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  1. i have an idea what im gonna say, but it changes each time oh, and i forgot to mention. shes going on a trip friday, and i thought it a good idea to have her think it over during her trip. but should i say it or hope she makes the decision first?
  2. so i need help asap. i know i need confidence, and i have it, but how to i show it? not stutter? dont say "um.." help please! you guys rock -hybrid
  3. dang, that was the fastest any of my topics has ever been replyed to but, i guess youre right, if she even noticed then she probably assumed that i was too gittery to do much else. i dont know, but i think she likes me on a level just more than friends, but, i might be fooling myself.
  4. ok, me and rusty_boi have been keeping up correspondance as of late but i sent him a message yesterday and he hasnt posted since febuary and need help soon, so ill post it here too. now, long story short, i like this girl. we're both in the school play that had its last showing yesterday night. well, last week we were talking on the phone and she talked about how she was afraid that phil (the main character) wouldnt have his lines memorized and would need to hint at the lines. so, i tried to tell her that she didnt have to do that, but (i might be overanalysing) i said "it isnt your place to have to do that, you alredy have your lines" but im afraid that i sounded too much like a jerk, so even if i am overanalysing im still gonna apologize now, yesterday was the last showing, she was the other main character and when she said her last line and walked off, she was so happy that she immediately grabbed my hand, but i was distracted because i have a long part afterwards that i have to do, so i just kinda shook her hand, but she was doing one of those exited bounces so i dont think she thought much of it. but if she did, from a girls point of veiw would that tell you that a guy isnt interested? because i really like her, but sometimes i think i give off the wrong vibes. ive liked this girl for a few months now, but i havent asked her out because shes really busy, but now without the play, im gonna ask her out soon now help as soon as possible please! -hybrid
  5. how should i do it though? we go to 2 different schools, in mine, when you ask someone out you dont have to go anywhere but youre girlfriend and boyfriend. i dont know how it goes in her school. i dont know what to say... im not very good at this
  6. it didnt feel right when we got back from the trip, thats why i didnt. i have to suck it up and do it sometime.
  7. ok. ill go to church tomorrow, and talk to her, if it feels right, ill ask her to go out with me. well.... maybe. if not, ill ask her for her phone number... or her instant messenger screen name
  8. again i come to you with my confusing relationships settle in, this is a big post. really sorry. this time its about me and this other girl at my church, we knew each other from when we used to go to school together and our parents are good friends ok, so friday i went to an all-night/some of day after thing at my church. during the night portion me and my friends that i brought along (my friend adam and his girlfriend) mostly hung out together, i didnt talk at all to her. the next day the whole thing broke up to go do community service, i was on the leaf raking team with my friends and her, there wasnt enough room in the van we took so one person always had to sit on the edge of the middle seat and everyone had to sit close in that row. anyway, we went to the first house and started talking while raking. when we got in the van to go to the next house we sat really close (i think its because we had to) we went to the next house and flirted a bit. we got cold so we went back to the van. we sat close again but noone else was sitting there (i think its because we were expecting my friends to sit there soon) the driver got a bit confused so we went ahead and ate our lunches (at wendys, ham sandwitches at wendys lol) anyway, we sat at a small table and talked/flirted a bit more, she went to get some napkins so i looked at my friend (adam) because he was siting with his girlfriend behind me, he looked at me and pointed at the girl (lets just call her dawn) and gave me the crossed fingers sign. we were getting ready to leave when she shoved her mountain dew in my hands and said that she had to go to the bathroom so i went out to the van. the next house was realativily uneventful, but when we all piled into the van, she got the corner seat, and said "oh, cant i sit somewhere else? i dont want this seat" so i said jokingly "you dont want to sit next to me?" she said "no, i still want to sit next to you" we switched seats. oh! i dont know if this is anything but every once and a while to shove the leaves down into the bag better, she would have me pick her up and she would stomp on the leaves. other times she would just close up the bag and sit on it, i would hold her so she wouldnt fall backwards the house after that, we were alone in the backyard. we discussed a few things, she kept mentioning that she broke up with her boyfriend yesterday. we worked our way up to the front and then we were about to leave when she noticed the neibor dogs, she was trying to fake bark at them but she couldnt open the window, so i put my arms around her and opened both of the clasps for her. on our way to the next house, adam whispered to me "you missed it! you couldve had your arm around her!" i felt like a complete idiot. well, it might have been a good thing because 10 minutes later she told adam and his girlfriend to cut the PDA because she was on him partially (his girlfriend was on the corner so she had no choice, but dawn didnt see this) the next house, we were doing that little strip of grass in between the sidewalk and the road, and she said it was still cold, so i said then take my coat, i took it off and tried to put it on her (one handed, didnt really work too well) she took it and put it on, she said "but youre only wearing a short sleeve shirt, wont you be cold?" i said "i dont think its that cold out" (it really wasnt, it was 2 pm, i thought it fine out) the last few houses, she was really tired and didnt talk much. we went back to the church. me and my friends played hacky sack in the gym. dawn walked into the room with her friend and i asked where my coat was. i went home with my friends, but i had to go to the youth room to get my stuff. dawn said bye to me specifically. sorry for the huge post, but i wanted to make sure i included details. so did i miss my chance to ask her out? we only see each other at church and if i dont see her until next week, she might have asked someone else out. need help as soon as possible!
