names. Eventually, if you keep telling you don't appreciate what he is doing, he'll stop. It takes a while, but if you want to stay friends with this kid, you should try it. Hope it works for you.
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    Sure it would be a good time. Parties are great times to ask girls out. But don't make it seem like a huge deal, like asking her to go to another room or something. Just walk up to her and ask her. She could be interested, there is a strong possibility of it. Look at my lil quote on dating, and keep repeating that through your head until you go up and ask her. Good Luck.
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    Well the answer to that is the same for both questions. You ask him. If you want to do something over the summer, you call him up, or go up to him and say " Hey, I was wondering if you wanna do something this summer?". Voila! If he says yes, believe it or not, you will go do something with him over the summer! As for being jealous about the other girl, who may or may not be liked by him, I would just ignore that part. If you ask him out over the summer, you should be able to tell if he likes you. He will most likely say yes if you ask him, because guys love it when girls ask them out. Good Luck
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    This guy came to our school and talked about this. The same thing happened to him, except, it was with his best friends ex-girlfriend. Evidently, she had forgotten to take her pill the following morning, and while she had only been doing it to get her ex angry, she actually got pregnant. He ended up putting the baby up for adoption, and his life was pretty bad for a long time. His parents threw him out of their house, and banned him from coming back. He had to live with his friend for like 2 years before he graduated college and went somewhere else. I don't really know what to do, maybe you should have them put it up for adoption? They don't need to spend the rest of their lives with each other, especially if they don't love each other. Ask him how he feels about her, and if he says really angry, then he probably doesn't really love her. I don't know all the details, so you should just do what you think is right. Good Luck.
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    Yeah, I'm pretty sure thats not an orgasm too. I guess maybe you just are feeling really excited, that could be it? But an orgasm when you walk past someone? Thats like a fat lady walking past a chocolate store and gaining 50 pounds. I have a feeling your friend that said it was an orgasm is playing around with you. I remember I told some kid that saying something was "lame" meant something was really cool. For a week, he said everything was totally lame. It was funny, and I have a feeling your friend is doing something similar to you. By the way, could you avoid typing in pink? It is really hard to read.
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    Yeah, sebulous gave great advice, but there is one thing to remember. If she likes you back, there is no end to what kind of stupid things you can do, and she'll still say yes. You sound exactly how I did about 3 years ago on my first date. I had an advantage over you, in that I was sure that she liked me, because we had gone to a dance together, and hung out all the time. If you really know this girl, then just call her up and say something to her. A big mistake people sometimes make is saying "hi, (name)" and it actually turns out to be a sibling or parent. Say Hi, can I speak to (name) instead. I know a great site that I found, and it has some swear words in it, so if you are offended by that kind of thing, don't go. heres the link. link removed Good Luck.
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    Maybe you shoudln't be noticing those things if they don't make you happy. It is true, you can't gain something without losing something else, so maybe if you don't want to be depressed and you dont want to be happy, so stay neutral. Wht kind of things make you feel selfish? Perhaps you are finding joy in the wrong things. I always feel happy if I help someone, so I don't know how that could be selfish. I also feel happy when I win something, but you could see that as selfish. In order for me to win, someone else has gotta lose. So should you feel bad everytime you play a sport and you beat the other team? Of course not, then everybody would be depressed. Of course, a lot of people are depressed a lot, so I guess I just disproved my point. But you got the message of what I was trying to say. Good Luck in finding happiness.
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    I disagree with one thing that tainted_soul said. That thing was that wanting to be depressed wasn't a little bit crazy. If you could feel happy, and by definition of happiness for me (and link removed): Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy. Now give me one reason that you WOULDN'T want to have joy in your life? I don't want some bogus reason, like : Because I don't, or Because I like being depressed, thats like saying "I'm right because I'm smarter than you, and I'm smarter than you because I'm right." Joy is what everyone wanst, in one form or another. They can tell themselves that they don't, but whenever they experience joy, they like it. And since being depressed means not being joyful, it is the opposite of what you really want. Yeah I tried to find a good analogy for this, but I couldn't so you'll just have to visualize what I am talking about.
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    Nah, your not going insane. Well, maybe wanting to be depressed is a little crazy, but thats about it. I guess you are finally coming to terms with the fact that no matter what you do or say, nothing you do will matter all that much. Regardless of the fact that everyone says people will do things that are amazing, the only way to do it is to value that thing more than your own life. You aare running out of time. Every second that goes by will never happen again no matter what you do. Take intiative and try and let yourself flow with everyone else, until you get a chance to make a change, These chances don't happen often, so you will have to always pay attention so you'll know when you get them . That is what I think you are looking for. You want a goal that will make a difference if you succeed, and prove that you aren't going to grow up to be the vice president of accounting at some random company that nobody knows about. Hope I helped.
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    YEah, I think he is feeling kind of insulted by what you said. It's not your fault at all, I guess he must just like you. I mean how would you feel if the guy you liked the msot came up to you and said, "Do you know any hot people?". That would kind of seem like you are saying he isn't a person who you would want to go out with. Yeah, thats just what I think, but it could be something else.
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    Yeah, what puma says is true, but in order to get these imbalances, you have to masturbate A LOT. This doesn't happen if you do it once or twice a day, so don't worry. Also, any changes that these make are USUALLY not permanent. Anything could be permanent for certain people. Your body is always fighting to balance itself out. I just saw the words "anal breathing", and decided not to see what that was. I agree with you completely puma, that is possibly the most disgusting sounding thing I have ever heard.
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    I would be bothered by it if I were a girl, but I have feeling he was just kind of surprised. You said you kind of look like his sister, and the only difference was in the hair. So he probably woke up, saw the hair, figured it was his sister, and was like "Uh oh, I hope I didn't do what I am thinking I did!". Then he realized it was you and thought nothing more of it. You should stop bringing it up, because it is kind of an embarrassing topic. They have a close-knit family, so they probably just care about each other a lot. Don't worry about it, and if he starts to go out with his sister, I am terribly sorry. I just don't think thats gonna happen anytime soon though. Good Luck.
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    Well, there a lot of things that make me happy. One is helping people out, online, and at school. Another is petting a kitten. Lets see, another is cooking a meal that everybody likes. Theres a long list, but it would keep going on and on. I guess the biggest one is being around other people who are happy.
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    Well, I did a work out plan that lost me 20 pounds over the course of 3 months, with no diet change. In fact I've been eating less healthy than usal lately, but I got down to 145 (I am 6"1). It took a lot of hard work, but I planned it around my school day. First, I would wake up at 530, and play tennis until 7. Then I would do all my stuff as usual, bike 9 miles to school, and I was also on the school tennis team. I would do all of my stuff for tennis, then bike back, the 9 miles. Then at 8 o clock at night, I would do do sit ups and push ups for half an hour. Yeah, that was my day for 3 months, then tennis ended and I have to play with my friends to stay really good.
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    Uhh, Sebulous, isn't preparation H cream to make your butt feel better?I just checked and it is hemmaroid (spelling?) cream. Just out of curiosity, how does that get rid of pimples?
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