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Attraction is one thing. While is isn't harmful in any way, it is if your considering breaking up with your boyfriend of how long...three years...for something that will probably come and go within a short period of time. Since you have been with your boyfriend for quite some time, it's natrual to start looking around and be curious about other people... What you do is give it time...and realize that these feelings are normal and natrual, if not towards his brother, than towards someone else...they will pass and life will move on. Cheers xguardianofdrx
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First of all, this question is from an overparanoid teenager, who can't take his own advice. Thank You. I have a girlfriend of over a month and change. I am her first boyfriend, and I had been out of the game for a while. With that said, things are obvoiusly a bit awkard, and that was expected by me. We kissed for the first time about a week ago. We hang out once or twice a week at most, and we see eachother in school all the time. She seems distant at times, which is normal, but moreso than any other girl i've dated. I guess this is where i need you guys's help. First of all, I have nothing to worry about. She really likes me, and vice versa, so that's not part of the problem. We hung out the other day, just us, and she was all cuddly and flirty with me. Yesterday was her prom, and somehow we got through the whole night w/o kissing, which for us is a sporadic but not strange occourence. Also, I can only point out a few select times where she has made any advance on me, and her instigating a kiss just doesn't seem to be possible, lol. How do I treat this situation? Could it be that she's nervous bc i'm her first boyfriend? Is it the kind of thing where time will be the healer? I don't know, so thanks for anything you guys can give me... Peace and Thanks -JR
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That's awesome dude, it's nice to hear about people helping others for nothing other than the satisfaction that they helped people, and the recognition is always a self esteem booster... Keep it up, lol -xguardianofdrx-
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Well congratulations! Hope everything keeps going so well, keep us posted. -xguardianofdrx-
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Shes mad at me. whats wrong with her?
deRocket5 replied to Strictly4MyGrind's topic in Relationship Advice
well, how long have you two been dating? has she done this kind of thing in the past, just less severe? and did anything significant happen just before she turned this way, either this time or in the past? -derocket5- -
The email says your not out of the game! Take it slow, and just go with it. I'm sure she really is busy, so just wait a few days, and try and find a time after all the homework, when she's free, then go from there.
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Some, shy guys tend to wait until there absolutly sure that something is gonna work out, that whole fear of rejection thing. Other just want to hear it from the other girl sometimes, lol. I think there's no real harm in asking him out somewhere. The guy doesn't always have to be the one to ask the girl out, at least in thie day and age, so if you feel it, go for it. Also, don't listen to things other people say. No matter how close they are to you, they could just be misinformed or have heard a story from one of his enemies (not that he has any, but i think you can see the point). So just go for it, cause waiting forever never bodes well, lol, GOOD LUCK! -derocket5-
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I knew it, lol, you over-analyze too much mate, lol Relax, things are gonna turn out one way or another, an sometimes, times like her feelings, there's not much you can do to change that, except staying close. Remember: IGNORANCE IS BLISS, trust me, lol xguardianofdrx
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Awesome song, even better lesson. Kinda goes along with the whole, when your at your worst, is when your really at your best sorta thing. And being in that sort of position, it was nice to read this and hear that insight. Thanks. xguardianofdrx
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rayf is right mate, you'll never know if you don't give it another try, otherwise, you'll live not knowing, and that my friend will suck worse...don't try and read TOO too much into what girls say and the way they say it, otherwise, you'll end up asking questions that will drive you mad, lol Peace
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While the 'busy weekend' is a very common avoiding tactic of women, it could also be ligit. If you wanna find out, call her, try and talk to her a few times, if she enjoy's talking to you, then you'll know, if she doesn't, she'll avoid talking to you and such, but exams are a stressful time. See if you can set up lunch or something during the week before exams. Hope this helps and good luck, lemme know how it goes. xguardianofdrx
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This will be fun: I dated this girl a year or so back. It was conpletely mutual, but we fought like hellcats before and during the relationship, yet we still wanted it. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else, a girl, a girl who at one time was my best friend, lets call her K...A few months passed and we decided to give it another try, yet again it failed. I didn't talk to her, or the girl she dated for about 9 months, but recently, me and K started talking again. She apoligized for the whole thing, and wanted to make sure that the reason for me talking to her again wasn't to get back with my ex. I told her it wasn't, yet I wasn't really sure about that. I would never use K to get to my ex, but part of my still wants what we had, which when we weren't fighting, was amazing. I guess I just need to know where to go from here. On the one hand, I can go give it another try, knowing that K is still madly in love with my ex, betray K's trust and shoot for it again. Or if I'm just talkin crazy stuff. K has messed with my head since say one, so is all fair in love and war? Thanks -James
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A few things: 1. If you and this long distance girl keep the distance, then there's always gonna be that emotional pressure. While you two are in love when your around eachother, if it tears you both apart when your away, and you two are still gonna end up away, then there's little you can do about that. 2. I don't know how old you are or what grade your in, but high school is short mate, live it up. If you like this girl at all or think things could work, then go for it, unless your gonna spend the whole time thinking about the long distance girl, in which case you should get some plane tickets and do something totally of the wall, lol. But life is short, don't spend it looking back, spend it looking forward. That's just my outlook, hope it helps... - xguardianofdrx -
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It's short.. opinions?
deRocket5 replied to SuperDuper's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
this is why IM is bad for relationsihps, don't trust that stuff...either ask her or let it go...in person is the only way... its not much, but i hope it helps a little bit xguardianofdrx -
I just had a nice long talk with my ex-girlfriend...about the fact that I still liked her...she has a boyfriend now, but keeps telling me that it won't last long... In the convo we had tonight she basically said that she didn't wanna date bc she was afraid to lose me as a friend (pretty basic right). I tried to assure her that that wouldn't happen, cause I sure as hell wouldn't let it, as she wouldn't, but she assured me that the future was uncertain... Two part question...do I wait around and see if she changes her mind, and if theres anything I can do to maybe speed up the process...basically is it worth it...idk thanks...