  9. bump cmon i really need help with this one!
  10. sorry for all these questions she was crying in my last class today, i asked her what was wrong and she said she didnt want to talk about it. she had to leave early so i told her that "i hope you feel better" as she passed. what should i do? btw, my friend sam was trying to make her feel better too, but we both realised we have no idea what to do in those situations
  11. ok, i usually have a reply by now. i guess i wasnt too clear. i think i need conversational tips. we were talking in the hall earlyer today after school and this is basically how it went me-you know, we dont talk enough during school her-well, thats because we only have 1 class together me- i know her-(jokingly)well why did you make it like that?! maybe i should change all my classes so were in each one! me-its not my fault! i only chose the classes! the school chooses my schedule! her-(still playfully)well, im mad at you! me-heh err.... she just kind of smiled and laughed i got distracted by a teacher pointing out my broken bookbag me-well ill see you monday, unless youre still mad at me well, umm..... comments? suggestions/conversational tips?
  12. sorry for dragging up an old post, aarrgh! i cant freakin talk to her! whenever i get the chance i screw it up. my brain just kinda sticks and i cant think of anything to say. im not even sure that when she smiles at me wether its just to be nice or something else (most likely the latter). she gave me one of her school pictures today and i wanted to say something but i couldnt think! aaaaaarrrgh!! again, sorry for dragging up an old post
  13. thanks guys. well, ive been talking to her alot more and theres nothing new. so one of my friends offered to ask her what she thinks of me (mixed with a few other guys in the school) and ive been wondering if this is the right way to go? if my friend forgets to add in a few other guys and just asks about me, then im afraid that she'll back off from me.
  14. Well, its a long and complicated story, but i was gonna ask her out a year ago, i didnt really know her that well and made the idiot mistake of telling my friend. Within a day it was throughout the school and i made an idiot of myself. She went out with the popular guy, of course . Anyway, i backed off for a long time, flirted with other girls, got regected of course. Then the next school year came and i think she might have broken up with the popular guy. I found her aim screen name in my friends profile and i imd her. We talked for a while and i think i like her again. But whenever i try to talk to her irl, i somehow always leave the conversation feeling like an idiot (even just asking to borrow her pen today made me feel stupid ). Its really hard to talk to her in school because she hangs out with her friends and i hang out with mine and i dont even know the names of her friends so thats something i might have to work on. And it might just be my imagination, but whenever i look at her she looks at me and smiles. Maybe im just fooling myself, i know ill never get a girlfriend anyway, because my weight loss plan fell through . so, i guess i actually have 2 questions 1. how am i supposed to talk to her without making a fool of myself? and 2. how am i suppost to get to know her better? ill try to look at this as much as i can and post replys to any of your questions oh, and if you look through my posts and wonder "what happened to the girl he was having flirting problems with?" she went out with someone else.... one of my best friends, i dont know if that makes it better or worse (and adam! if you see this, dont you dare tell anyone... yes you, i dont know if you still look through this site or not)
  15. im probably only going to use the treadmil & stationary bikes. i really wasnt thinking about gaining muscle but i will do weightlifting a few times a week. motavation wont be too much of a problem because theres nothing to do over the summer. i think the hardest part will be the dieting so any tips on that? im about 230 pounds, im 15, & about 5'7" ish so i dont know how overweight i am, really.
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