deRocket5
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Attraction is one thing. While is isn't harmful in any way, it is if your considering breaking up with your boyfriend of how long...three years...for something that will probably come and go within a short period of time. Since you have been with your boyfriend for quite some time, it's natrual to start looking around and be curious about other people... What you do is give it time...and realize that these feelings are normal and natrual, if not towards his brother, than towards someone else...they will pass and life will move on. Cheers xguardianofdrx
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First of all, this question is from an overparanoid teenager, who can't take his own advice. Thank You. I have a girlfriend of over a month and change. I am her first boyfriend, and I had been out of the game for a while. With that said, things are obvoiusly a bit awkard, and that was expected by me. We kissed for the first time about a week ago. We hang out once or twice a week at most, and we see eachother in school all the time. She seems distant at times, which is normal, but moreso than any other girl i've dated. I guess this is where i need you guys's help. First of all, I have nothing to worry about. She really likes me, and vice versa, so that's not part of the problem. We hung out the other day, just us, and she was all cuddly and flirty with me. Yesterday was her prom, and somehow we got through the whole night w/o kissing, which for us is a sporadic but not strange occourence. Also, I can only point out a few select times where she has made any advance on me, and her instigating a kiss just doesn't seem to be possible, lol. How do I treat this situation? Could it be that she's nervous bc i'm her first boyfriend? Is it the kind of thing where time will be the healer? I don't know, so thanks for anything you guys can give me... Peace and Thanks -JR
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That's awesome dude, it's nice to hear about people helping others for nothing other than the satisfaction that they helped people, and the recognition is always a self esteem booster... Keep it up, lol -xguardianofdrx-
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Well congratulations! Hope everything keeps going so well, keep us posted. -xguardianofdrx-
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Shes mad at me. whats wrong with her?
deRocket5 replied to Strictly4MyGrind's topic in Relationship Advice
well, how long have you two been dating? has she done this kind of thing in the past, just less severe? and did anything significant happen just before she turned this way, either this time or in the past? -derocket5- -
The email says your not out of the game! Take it slow, and just go with it. I'm sure she really is busy, so just wait a few days, and try and find a time after all the homework, when she's free, then go from there.
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Some, shy guys tend to wait until there absolutly sure that something is gonna work out, that whole fear of rejection thing. Other just want to hear it from the other girl sometimes, lol. I think there's no real harm in asking him out somewhere. The guy doesn't always have to be the one to ask the girl out, at least in thie day and age, so if you feel it, go for it. Also, don't listen to things other people say. No matter how close they are to you, they could just be misinformed or have heard a story from one of his enemies (not that he has any, but i think you can see the point). So just go for it, cause waiting forever never bodes well, lol, GOOD LUCK! -derocket5-
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I knew it, lol, you over-analyze too much mate, lol Relax, things are gonna turn out one way or another, an sometimes, times like her feelings, there's not much you can do to change that, except staying close. Remember: IGNORANCE IS BLISS, trust me, lol xguardianofdrx
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Awesome song, even better lesson. Kinda goes along with the whole, when your at your worst, is when your really at your best sorta thing. And being in that sort of position, it was nice to read this and hear that insight. Thanks. xguardianofdrx
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rayf is right mate, you'll never know if you don't give it another try, otherwise, you'll live not knowing, and that my friend will suck worse...don't try and read TOO too much into what girls say and the way they say it, otherwise, you'll end up asking questions that will drive you mad, lol Peace
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While the 'busy weekend' is a very common avoiding tactic of women, it could also be ligit. If you wanna find out, call her, try and talk to her a few times, if she enjoy's talking to you, then you'll know, if she doesn't, she'll avoid talking to you and such, but exams are a stressful time. See if you can set up lunch or something during the week before exams. Hope this helps and good luck, lemme know how it goes. xguardianofdrx
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This will be fun: I dated this girl a year or so back. It was conpletely mutual, but we fought like hellcats before and during the relationship, yet we still wanted it. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else, a girl, a girl who at one time was my best friend, lets call her K...A few months passed and we decided to give it another try, yet again it failed. I didn't talk to her, or the girl she dated for about 9 months, but recently, me and K started talking again. She apoligized for the whole thing, and wanted to make sure that the reason for me talking to her again wasn't to get back with my ex. I told her it wasn't, yet I wasn't really sure about that. I would never use K to get to my ex, but part of my still wants what we had, which when we weren't fighting, was amazing. I guess I just need to know where to go from here. On the one hand, I can go give it another try, knowing that K is still madly in love with my ex, betray K's trust and shoot for it again. Or if I'm just talkin crazy stuff. K has messed with my head since say one, so is all fair in love and war? Thanks -James
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A few things: 1. If you and this long distance girl keep the distance, then there's always gonna be that emotional pressure. While you two are in love when your around eachother, if it tears you both apart when your away, and you two are still gonna end up away, then there's little you can do about that. 2. I don't know how old you are or what grade your in, but high school is short mate, live it up. If you like this girl at all or think things could work, then go for it, unless your gonna spend the whole time thinking about the long distance girl, in which case you should get some plane tickets and do something totally of the wall, lol. But life is short, don't spend it looking back, spend it looking forward. That's just my outlook, hope it helps... - xguardianofdrx -
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It's short.. opinions?
deRocket5 replied to SuperDuper's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
this is why IM is bad for relationsihps, don't trust that stuff...either ask her or let it go...in person is the only way... its not much, but i hope it helps a little bit xguardianofdrx -
I just had a nice long talk with my ex-girlfriend...about the fact that I still liked her...she has a boyfriend now, but keeps telling me that it won't last long... In the convo we had tonight she basically said that she didn't wanna date bc she was afraid to lose me as a friend (pretty basic right). I tried to assure her that that wouldn't happen, cause I sure as hell wouldn't let it, as she wouldn't, but she assured me that the future was uncertain... Two part question...do I wait around and see if she changes her mind, and if theres anything I can do to maybe speed up the process...basically is it worth it...idk thanks...