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Can someone please help..............im hitting rock bottom
deRocket5 replied to swift44's topic in Emotions and Feelings
you just gotta have faith inside that everything happens for a reason...and that in the end, the jerks will get theirs and the good guys will reap the rewards... get strength off your friends, tough it out...its a test from the inside...talk to them, whoever you have to...the lord works in mysterious ways, and in the end, you'll be much stronger having overcome all this... good luck, im here if you need to talk/yell/vent/ w/e xguardianofdrx -
I dated this girl a year and a half back or so, she was amazing, and i had liked her for almost a year...after dating about 3 months, we broke up, check that, i broke up with her, cause i did some soul searching... recently, sh'e come back into my life...she has a boyfriend now, 7 months or so, but everyone that has talked to her is talking about how that's not gonna last much longer... recently, i've been getting all these invitations from other girls, girls that normally i would date at will...except my mind seems to be stuck on jen (my-ex, mentioned above)... we've spent a lot of time together in the past few months, kind of a revival of sorts...we've had campfires, and she's come to a few of them...i called her yesterday, didn't leave a message, and she called back and left a message, wondering when the next fire is and such...twice since then she hasn't been able to come... my questions is, whats better...to hold on to the hope that we'll end up together in the near(ish) future, because i know that we would be perfect for eachother, and everyone else does too.....or.....to spend time with these other girls who are (almost) jumping to hang out/go on a date w/ me... thanks in advance -xguardianofdrx-
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it's not much, but complete honesty, no beating around the bush...if they really love you, and want you to be happy, they'll accept it after what may be the immediate shock...like i said...its not much of a help, but i hope its a little... -xguardianofdrx-
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first off, this sounds very familiar your not gonna be able to get rid of the anger and jealousy for a while, its natrual...just don't do anything stupid. As for her parent's not trusting you, I don't really know what that's about, but for a girl to break up with you just because of that, just goes to show that she isn't the one mate. If she was, she would have fought her parents tooth and nail until they locked her in the basement, and ever then she would have found a way to make it work. As hard as this all may be to believe, you have to accept it. There's nothing you can do to change what's going on now, it's just stupid luck i guess, but I know the feeling. One of my ex's broke up with me cause her family/friends didn't really like me, which is a stupid reason. After hating her for months, I finally decided that it wasn't worth hating her, even though she ended up dating a girlfriend (that's right, girlfriend), about 3 days later. It's gonna take a lot of work, but your gonna have to just let it go... Sorry mate, hope this helps, and if it doesn't, ill be here to help... -xguardianordrx-
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that's a very generic question, lol, whie i'm not ognna give you a direct quote, ill give you advice go with what feels natrual. if that means that you make a complete 'balls out' move, then go for it. but if you don't feel comfortable doing that, then do something simple like pull her aside somewhere and ask her... Once, my friend, who had just met a girl, went up to her and out of the blue told her that she was the most beautiful girl in the world and if there was any chance that she'd want to hang out with him then he would be estatic. It's up to you... hope that helps -xguardianofdrx-
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I don't know. Are these things true?
deRocket5 replied to Demonblade's topic in Friendship and Friends
as for you guys making a bute couple, lol, that's not really our area of juristiction, what i can tell you is this: As for poems/visions/etc. that's all well and good, but its not quite love. Love is the feeling, that you would do anything for this girl. You would trade your life for hers if you had to, and you wouldn't be complete without her. Whether or not you feel this way, is something that we cannot tell you. Its a feeling that only you can decide if you feel, and when you do you'll know. So if that's the case, then the best of luck to ya, and i'll help in any way i can, that's why were here... hope that helps -xguardianofdrx- -
sad thing is i JUST got through telling my buddy the same things: look...sometimes, life's a pain, but if you stop trying now, where's that gonna leave ya?, its gonna leave ya nowhere. Dating is a mine field, trust me. I promise you'll be shot down more times than once thought humanly possible, cause that's the way life is. what you have to do is keep fighting until you find one who is truly worth fighting for, and then you fight for her. the question then wont be how far youll be willing to go, but rather if your ready to go as far as needed (b.s. quote) ...and if things don't work out, you just gotta dust yourself off and try again, cause thats the way dating works... there is always a reason to keep trying, there is someone out there, and i wish you the best of luck in finding her... hope this helps -guardianofdr-
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your in a textbook funk, nothing more to say about that...there's not much you can do...but what you can try, is to spend a lot of time with the people you care about, that care about you. find reasons to fight for, people, events, anything. if worse comes to worse, you might consider getting actual professional help, cause it can't hurt. i hope you get through the funk, and i hope this helped a little -guardianofdr-
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How do I act to keep her interested?
deRocket5 replied to settinuplife's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
first of all...if you love her, you will want her to be happy, no matter who shes with, so if they are happy, then you should not make any move... but... since i am in a similar situation, just keep talking to her, going places with her, friend stuff. Have a campfire or something. unfortuniatly, the only real thing you can do is keep doing what your doing, and wait. If things are susposed to work themselves out so that your together in the end, then they will. just gotta have faith i guess so yeah. keep in touch with her, go places, hang out, dont do anything stupid, lol hope this helps, cause if it does for you, then it will for me too -guardianofdr- -
from what you said, rebound seems likely... as for your last statement, the 'isnt it easy to get over someone' statement...this isn't always true. many times, espically in rebound situations, the person mind is always on the one they were with as opposed to the one that they are with. I can say from personal experience, the last time i split with someone, i missed her even though i soon after had a new girlfriend. Thats the way rebounds tend to work. hope that helps -guardianofdr-