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rocio

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  1. Kevin, I thought you were the white-haired guy with the ripped chest in your avatar. That's not yOU!?
  2. I challenge you to a date then. You take me on a date and if you don't have a fabulous time, then I owe you $40.
  3. I would say you're crazy and sad. But there isn't a single person in the world who's not crazy. There are disfunctional crazy people and functional crazy people. You might want to focus on becoming a little more functionally crazy. For me, it helps to pretend life is a video game. I run around collecting gold coins and banging my head against bricks. It's fun, hehe.
  4. Dating is so much fun. It's my favorite hobby. Especially when you don't take yourself or your date too seriously, and if you don't expect anything out of it. It's also fun to perform social experiments on your dates and to poke fun of them (without them knowing it). It's free supper and it makes you feel good about yourself when they get all gaga over you.
  5. I think it is something you kind of have to rush. You are already 3 months. They normally won't do an abortion after about 4 months. Also, the longer you wait, the more painful it will be.. physically and emotionally. Do what you feel is right in your heart. Neither decision is wrong. Just different paths.
  6. I don't know what the NHS is but it's really too bad that you had to wait for a month. This is going to be heartbreaking for you, especially after bonding with it for a month. Since you are quite far along, they will probably still want to do the scan (scan = british / ultrasound = american... same thing) You don't have to look though.
  7. Don't be scared. I've never had to go through this myself, but have helped friends through the process. Alot of it depends on how far along you are. If you are not sure about when you had your last period, then they will likely do a scan. They won't do anything tomorrow though. They will ask you questions, but nothing tough and they will be nice about it. Then they will schedule whatever comes next and they should offer you counciling. Do you have a friend who can accompany you? Make sure that you only share this news with people who will be totally supportive. You will be going through a rough time in the next few days, weeks, maybe even months. You don't need other people making it worse. You will be okay.
  8. However, respectfully, this poster doesn't want to be a doctor or a lawyer or a teacher. He wishes to be an entrepeneur and I certainly think that 4 years of hands-on experience (perhaps coupled with some casual courses in accounting and business) would get him much further. How many people do you know that came out of school and started their own business soon after? I don't know any.
  9. Cool! Be strong and tell us all about it when you get back. And give Ian a big hug from us!
  10. Remember it's different for a woman. I don't really feel tired, in fact it gives me a boost. We can have multiple orgasms and come over and over. I wouldn't suggest a guy coming 7 times in one day. ouch.
  11. My graduate degree did me well also. But that is because it was what I truly wanted in my heart. I had specific goals. On the other hand, when I look at my friends that were less motivated, there are many of them who don't even use their degrees. And then I have friends who never went to college, own businesses, and make a ton of money doing something they love. The idea that you need a college degree to be successful is bs as far as I'm concerned.
  12. Male dominance is still sexy, even in 2006! I love to be slapped and have my hair pulled. Good porn also turns me on.
  13. My friend dated a guy for less than a year, and has been getting over him for almost 2 years now (with very little success). Have you totally cut him out of your life? (Continued contact just makes it harder.) Do you have an active social life? Are you motivated and working toward your goals? If so, then you're really doing all the right things. You'll get over him when you're ready.
  14. I understand. It sucks when we want to stop ourselves from doing something, and we don't succeed. I had that feeling for years with smoking cigarettes. I hated it and I disliked myself for doing it. But just kept lighting up. Don't get down on yourself. You're just a healthy guy who appreciates the female form. And you sound really sweet. I'm sure she'll give you another chance, if that's what you want.
  15. Sounds fun.. living in a motorhome and surfing all day. I would seriously love to do that. Sounds like paradise. But he's a father now. That should take priority over surfing and hanging out on the beach. Is he planning to contribute financially to the child? It sounds like your lives are going very quickly in two different directions. And how long do you plan to stay at home? It can be a great option as long as you feel good there. My sister, along with her husband and child, live with my mom. It's a great arrangement since she saves money and has a live-in babysitter. But do you feel comfortable there?
  16. Please tell me you weren't sleeping with these guys when you were underage because that's statutory rape. You may be into older guys, but these guys have been taking advantage of you. Especially if they were giving you drugs. As far as your question is concerned, it sounds like you're just not really into the 24 year old. So I wouldn't waste his time. I don't think you have to feel guilty. Just break up with him. But going out with the 28 year old doesn't really sound like a good idea. As yourself: Why would a 28 year old want a relationship with an 18 year old, instead of someone he has more in common with?
  17. I agree with shikashika. What is this girl's problem with porn? If she is upset about the treatment of women and the macho world of porn, then I understand. If she is concerned about the spread of std's and the risks associated with working in the porn industry, then I understand. If she is just insecure, then she has serious issues breaking up with you over this. Maybe she needs to work those out before you get back together. When you get into a relationship with someone, they should not expect you to change. And you should not allow them to control you.
  18. College is not all it's cracked up to be. Follow your heart.
  19. Unfortunately, what he is doing is not illegal. I know it's morally wrong, but as long as you knew he was videotaping you, then those videos belong to him. He can do as he likes with them. If he had hidden the camera and filmed you without your knowledge, that would be illegal. But since you sent him the pics and let him film you, you don't have a case. I would try not to piss him off.
  20. Why do you want to stop? When I was in school and studying alot, I would do it 5, 6, even 7 times in a day just for relief. Why are you feeling guilty about it? That is what I would focus on.
  21. Way to go! I like the fact that you are congratulating yourself. Why don't you take some time to enjoy the 'new you' before pushing yourself to lose even more? 6 weeks is really fast. Are you doing it through healthy means? Good Luck!
  22. I always stay in touch. Then they can see how much cooler, better looking, and more successful you've become than them.
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